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My husband and I got into a conversation earlier today about clothing. I wear clothes that show off the shape of my body, but not tight enough to see every single curve I have. I wear clothes that I think are respectable for my age (25). My husband on the other hand would like me to show off more skin and cleavage. I show off enough cleavage in my own opinion. My question to you men would be would you rather have your wife dressing respectable or showing off more skin and cleavage?
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They make so many styles of clothing for woman and they do exactly what you mentioned. They show just enough but not the whole shootin' match.
I kind of have a thing for those high boots and tights. Or a pencil skirt and pretty blouse...Yummy
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I see the point of discussion in your post, but the title is a bit, well, awful. "How would you want your woman to dress". It's very proprietary. I doubt that's your meaning but it does come off that way. The answer I expect from that question is, " In whatever makes HER feel comfortable and good about herself", but, that is not the actual discussion you are looking for. You want to know how men would like to see their partners dressed, and what they appear to be sexy. There is a difference in the wording, that definitely would change the responses in my opinion. It just sounds a bit 1950's husband is all. I know that's not the intent.
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Joined: 1/2/2011 Posts: 582 Location: Sarasota County, United States
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I'm not in a sustained relationship with anyone at the moment, but when I am, my primary interest is that she be happy and comfortable. The girls I usually end up with look sexy to me regardless of what they wear. If she's comfortable, I tend to think she looks sexy, whether she's displaying a lot of skin, wearing tight, curve hugging clothes or not. I personally think any guy who tries to control what the girl in his life wears probably doesn't deserve her. Just sayin'.
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Joined: 8/1/2012 Posts: 106 Location: blackpool, United Kingdom
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How a woman dresses is her choice and it wouldn't bother me if she chose to cover up or dressed to tease as long as I secure in the relationship and knew she was mine and don't mean own her I mean as my girl
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Tight shorts with the bottom of her cheeks just showing. short top coming below her tits, sort of tight
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Joined: 10/5/2012 Posts: 958 Location: Spudville, United States
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drodfam wrote:Tight shorts with the bottom of her cheeks just showing. short top coming below her tits, sort of tight What's she supposed to wear when she gets off the Dukes of Hazzard set??? Sorry, couldn't resist!
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crazydiamond wrote:I see the point of discussion in your post, but the title is a bit, well, awful.
"How would you want your woman to dress".
It's very proprietary. I doubt that's your meaning but it does come off that way. .... Is it any different from asking my wife how she wants 'her man' to dress.. (or whatever)? That works too. I would not find that offensive., I am 'her man'.
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I like her in flirtatious, sexy clothing. In fact I don't usually by her sexy bedroom attire (who wears clothes there anyhow), I get her stuff that looks hot in the outside world. I like it when she gets (polite) attention and there have been plenty of times I've seen guys looking. Short dresses, patterned stockings, and soft tops (she has perky breasts that rarely are in a bra).
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Joined: 12/30/2010 Posts: 57 Location: United States
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Well it depends. I once bought a dress for my wife that I would love to see here wear it in a casual setting but know she never will. I have told her if she ever wanted to get FUCKED, all she had to do is put on that dress. She did once.
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Classy ,but still reveling enough skin to get noticed. Nothing wrong with feeling good as your wife gets blood pumping in another man.
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Joined: 12/6/2009 Posts: 3,603 Location: Hanging around, Glasgow, United Kingdom
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Well, first off, I'm not married, but I'm stickin' me oar in anyway. I'd want my partner/wife/girlfriend to dress in clothes that she wants to. I have no say in how someone dresses and nor should I, if she feels good and confident in what she's wearing, even if it's a hessian sack, I'm fine with that, it's her body and her image, after all.
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It would depend on where we are going, if it was for everyday then as she prefers. Of course if it's got something to do with our adult nights out then whatever is appropriate for the club or couple that are visiting. We like various scenes so I couldn't give you an exact answer.
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Joined: 7/24/2011 Posts: 53 Location: United States
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I think there are different situations that would call for different types of dress. I know my wife dresses very causual and doesn't show off her body. There are times when that is appropriate but there are times I want her to show off or should say I want to show her off.
I guess what I want when I want to show her off is for her to dress seductively. Tight clothings, low cut top to show cleavage, short skirts or shorts to show off her legs and ass.
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A woman should always dress for the occasion. That is the simplest answer. My lover has dresses that are very sexy for the right time.
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Joined: 4/25/2010 Posts: 42 Location: Moore
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in what ever she is comfortable with, Cause we all know our oppinions dont matter when it comes to clothes or shoes
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However the fuck she wants... Telling a girl how to dress is like attempting a war on drugs. Plus, she dressed the way she wanted when you met her.

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Joined: 8/18/2012 Posts: -33
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that dress i like what she give me some signals that she want my love
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Joined: 4/10/2011 Posts: 74 Location: United States
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It would all depend on where we go. If we were going out, a little short skirt and a nice button down shirt with a few top buttons undone. If we are just going out then her normal jeans and baggy shirt. My only problem is, my wife dont like to wear skirts or dresses. I would like her to dress wear she teases others, I guess to show off what I am lucky to have....... but I respect her and I don't push the subject to often, would like to see her in a skirt more often.
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Joined: 10/21/2012 Posts: 2 Location: Ireland
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Depends on the venue. If out socialising, then what ever she feels makes her sexy and comfortable. If it involves showing off ample curves then hey I'm all for that. For me though it a black tie event that gives chance to really show. I love my Mrs in sleek neck plunging dress showing off her breasts. The odd glimpse of the shape of underwear depending on her movement. And of course the lingerie underneath is a must.
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Joined: 9/17/2012 Posts: 191 Location: United States
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I agree with you, be sexy but not sluuty but at age 25 don't be a old lady either. you have to be happy with what you wear out in public, maybe at home get a little darying.
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Ultimately, I want her to dress as comfortably as she desires regardless of what the situation is. Though I would be lying if I didn't say that I would love her to dress in a way that may be comfortable yet still a little inviting.
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Joined: 2/10/2011 Posts: 61 Location: Chicago , United States
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Sexys as fuck as long as she is comfortable in what she is wearing
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A bit of skin and cleavage never hurts but I think a woman is going to be more attractive in something she feels comfortable in. And, you can be pretty sexy without a lot of skin on show. A slightly tight sweater, a light skirt that brushes and clings attractively around your legs and arse without actually baring much, a blouse that's a bit tight with only a button or two undone so it leads the eye down without actually showing much off, and so on. There is a middle ground between modesty and blatant when it comes to sexy dressing. Cathy discovers her husband's secret and reawakens old passions His Secret, Her New PassionA business trip becomes a voyage of exploration for two men A New SideNew Lush Stories from Seeker4
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