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trust and someone who wants me for me not just how i look...
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what's the ingredient for a satisfying sexual encounter?
I think Lust and Passion ....
The Trust part is perfect and necessary for the "ongoing" and pushing the envelope.
For any satisfying sexual encounter - I definitely believe it must be lust and passion ....
Van
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As a guy, I can only speak for me. But, after talking about this to quite a few women, I would have to add TLC, that wonderful Tender, Loving, Care... along with "COMMUNICATION". Talking goes a very long way.
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Humor! Sexy is messy, fun, passionate, serious, sticky, goofy, and experimental. If we try something and I fall off the bed, or various other possibly embarrassing things that can happen in bed, he needs to be able to laugh it off with me. If I'm laughing and he's getting pissed because it's taking me too long to get back on the bed, not a good sign. If he laughs and pounces on me on the floor... good sign :)
Right there. Oh yeah baby. Right there.
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VanGogh wrote:
what's the ingredient for a satisfying sexual encounter?
I think Lust and Passion ....
The Trust part is perfect and necessary for the "ongoing" and pushing the envelope.
For any satisfying sexual encounter - I definitely believe it must be lust and passion ....
Van
Van you hit it right on the head DITTO!!!
Bunny12
 Bunny Rabbits cute and fuzzy they want to love you but they have razor sharp teeth - don't piss them off!
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And 2nd after Trust for me...
A guy who knows how to go Sloooooooooooooowwwwwwwwwww and tease!
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Intellectual curiosity for me
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TEQUILA!
Actually what has already been said, Trust, Communication, Etc.
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Alphamagus wrote:Intellectual curiosity for me Add to this a mutual sense of humour, and sense of 'fun' and you're onto a winner.
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swollen wrote:
Add to this a mutual sense of humour, and sense of 'fun' and you're onto a winner.
a 'real' connection and mutual attraction
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hartclass wrote:
a 'real' connection and mutual attraction
.... not to mention a massive 'wanger!!' x
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swollen wrote:
.... not to mention a massive 'wanger!!' x
And of course you would know! X
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hartclass wrote:
And of course you would know! X
Ummm, hmmm ....... (furrows brow and looks skywards,) you know Mr Hart, I'm not sure I do know. Maybe I should double-check!! X (Now stop hijacking this thread or Nicola will ban you again!)
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The most important ingredient for a satisfying sexual experience from my perspective would have to be paying special attention to your partner. It is important to pay attention to their body language, the look in their eye, the way they caress you if it is a soft or hard. I know I pay attention to my husband when we are having sex. I can tell if he is in a rough mood or a slow and sensual mood. :)
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Pinkluva wrote:The most important ingredient for a satisfying sexual experience from my perspective would have to be paying special attention to your partner. It is important to pay attention to their body language, the look in their eye, the way they caress you if it is a soft or hard. I know I pay attention to my husband when we are having sex. I can tell if he is in a rough mood or a slow and sensual mood. :) Awwwwwwwwwwe! Love you sweetie! 
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trust
"I went into the woods because I wanted to live deliberately. I wanted to live deep and suck out all the marrow of life... to put to rout all that was not life; and not, when I came to die, discover that I had not lived." from Dead Poets Society
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Alphamagus wrote:Intellectual curiosity for me add the ability to make me laugh and that is the magic formula.
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Self mockery is priceless in my opinion. People take themselves way to seriously these days...
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Love Trust A Partner Moderators... See how they stick together?Give 'em a big one and they'll love ya. Bank account, house, car, family, or that python that chokes their... You get my drift.
 The best thing you can do for your fellow,
next to rousing his conscience, is - not to give him things
to think about, but to wake things up that are in him...
to make him think things for himself - George MacDonald
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I would definitely want trust and honesty. 
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trust
I believe trust is an integral part of love.You can have trust without love. You can't have love without trust.
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It seems every ones pretty set on "trust" so I'm going to say, STAMMINA/ENDURANCE :D
Longer is better !!
Evil Brain Angel Heart - E.B.A.H
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Knowing when and where to touch....
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maple syrup TRUST - give me a break - the question read - a satisfying sexual experience
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Intelligence, humor, and a wicked ability to know what I want...stamina and endurance are great things!
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communication has a big part
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There are many important factors, I don't think I can boil it down to just one. Its like any great recipe it requires many ingredients to make the dish work. The first few key ingredients being love, trust and communication. Start with those and add all the many wonderful things to go along with it and you will have a spectacular ending with satisfaction for both parties.
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hartclass wrote:maple syrup
TRUST - give me a break - the question read - a satisfying sexual experience Good point - in which case, if you are turned on by the element of danger, then trust would be way down the list. I would therefore answer physical desire and lust *grinning at you Mr Hart!* x
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Orgasms...I mean they are the true definition of satisfaction, no?
"Today you are You, that is truer than true. There is no one alive who is Youer than You." - Dr. Seuss
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