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Joined: 10/2/2012 Posts: 3 Location: United Kingdom
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ladies, is it ok to have friends with benefits?
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Joined: 1/14/2011 Posts: 380
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Joined: 6/14/2010 Posts: 119 Location: uk
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I'd say yes. Why not.? I know a few friends that have them and I've had a couple in the past when I was single. It's just taking care of needs and urges and not really a daily thing. But if its not harming anyone then what's wrong with seeing a guy just for sex.
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Rank: Lurker
Joined: 11/30/2006 Posts: 332,069
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I don't think that it's bad to have friends with benefits. Sure, some people think that it is wrong, but it is not about what those people think. It matters what you and your friend think alone. If you guys can be friends who are comfortable with casual sex, then there's nothing wrong with that. I actually had a friends with benefit thing and now the guy and I are dating happily. I've also had a friends with benefit thing that ended up being too complicated to be anything more than friends. Everyone is different so whether it works or not depends on the people. Its ok to have one though.
Hope this helps :)
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