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caedus32577
Posted: Friday, May 13, 2011 1:51:14 AM

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so honestly ladies, or are there any out there that will be honest, is sex all that it is about or is there any girls out there that honestly love to cuddle, to let a guy just get her to sit down and wait on her hand and foot, baically, does real love exist anymore, or should i just let my dick control my love life??
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Posted: Friday, May 13, 2011 6:16:09 PM

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There are lots of questions here to answer, so let me start by saying that...
Yes, there are honest ladies still out here and sex is not what it is all about although at this day and age it seems that way at times. There are still plenty of us girls that do love to cuddle close and be spoiled ridiculously, and it goes without saying that in a heartbeat, my mate would get the same treatment as given to me. Maybe not everyone is like that, but in my world, that is how I see it. And as hard as it may be able to believe, real love is out there. When you find it, it will knock you down and have wonder where on earth did feelings like this come from. I promise this is true. The last question, well, if you let that happen, at some point in your life you will have this void in your heart leaving you to question every decision you made. It will have you yearning for an emotional connection that that particular lifestyle will never give you. Don't give up on us ladies that still have a heart and know what it takes to make a relationship fulfilling.
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Posted: Saturday, May 14, 2011 4:42:00 PM

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Why just let it control your love life? I mean really, why stop there? Let it control your whole life...when you get the urge, bend the nearest female over and let your dick have it's lifestyle of choice.

Eye roll. I'm sure you already know the answer to this question - think about it!
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Posted: Saturday, May 14, 2011 4:49:28 PM

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You make it sound like a choice! We can't have great sex AND cuddles? I for one love to fall asleep spooning with my bf every night.

Of course real love exists but something it does require is showing just a little bit of vulnerability. Something that people can be reluctant to show early in a relationship. It has to develop over time IMO.

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Posted: Saturday, May 14, 2011 5:32:53 PM

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I can't answer for everyone but I'll tell you what I think:
Personally, I would take cuddles over sex, sensuality over sexuality and love over lust, anytime. Cuddles - or even hugs - can make you feel more loved and connected to someone than having sex with them does sometimes. (Even though sex isn't bad either ;)) The security and warmth and and fuzziness of cuddles are love.
And I do consider myself to be a lady and I know that love still exsists... and that it is the most wonderful thing in the universe.
Maybe I'm just a hopeless romantic and a dying breed though, I wouldn't know.
Just-SJ
Posted: Saturday, May 14, 2011 10:34:09 PM

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Give me both! Nothing like curling up in someone's arms, being held tight and sweet after a delicious round of intense sexing!

I'm very much a snuggly person. I'm soft and a bit round, and I love to snuggle up to friends and boyfriends. I could happily while away hours in my Master's embrace, talking, watching a film, or both of us reading.

Sigh. I want suggles now.

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Posted: Monday, May 16, 2011 5:27:21 PM

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I'm weird, but I don't like it / need it after sex. I like it falling asleep with a lover on non sex nights. But after sex I often like to be "on my own". But, again, I'm weird.
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Posted: Thursday, December 29, 2011 8:43:19 PM

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Yes! Real love does exist!! My love does wait on me hand and foot at times it seems. He's amazing and would do anything I ask. Even the stuff I really really don't want to do...he will do it for me if I just ask nicely...maybe with some puppy dog eyes...and maybe if I promise him something good in return. haha. Na, he would do it anyway.

I love cuddling!! And we do it every night with or without sex. I cannot not touch him when we sleep. Its just my habit and he loves it too. :) I have lots of little cute cuddly things which I do...he gives me that look like "seriously"...but then as I cuddle into him...he smiles. :) It's really sweet.

So yes...it does exist. :)
Nikki703
Posted: Thursday, December 29, 2011 11:51:00 PM

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Real love most definitely does exist. And cuddling is all part of sex for me. I love to just cuddle after sex, in place of sex, in between sex, etc. There is no better feeling than holding my SO and making eye contact and knowing how we feel. It makes it all very special!!

Seems to me maybe you are looking for an excuse to have your cock run your life. But that is cool if sex is all you want.
1Zratedgal
Posted: Friday, December 30, 2011 12:22:07 AM

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Nikki703 wrote:
Real love most definitely does exist. And cuddling is all part of sex for me. I love to just cuddle after sex, in place of sex, in between sex, etc. There is no better feeling than holding my SO and making eye contact and knowing how we feel. It makes it all very special!!

Seems to me maybe you are looking for an excuse to have your cock run your life. But that is cool if sex is all you want.


Cuddling is part of the intimacy before and after the sex!
It can be a prelude to sex and it can be the loving carresses afterwards to say "Thank You" and " I enjoy being with You!"

But it can also be part of the pleasures before a hard and nasty fucking and also as a cool down afterwards.

True love it out there! But you have to make it happen!

And it is up to you to initiate it and accept it when your SO initiates it as well!

Your dick is just a means of connecting the physical aspect of sex!
The Cuddling can inspire and also reassure!
But it is also and expression of Love, too!

Kisses!

Steph
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Posted: Friday, December 30, 2011 1:29:46 AM

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caedus32577 wrote:
so honestly ladies, or are there any out there that will be honest, is sex all that it is about or is there any girls out there that honestly love to cuddle, to let a guy just get her to sit down and wait on her hand and foot, baically, does real love exist anymore, or should i just let my dick control my love life??



I'll be totally honest as far as emotions within me are concerned. Someone once stated: " a girl gives sex and expects love in return. A male gives love and expects sex in return." How far true that is is open to debate. I do know conclusively there is nothing nicer in life than to be cuddled and feel wanted. Ultra sexy female as I may be with sometimes an insatiable appetite for sex and the fullness of penetration, the need to be as one with someone is paramount.

Being waited on hand and foot is not for me. I'm quite an able-bodied person.
Budlee
Posted: Wednesday, August 22, 2012 9:05:34 AM

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Cuddling, aftercare, kisses and caresses are just as important as the act of intercourse. While you can't have sex every waking moment, there are times when cuddling is all you want or need. A good lover senses it.
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Posted: Wednesday, August 22, 2012 9:33:26 AM

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Budlee wrote:
Cuddling, aftercare, kisses and caresses are just as important as the act of intercourse. While you can't have sex every waking moment, there are times when cuddling is all you want or need. A good lover senses it.


Totally agree.
BoredAsHell1978
Posted: Monday, October 15, 2012 9:31:57 PM

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Yes, it is there. You have to see it though, not look through it. And honestly, cuddling can be as intimate as sex, IMO. And to me, being held in someone's arms, being told I'm loved and wanted and needed, is better than sex itself. And being spoiled or waited on, that would be a dream come true! And of course, I would reciprocate that.
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Posted: Tuesday, October 16, 2012 11:45:13 AM

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I just wanted to tell you, yes there are girls out there who love to cuddle. I am one of them, there are times where all I want to do is just cuddle with my man. He loves it when we cuddle together and I do too. I love it when he waits on me hand and foot. There are other times that I want to be fucked. bunny
VirginalViet
Posted: Tuesday, October 16, 2012 11:15:07 PM

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I think several of the women/girls have put it succinctly: we expect men to multi-task these days. Yes, you must be good in bed, you must know how to use your tongue, your fingers, the spoken word and.....ummmm.....I'm forgetting something girls? Oh yes, AND YOUR COCK! Please do not be a premature ejaculator since this will lead to immense frustration for us ladies. Learn about vibrators, gels, and...ummm.....am I forgetting something girls? Oh yes, poetry. Recite us a poem. Cuddling? Of course afterwards, after "taking care of business", you have to know how to cuddle and be sweet.....but the major sweetness should come AFTER you have given us a huge dose of flirtation and teasing build-up followed by multiple.....yes I did say MULTIPLE huge orgasms.....your tongue and fingers tantalizing every inch of our bodies until we are exhausted. Then, if you want to make me tea, give me a massage, rub my feet, recite me a poem, cuddle and watch TV? Well that would be great!! Usually I find that snuggling close and cuddling sorta naturally, somehow, leads to nakedness and wild sex?? IDK, maybe I'm strange haha.
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