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tuffer3
Posted: Sunday, October 14, 2012 4:19:17 AM

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Don't think age maters. As ling as you enjoy it
sandymoon
Posted: Sunday, October 14, 2012 5:22:47 AM

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If we have great chemistry age would not matter!
Guest
Posted: Sunday, October 14, 2012 5:52:55 AM

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I agree with above. Age doesn't play as much of a part if there is a great connection.
Frobisher
Posted: Sunday, October 14, 2012 7:59:34 AM

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This somewhat depends upon just how old you are. When I was 26, I loved an eighteen-year old, and although we had a strong connection, the age difference proved to be too much. Now I'm much, much older, and my sweetheart is fourteen years younger than me, and it hasn't been and won't be a problem for us.

For an interesting take on this issue, check out a new film called Liberal Arts. Josh Radnor is 35, and he meets, and has a strong connection with, a 19-year old Elizabeth Olsen. As their characters are drawn on the screen, they are almost perfect for each other, if not for the age difference. In some ways, she is more mature than he is, and in the end, she helps him grow up. And no, nothing creepy happens between them.
Americanheart
Posted: Sunday, October 14, 2012 3:05:47 PM

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i prefer someone around my age or older than me

buttercup2u
Posted: Sunday, October 14, 2012 10:23:23 PM

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This is a hard question to answer. I was going to say maybe 20 years. My current lover is quite a bit younger than I and I wonder about that age gap. Oh, its fine for now, at least he has the energy to keep up...but will he have the energy to take care of me when I am old, decrepit, and feeble minded? So if its just a lover, then hey, the gap doesn't matter. But for a lifelong love partner, I think the gap should be far less, maybe 5-10 years.
Guest
Posted: Thursday, October 18, 2012 1:15:30 PM

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When I was 20 I dated a 55 year old women.
seeker4
Posted: Thursday, October 18, 2012 2:35:57 PM

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Well, my wife is 9 years older than me, so that's my starting point. She comes from a very different culture (she's an immigrant to Canada whereas I grew up here) than me, though, so most of our issues come from that culture gap rather than the age gap.

I feel, though I'm not exactly armed with evidence, that once you get out towards 20 or so years older or younger, generation gap issues could start to come in. Popular culture turns over every 10-20 years (sometimes recycling, sometimes going somewhere new) so your points of reference and attitudes change as part of that, making sustaining a relationship more difficult. Heck, my brother is only 8 years younger than me and we don't have all the same cultural touchpoints.

Now, that's not to say that you can't have great SEX with someone much older or younger than you or even some great non-sexual fun, I just wonder how people from two different generations culturally (say a 60s hippie and a 90s grunge fan) could realistically sustain a lasting connection like a marriage or long-term sexual relationship.

So, for me personally it's probably my age +/- 10 years for a serious relationship, but I could go wider for just a hook-up or FWB.



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Guest
Posted: Thursday, October 18, 2012 2:37:28 PM

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sandymoon wrote:
If we have great chemistry age would not matter!


agreed. age is just a number!
Guest
Posted: Friday, October 19, 2012 3:04:11 AM

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I think maturity and experience is much more telling than chronological age.

However, as a casual observer, I think the gap increases exponentially as the age of the younger member increases. Does that make sense?
Guest
Posted: Saturday, October 20, 2012 5:04:10 AM

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the gap in years doesnt mean a thing as long as you both enjoy what you have together
dadsgrl
Posted: Thursday, October 25, 2012 8:16:24 AM

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if its someone i love age isnt an issue
Guest
Posted: Friday, October 26, 2012 3:17:43 PM

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The age gap isn't important if you love each other.
real69luvr
Posted: Friday, October 26, 2012 5:01:30 PM

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Got to agree with the majority here, Its only a number. The feelings are what matters. I was lucky enough to have sex with someone 30 years younger than me, and we both loved it. Pleasing your partner comes before worrying about age.
sunshine1
Posted: Friday, October 26, 2012 8:33:00 PM

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Age is just a number .... ;)
Guest
Posted: Sunday, October 28, 2012 6:56:49 AM

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Love knows no age....age is all in the mind....you love for who they are
I'm 45...at 42 .....I loved a 20 yr old...we got along great for two yrs!
Slow_Talkin
Posted: Sunday, October 28, 2012 4:08:59 PM

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Chuckles.. They say age is just a number..and it is.. I'm a "mature" gentleman...to say the least, but I like this quote.."How old would you be, if you didn't know how old you were?" I'd suggest younger people get to know the 'person' forget the age.. Just saying..
Guest
Posted: Sunday, October 28, 2012 5:17:30 PM

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welcomes All are welcome... I don't believe there is any gap too big ;-) I've had sex partners 20 years younger and 40+ years older! I've had two 'boyfriends' each 20 years older than me.

I remember one older gentleman who was very good with his hands massaging me, getting all horny and hot from rubbing me all over, sadly, he was no longer able to get it up, but he slid on a strap on, fucked me and got off cumming inside the hollow dildo!

I notice a lot of comments about love... but the question was about a sex partner... don't need to love them LOL
truckdriver09
Posted: Sunday, October 28, 2012 6:57:39 PM

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i dont think it matters as long as all is good, and they are of legal age, ive had some good young ones, and older ones, sex is sex.
DeedraCd
Posted: Sunday, October 28, 2012 7:39:02 PM

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Age is only in the mind. I have meet many young guns that act like old farts and some older ones that have more energy than me. It's all about chemistry if it has sizzle and pop who cares about age. giggle
Green_Man
Posted: Sunday, October 28, 2012 8:34:05 PM

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Considering I am 64, I think anyone down to and including 18 is fine with me.

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LauraLee_sugah
Posted: Sunday, October 28, 2012 8:45:46 PM

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just make me laugh and be a good kisser... i am all in...

well... maybe personal hygiene is an issue as well.. kekekegay



Guest
Posted: Saturday, November 03, 2012 1:04:05 PM

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well since im 22 id say 18-45 maybe older as long as there is a connection it doesnt matter with me
Guest
Posted: Saturday, November 03, 2012 2:11:09 PM

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I don't think there is really a "gap" where sex is concerned.
Veronika
Posted: Saturday, November 03, 2012 3:43:56 PM

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I think age is not an issue in the matter of the heart :)
Guest
Posted: Saturday, November 03, 2012 8:07:06 PM

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Whatever age the person is and Master tells me to go for it, I will.

but my preferences..

As long as they are over the age of 18 and know how to have a good time. I'm down for some smexy time Water Sports 430-128 b229

But as far as a relationship I try to keep it closer to my age. That way we have more time together588-rolleyes
Guest
Posted: Saturday, November 03, 2012 8:25:27 PM

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I think bottom limit for me would be 21, not being able to drink or go to a bar would be a little difficult. And upper limit, eh, not really.
elitfromnorth
Posted: Saturday, November 03, 2012 8:30:17 PM

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As it comes for sexual partners I don't think I have any preference other than legal and attractive enough for me to get it up, although if I was to go to bed with a woman in her late 40's and 50's she would have to look damn good!

As far as relationship I'd want someone near my own age, plus minus 5 years , simply so we're at the same stage of life together.

"It's at that point you realise Lady Luck is actually a hooker, and you're fresh out of cash."
michelle1973
Posted: Saturday, November 03, 2012 9:22:15 PM

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To me age doesn't matter it's more what a person can bring
Guest
Posted: Saturday, November 03, 2012 10:35:48 PM

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I'm in my mid 20's...so 5 years older would do or 5 years younger would be fine too.
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