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so does anyone have any suggestions for a male to use instead of a dildo or vibrator for anal play....i have limited resources and would like some ideas from other people for objects to use in my ass!!!
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A see-through starter kit? You might find these by simply dumpster diving. 
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I see you are in a relationship, does your partner us toys on you? Is your partner willing to use their fingers? What seems to be the issue with dildos and vibrators? I know I have a lot of questions, I asked because your profile says straight and apart from toys and partners the only other thing I can think of is the real thing. I love anal play with my wife but I have been curious what a real cock would feel like inside me too, so if there are other ways to enjoy playing I look forward to hearing about them.
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The back end of an expo dry erase marker with LOTS of lube. If you are in a hurry it works well.
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NEVER use anything short that doesn't have a flared base; things have been known to go in and get stuck. If it is long, like a foot or more, still be careful and never go too deep. That aside, some candles work, some hairbrush handles are perfect, as are the necks/nozzles of alot of feminine products. Always use lots of lube, preferrably something intended for that, like K-Y or Astroglide. Condoms help with safety and clean-up.
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JesseS wrote:NEVER use anything short that doesn't have a flared base; things have been known to go in and get stuck. If it is long, like a foot or more, still be careful and never go too deep. That aside, some candles work, some hairbrush handles are perfect, as are the necks/nozzles of alot of feminine products. Always use lots of lube, preferrably something intended for that, like K-Y or Astroglide. Condoms help with safety and clean-up. All of this is good advice. However, decent sex toys are available for a minimum price. If, by chance it's the hazard of keeping such a toy on hand, rather than the cost, the above suggestions are even more valuable.
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One of the most realistic objects for me was a warm, cooked kielbasa in a condom. It felt exactly like a cock! Carrots, cucumbers, zucchinis also work, but wash them well with detergent and use condoms. Whatever you choose, use plenty of lube.
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A hair brush handle
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.59 cents at your local walmart. They are disposable, they are cheap, they have a perfect taper. You can get varying sizes. What's not to appreciate here. This is my favorite toy. When your done with it just throw it out.
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Whatever you can get you hands on that has smooth edges.
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Hmm...how about using your own fingers?  I do it all the time and it's fab-u-lous 
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I have found that a cheap butt plug is good way to start. Get a skinny one then more up. G/F loves to do me with it as she sucks me off.
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BelleduJour wrote:Hmm...how about using your own fingers? I do it all the time and it's fab-u-lous I enjoy using my fingers too. It allows for me to feel around and hit spots that are very pleasurable. Im thinking about buying a dildo or vibrator too :)
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A plunger... yup, not very large diameter and they stick to the walls of a shower or bottom of the tub. Plus you can always find larger items to slide OVER the handle if you want "more".
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What haven't I used. But everyone is right in that the most important thing is ample lubrication and something that is long enough that you don't lose it inside. You can't beat a good butt plug to get started.
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Yes lube is important... in the shower though, soap can work well.... however, unless you want to burn, use a "no more tears" or natural shampoo/soap.
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I enjoy it! Make me cum so hard!!!!
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