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I seem to be running across this problem a lot. I've had 2 boyfriends break up with me, and 3 fuck buddies leave giving the same reason of "You want it too much." after they had told me they had a high sex drive. I know it's not me, I'm tight and taste good (I have tasted myself after masturbating) and I have high energy. I don't pressure them to do anything they don't want to do. So I just want to know, how much is too much sex?
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When it's causing injury, exhaustion or unhappiness.
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1ball wrote:When it's causing injury, exhaustion or unhappiness. Or the loss of your job, family and favorite pet!
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I'm with you Surgicalscars - been there. Men always say they can handle me but at the end of the day, most truly can't. Shame really. Personally, I don't think you can ever have too much sex keeping in mind that sex can include a whole host of other lovely and lucious things, not just straight cock-in-pussy. Having said that, the only time I might think it's an issue is when sex become more mechanical rather than an emotional connection, at least that is true for me. My desire to engage in such activities as often as I like to is completely fuelled by my desire to be fully and completely connected with my partner and not just a means to having an orgasm.
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Dudealicious wrote:
Or the loss of your job, family and favorite pet!
Good points. In a broad sense of the word, injury covers those, but they deserve special mention.
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My boyfriend and I are having a similiar problem... He thinks I'm horny too much... I blame it on the fact that I'm a virgin.
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BelleduJour wrote:My desire to engage in such activities as often as I like to is completely fuelled by my desire to be fully and completely connected with my partner and not just a means to having an orgasm. I don't think it's healthy to be 'completely connected' too often, like the expression 'joined at the hip'. Guys are often more introverted than women and spending too much time together, even good quality time, can be emotionally draining. Women sometimes use guys as a crutch because they don't have other interests to fill their time with. Sometimes they take it personally when a guy doesn't want to be with them 24/7 and that's really not fair to someone who needs to spend time in his own head pursuing other interests. One of the reasons many guys appreciate 'independence' in a woman is so they can have the time they need apart from their SO. This is just my 2 cents, but that might be part of this 'too much sex' issue. It might not be too much sex, it might be too little freedom.
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When it becomes an addiction that begins to invade your life and possibly the lives of those around you.
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I agree with most of what everyone has said above with the exception of a few points. I am crazy independent, I don't like it when guys try to spoil me with stuff or pay for dinner (dutch is my style). My last fuck buddy, we lived about 10 miles from each other, but sometimes we wouldn't talk for days or see each other for weeks because of work and it was nice because it was very casual and that's how all of my relationships are - very casual, I'm 19 I don't need to be getting in too deep into anything. When we have sex is there an emotional connection - I think so. I don't pick up guys because where I live, guys don't like me as anything more than a friend usually, so I have a friend set us up and it makes the sex better because we have stuff in common other than a sexual attraction to one another. I encourage my guys to go and have a night out on the town, pick up some other girls if he wants - I could care less so long as he's safe about it, and I get to hear all the kinky detail about it later.
Could it be that I'm not attached enough? Guys think that I only want sex and nothing else?
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Wow, i can't believe anyone would leave you over that. If that is you in the avatar, you look great.
Anyways, I personally need release at least once per day. So is there such a thing as too much sex, I don't believe so.
Even if I can't cum anymore in any particular day, I am always upto being fondled. That would also not stop me from licking your pussy crazy.
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PookieBooski wrote:My boyfriend and I are having a similiar problem... He thinks I'm horny too much... I blame it on the fact that I'm a virgin. 1 way of proving him wrong is to give him ur virginity then he'll no thats not reason why .lol
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One of my friend used to tell me, his girl friend is always wants sex for long time as she elder than my friend. Usually girls have high sexual feelings than boys. So he is not able to escort her.
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When my balls are empty and my cock has been snapped off.
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I actually do think there is such a thing as to much sex.
I say this only if. You're not use to it, and don't keep yourself healthy enough to maintain such a lifestyle..
I remember a few years ago. I was dating my ex boyfriend at the time. We had been together nearly a year. He lived at home and his parents were away for a trip. So he invited me over for the week. We were fucking like rabbits. Crazy unreal sex all the time. About the third day in. I started having really bad pains in my stomach. It hurt so bad. My legs and inner thighs hurt too. But it was mostly my stomach. I didn't think it was from having sex so we kept at it for two more days. Finally I called my mom. {Whom I am extremely close with, we keep no secrets.} and ask her what is possibly wrong. We go over food first, which is obvious with a stomach thing. We finally get to sex and I told her we had been having a lot of it. She told me to lay low. I'm over doing it. That my stomach was full of cum. We didn't stop fully just went to once a day! lol Luckily that has never happen again.
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I think as long as the desire and ability remains, too much can only apply when it it adversely affects your life like any other addiction.
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When you start bleeding out of your eyes.
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When the friction burns are unbearable.
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Honestly, I don't think there ever could be to much sex. :) At the same time I think that there are times where us women get dried out and need to stop because of friction. :/
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When it ceases to be enjoyable for both parties, I guess. And that includes physical discomforts and injuries, of course. Bill and his daughter-in-law Becky relieve each other's sexual frustrations with a steamy summer affair Frustration and Relief
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Surgicalscars wrote:I seem to be running across this problem a lot. I've had 2 boyfriends break up with me, and 3 fuck buddies leave giving the same reason of "You want it too much." after they had told me they had a high sex drive. I know it's not me, I'm tight and taste good (I have tasted myself after masturbating) and I have high energy. I don't pressure them to do anything they don't want to do. So I just want to know, how much is too much sex? your expectations are too much so I think any Individual doesn't satisfy you. Every men have a certain limit of sex they can't be with you for more than a hour. If a single hour still doesn't satisfy you then instead of looking for men you need to buy the sex toys it will help to get your satisfaction level. Pune Independent Escorts | Escorts at Pune
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how many times a day....i had sex for 12 hours and i could have gone for more....but everyday like that..i mean..who has the time??
maybe the problem is not your sexual appetite but YOUR demand for constant attention which is different
is sex your crack?
i am so not slamming you...as the other lovely lushies have said..is it an addiction?
but if you can work all day come home and cook and clean take care of kids and still fuck for hours
i am SURE sure u will have MILLIONS of guys after you
if u just go to school and have hours to kill....is this boredom or..addiction
i agree with the toy thing..plus u gotta love that the batteries are ..replaceable unlike...true...love
i hope u find a guy who can keep up with you..everyone should have a sexual partner that matches....them
good luck sweetie
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I didnt know there was such a thing as too much sex
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No such this is to much!
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BelleduJour wrote:I'm with you Surgicalscars - been there. Men always say they can handle me but at the end of the day, most truly can't. Shame really. Heyyyyy BelleduJour wrote:..........sex can include a whole host of other lovely and lucious things, not just straight cock-in-pussy. Uhhh oh there's more? ... .(Just being annoying) I don't feel there's too much sex, but just as foods, some prefer a quick burger most of the time. Some prefer more quality foods. Some like different spices. I feel it's so difficult to establish a standard as the latitude it's very ample. Just because your past lover were not to par, it could also be that somehow they really never satisfied you. That's why you felt that you never had enough. Maybe combined with the quantity (if you were getting a lot), you need also more quality. Practice what you know, and it will help to make clear what now you do not know. — RembrandtThere is poetry as soon as we realize that we possess nothing. — John Cage
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When your dick becomes chapped,raw,&red. Then it's time to eat pussy-(see licking pussy thread).
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