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OK, in your valued opinions... is looking cheating? Maybe the thoughts behind the looks are but whats wrong with looking?
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No, it's not cheating. Everyone looks. Both guys and girls. The key is - when you're with your significant other - to not blatantly ogle other women or men to the point that your significant other knows what you're doing, since that can be seen as rude. Also not cool, if you're doing it *constantly* when you're around them because if the level of paranoia about looking increases, it's often anticipated ahead of time. For example - I've had situations, whether passing a couple walking down the street or in a bar, where pre-emptively his girlfriend turns to look at him to see where his eye contact is going almost before he even notices me. It's kind of funny actually. And yeah, I do think that's taking it too far - a passing appreciative glance is nothing to get stressed about. On the other hand if you have a guy with a non-stop roving eye when he's with you, it can get annoying. It's still not qualified as cheating though. It's more of a 'respect' issue when you're with your girlfriend/boyfriend - to not make them feel like a third wheel in your visual fantasy adventures. Keep it discreet and you should be fine.
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absolutely not!
well unless u were like my husband who would point out hot ladies
but that is not cheating...just being an asshole!
be discreet and look then take your lovely lust out on your partner :)
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I don't think so, if it's done in the right way. If you point them out to your mate and comment about something to compare how she looks.
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cprivate wrote:OK, in your valued opinions... is looking cheating? Maybe the thoughts behind the looks are but whats wrong with looking? Yes, yes it is, and only the sight impaired are innocent to this adulterous act.  (god no, just be discreet and respectful)
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Nothing wrong with window shopping, it is when you dabble with the goods that is often the problem!
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Yes if it becomes more than a quick look. Staring or turning your head to look at their butt it would not only be like cheating but right down rude to the person you are with.
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Looking isnt cheating but if you are with your partner and you are constantly leering at others it is very disrespectful to him/her. But a casual admiring glance is harmless and pretty natural
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You can look, but you can't touch.
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Speak for yourself choco ;0P
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So if everyone does it why is it us men get crapped on...
I did once have a girlfriend who pointed out the hot girls I would otherwise have missed. I really liked that. Katy you were the best... And yes the sex was off the scale as well. Pity you took that job and left Africa.
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chgolf wrote:Speak for yourself choco ;0P
I do lots of looking in real life, but I don't touch
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Nikki703 wrote:Looking isnt cheating but if you are with your partner and you are constantly leering at others it is very disrespectful to him/her. But a casual admiring glance is harmless and pretty natural I reckon I'm very disrespectful when you're around. 
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cprivate wrote:So if everyone does it why is it us men get crapped on...
DISCREET DUDE!!!
Because you obviously get caught!!
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AngelHeart01 wrote:I reckon I'm very disrespectful when you're around. You better be!!!HAHA
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When I'm with a man I'll casually look but never stare. Because I have an understanding with my hubby (he's my cuckold) I will definitely look and sometimes catch.
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When I'm with someone my eyes are only on them ever..
Yes It's cheating.
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Not for me....but please, be kindly discreet.
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cprivate wrote:So if everyone does it why is it us men get crapped on...
'Us' men? lmao You, man. Don't lump yourself in with the rest of 'us men' who have figured things out a long time ago.
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No its not cheating. Its not disrespectful to look while with your girl/guy. Its very disrespectful to look when out without your guy/girl. Be honest and don't hide anything.
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cprivate wrote:So if everyone does it why is it us men get crapped on...
I did once have a girlfriend who pointed out the hot girls I would otherwise have missed. I really liked that. Katy you were the best... And yes the sex was off the scale as well. Pity you took that job and left Africa. I'd jump a plane and follow that gal private.
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chocolategirl wrote:
I do lots of looking in real life, but I don't touch
Really.............good to know chocoholic
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