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Do you think You could let your partner have a "hall pass" And have your relationship/marriage Work?
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TreeSuh wrote:Do you think You could let your partner have a "hall pass" And have your relationship/marriage Work? Do you mean the permission to go and have sex with somebody else? Like an open marriage?
If so, and both parties are happy for that to happen, I can't see why not, depending on the people. But communication will be vital, as resentments, jealousy and frustration could become very big issues, very quickly.
I couldn't, but I know others who can and do.
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Not in my marriage. Maybe if I became physically incapable of pleasing her, but not until.
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never.
not from my side.
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I was offered a "hall pass" once by an ex-girlfriend. Never had to go to the "bathroom" though. I stayed true till the end (she ended it not Me)
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It takes a really close and trusting relationship to make it work. If you're in a relationship which is strong there's a better chance that it would work. A shaky relationship would just get weaker. If you're just offering a hall pass because you want one yourself, the odds are your relationship is already in trouble.
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CoopsRuthie wrote:It takes a really close and trusting relationship to make it work. If you're in a relationship which is strong there's a better chance that it would work. A shaky relationship would just get weaker. If you're just offering a hall pass because you want one yourself, the odds are your relationship is already in trouble. Agreed. If you're doing it as a way to try and save your relationship then you might as well end it straight away or try to find a way that actually will save it. It could easily end up with resentment if one gets a lot of offers and the other gets none despite trying. That will lead to one being out shagging all night while the other sits at home and gets off while doing some crappy cyber. Not an ideal situation. If both of you really want to fuck other people I suggest swinger's clubs. Then you go together and leave together.
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Not a chance in hell with my spouse.
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