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My man says he doesn't share and I'm good with that : ) But there are times when I fantasize and get off on the thought of a beauty for us to share. Something to fill our hands and mouths and other places during sex. I do know though, it would be difficult to share the one and only thing that is for us alone.
Torture the data long enough and they will confess to anything.
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I think what surprises me the most about this thread are the variation of responses.. yes.. maybe.. no.. and.. OH HELL NO!! and the surprise is actually that it seems the no's and oh hell no's are the majority.. watching one's partner be pleasured by someone else as well as pleasure someone else is a very arousing experience.. almost orgasm by proxy.. of course you have to have the self-esteem and security of your relationship in order to truly enjoy it.. I'm not suggesting that it's everyone's cup of tea.. but I can tell you from experience that it can be powerful if the chemistry is there..
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No thanks. It kind of makes me cringe at the idea of my partner having sex with someone else. When Mr Sweets and I had broken up for a year, he went off to meet his much older internet hussy (she had 5 kids and was 21 years older then me) interstate and fucked her the first night he met her.
Then he bragged about what a great fuck she was. Guess who came crawling back four months later with his tail between his legs? PS she was a horrible unattractive woman.
So uh slightly ot uh answer: A well resounding NO FRIGGING WAY!
"Sexual pleasure in woman is a kind of magic spell; it demands complete abandon; if words or movements oppose the magic of caresses, the spell is broken."
Simone de Beauvoir
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only if I am looking in the mirror and see myself making passionate love to my partner....
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Hey, done it, love it, read my stories.....
But! We only ever do it when the other is present, nothing naughty behind backs!!
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Your question can be answered in any different numbers of ways. But it sounds like there is a permission question, as opposed to a question of eroticism.
The TRUST factor is what is important when considering other people in sexual involvements. Without knowing the parameter of your question, I mean who would have sex with whom, it is difficult to gauge an answer. I would have to say this: If you have to ask it in the way you are asking, I suspect that her answer would be "no."
First, let's be clear. Women are more emotionally-based, while men are more physically based, in their sexual and even relationship needs. To that end, men have a greater turn-on factor to physical variety in sex. So your need to see her with another man or woman is a turnon. But the EMOTIONAL part of it says, HELL NO! That's not uncommon as well.
My advice is that since technology is our friend, that you use technology as sort of a "buffer" or "proxy" method of expanding your sexual boundaries. For instance, you may watch her have phone sex with another man or woman. That at least removes the emoitonal ("HELL NO!") barrier while interjecting some sexual variety that you are looking for. Now, even with the phone, you do have to be careful that you or your partner aren't tempted to "cheat" later on.
On the subject, this is perhaps a discussion you may wish to have with a potential mate. Keep in mind that responsible sexual variety is actually quite exhilirating for many people, myself included. The key is having a balance in when and how to engage in such sexual activity. I know of some couples who take personal week long vacations where they are given a free pass for that week to do what they want, including dating, dancing, even sexing with other people (with reason, folks; stay clean and protected!). Obviously, this wouldn't work for everyone, and but the key is to maintain the emotional stability necessary for such an arrangement.
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no way, i'm way too jealous...
I live for those moments she's out of breath and either screaming or murmuring my name as she shutters into orgasm, hearing the wettness as we grind, ...... oh yeah
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I think its sexy and if you and your partner agree i could be a lot of fun..
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We have shared with both sexes its was so hot watch my wife locked in a hot sex position with another man and she lived watching my inside of another female it was,just so sexy to watch mmmmmm
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It's a vehement NO!
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It's a fantasy I have, I would say yes.
But you don't really know how you feel until it happens.
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failed k5 school
zippo the share part
if you are with me
YOU...are with...me
period
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I think of my wife fucking a dark man..
She would love and I think I would love to see how much she enjoyed it!
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Dudealicious wrote:NOPE!
If I saw that, it would mean she would be cheating on me. Not gonna happen thank-you very much. This. Just the version for a female walking in on her male OH.
Teased and Tormented -My very first story and competition entry is now up!
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I've watched my (now) mature wife with many men and one woman".....VERY hot stuff. I'd do it again if she would.
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