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Tiemeup
Posted: Saturday, October 08, 2011 12:19:04 PM

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I'm curious...I've been with a few guys that are super-sensitive to touching, licking, etc. on their member immediately after sex or a BJ--while others are fine to keep going. Are you guys really that sensitive down there right after coming or is it a convenient way to put some space between you and the woman after you're done? If it is that sensitive...how long before it wears off? Whistle
SensualDesires83
Posted: Saturday, October 08, 2011 4:48:45 PM

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For me, I am always sensitive after ejaculating. It's so sensitive, that I don't want to be touched there right afterwards. I don't mind saying this, and look down on me if you want, but ever since I was a teen, the moment after I ejaculate, I immediately go down and I have to wait at least 15 - 20 minutes before I can go again. I know that is normal actually, but I do know some guys can keep going.

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ArtMan
Posted: Saturday, October 08, 2011 4:53:39 PM

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No sensitivity for me. Keep on keeping on!

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Shibui
Posted: Saturday, October 08, 2011 6:19:15 PM

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Excruciatingly sensitive! I think it is some kind of genetic thing to make me hold still so those sperm have the best shot at making to their goal. Give me 10 and we can go again longer. (Or let me focus on you for 10)
PrettyMom
Posted: Sunday, October 09, 2011 8:20:11 AM

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I can't say for sure on this, but I know my hubby often keeps going after he cums for a few minutes. Especially if I am wet enough that he can continue sliding in and out once he is flaccid. He seems to really enjoy it when it is possible. I will ask him for more detail on the sensation from his point of view if you like.
pleasuregiver9876
Posted: Sunday, October 09, 2011 8:20:55 AM

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I have never heard of this before. I'm ok to go right away.
Andy89
Posted: Sunday, October 09, 2011 10:20:26 AM

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There is sensitivity afterwords, but I've never experienced anything that's lasted more than a minuet or two.
WellMadeMale
Posted: Sunday, October 09, 2011 11:57:15 AM

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Sometimes very sensitive...no further suckage allowed. Other times, I can remain glass cutting hard and ready for round two or three after the ejaculation.

Never figured the phenomenon out. Never worried about it either.

On those occasions when it does happen, it allows for cuddling or further oral or digital stimulation from me to her. It's never been a reason that I've used to push my partner away.

But I can see where that might come in handy (at some point in the future), so...thanks for the idea! notworthy

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Tiemeup
Posted: Sunday, October 09, 2011 12:00:04 PM

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SensualDesires83 wrote:
For me, I am always sensitive after ejaculating. It's so sensitive, that I don't want to be touched there right afterwards. I don't mind saying this, and look down on me if you want, but ever since I was a teen, the moment after I ejaculate, I immediately go down and I have to wait at least 15 - 20 minutes before I can go again. I know that is normal actually, but I do know some guys can keep going.



Thanks for the honesty. I think you are closer to the norm. I've only had 1-2 that are ready for round 2 immediately (sensitive or not). Speaking for myself, I am sensitive immediately after, but only for a minute or so...then I'm good to go...unless I'm having multiples already! f-hihi
Tiemeup
Posted: Sunday, October 09, 2011 12:02:49 PM

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WellMadeMale wrote:
But I can see where that might come in handy (at some point in the future), so...thanks for the idea! notworthy



hahaha...wasn't my intention to provide quick escape ideas for the guys...but glad I could help!
Tiemeup
Posted: Sunday, October 09, 2011 12:09:55 PM

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awensmom wrote:
I will ask him for more detail on the sensation from his point of view if you like.



I think it's more of a general nerve sensitivity issue than anything. I was just curious to see how many men have the same sensitivity. My husband is hyper-sensitive to touch--things that most guys find erotic, like sucking their nipples or light caresses, he thinks they tickle! Frustrating sometimes...
Guest
Posted: Sunday, October 09, 2011 1:39:12 PM

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I am wondering how many of the men who are sensitive after are uncut? I have found that the uncut men that I have been with are more sensitive. The bf is uncut. He is very sensitive after. If I am on top and I slowly rotate my hips in little circles he really likes that a lot and is ready to go again in just a few minutes. I just have to move slowly and gently.
Ricky6999
Posted: Sunday, October 09, 2011 3:04:54 PM

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very sensitive, however, in a minute, it subsides, then we can go for multiples to totally get satisfied in every way!!
lafayettemister
Posted: Monday, October 10, 2011 7:26:21 AM

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Sometimes it's very sensitive after, sometimes not. I can't really explain it. But when it is ultra sensitive afterwards, being touched is like a bolt of electricity.





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ricinatl
Posted: Monday, October 10, 2011 9:44:27 AM

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It is very sensative after but I love the feeling of having my member sucked after orgasm. It's a sensative, make you jerk, soothing, stomach butterfly feeling.
Guest
Posted: Monday, October 10, 2011 10:31:40 PM

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keep going
John
Posted: Wednesday, October 12, 2011 4:25:38 AM

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I'm extremely sensitive right after ejaculating. I do not want to be touched for about 15 minuites. Then I'm okay and will be ready to go again.
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Posted: Friday, October 14, 2011 8:33:48 PM

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I am very sensitive after orgasm. After the orgasm the senitivity lasts for serveral minutes. I have found that if i stay inside my lover, the sensitivity eases quicker with some long slow strides.
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Posted: Saturday, October 15, 2011 5:17:57 AM

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It depends. Sometimes after an orgasm I'm extreamely sensitive, but other times not so much. It's not as sensitive while I'm still inside her and can usually continue a slow movement, but lips or fingers provide a different stimulus that is usually too much.
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Posted: Monday, December 12, 2011 2:25:58 PM

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If its right after a blowjob then i'm super sensitive. If its after intercourse i can usually go for a couple of minutes before I go soft, then it's about 15 to 20 minutes before it's go time again.
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Posted: Monday, December 12, 2011 5:57:39 PM

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I've never had this problem during sex, but it's happened a couple of times with blowjobs, I honestly didn't mind that much though, it wasn't painful and it seemed better to just run with it until she finished.
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Posted: Monday, December 12, 2011 6:22:18 PM

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Sometimes so sensitive that any touch is painful. Others, not so much. Usually can keep going for a few strokes after aejaculation, but it usually goes limp pretty quickly. As soon as it is completely flaccid, the sensitivity is back to normal. Ever since age fifty, it has taken me about ten to fifteen minutes of serious pumping to come, so my partners are usually screaming from their third or fourth orgasm, or having one long, constant one by the time I come.

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Posted: Monday, December 12, 2011 7:56:22 PM

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not sensitive at all... is there a connection between being cut or uncut here I wonder..
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Posted: Monday, December 12, 2011 10:43:26 PM

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erotichugs wrote:
not sensitive at all... is there a connection between being cut or uncut here I wonder..


my first husband was uncut and he was super sensitive after cumming. Second husband is cut and he is super sensitive after cumming.

I think it just depends on the man. Its like women and their nipples: some are so sensitive it is painful to be touched and others need a lot of stimulation to even feel something.

Sensitive or not, both are normal, it's just what it is.

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JesseS
Posted: Tuesday, December 13, 2011 4:45:58 PM

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Generally speaking, I want a break after orgasm, I'm uncut, and it is sensitive. However, how I was made to cum makes a huge difference. For example, one swinging lady, whose husband warned me, left my cock sore for 2 days.
Budlee
Posted: Friday, October 12, 2012 10:41:42 AM

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While I get very sensitive after I cum, I love it when she keeps going and going because it's out of this world intense to experience that feeling after I've just cum.
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Posted: Friday, October 12, 2012 10:48:48 AM

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yep can get very sensitive but not for long and love to carry on
HoldenMcCrank
Posted: Friday, October 12, 2012 10:34:41 PM

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Own sedative after I cum. However, if my wife strokes me and avoids the head of my cock I can stay hard.
Glerian
Posted: Saturday, October 13, 2012 12:21:27 AM

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I'm cut and it does get very sensitive sometimes afterwards, other times not so much. I have never used it as an excuse to stop though...
Next84
Posted: Saturday, October 13, 2012 9:05:39 AM

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Guest wrote:
I am very sensitive after orgasm. After the orgasm the senitivity lasts for serveral minutes. I have found that if i stay inside my lover, the sensitivity eases quicker with some long slow strides.



I am with you on that... But I can't take it if I am getting a BJ almost hurts I am so sensitive... But all in all I could be ready to go one five at the longest.
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