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Guest
Posted: Monday, September 03, 2012 8:49:27 PM

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Does any real friendship/love formed while you're in here?
sprite
Posted: Monday, September 03, 2012 8:50:52 PM

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defirenze wrote:
Does any real friendship/love formed while you're in here?


simple answer. yes. i could even cite examples, but i'm lazy. :)

http://www.lushstories.com/stories/hardcore/west-coast-games-part-one-the-beach.aspx
Buz
Posted: Monday, September 03, 2012 8:57:55 PM

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sprite wrote:


simple answer. yes. i could even cite examples, but i'm lazy. :)


It's true that Sprite has many members on Lush in love with her. And many are just fans and admirers. She'd have to write all day to list those examples. She could start with me!

Yes you can form some excellent friendships here on Lush. There are many quality folks, talented writers, and just interesting people from all around the globe that you would not know otherwise.

littlemissbitch
Posted: Monday, September 03, 2012 8:58:15 PM

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oh yes i say yes! i have found lasting friendships too :)

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Guest
Posted: Monday, September 03, 2012 9:05:37 PM

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Yes, I am in love with one and love many more.
Guest
Posted: Monday, September 03, 2012 9:09:36 PM

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Yes I have a lush boyfriend & he's the only one I will cyber with ;) & now that u say that I am flattered that ms Sprite wrote me today lol I thought she was a fan of mine until I saw her profile lol. Fooken thailand! :)
curiosziti
Posted: Monday, September 03, 2012 9:12:48 PM

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i misunderstood the Q. i thought "how far" as in from reading to simply chatting with a member, or go all the way to hooking up in real life. but, from my browsing, i'm glad quite a lot of people actually found life partners here.
Michael
Posted: Tuesday, September 04, 2012 4:40:35 AM

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A simple question with such a complexity of answers...
Yes, you can easily form real lasting relationships with others, but the quality is more dependent upon you.
Are you willing to be honest with friends? Are you willing to risk rejection? Are you willing to give as much as you hope to receive? If you can honestly answer yes, then the rewards are immense, but if you expect to receive all these aspects of a relationship without exposing yourself equally... then perhaps you are not ready to for a relationship here... or elsewhere.


Shylass
Posted: Tuesday, September 04, 2012 5:11:38 AM

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Absolutely I have formed real friendships here. In actual fact, a very few of my Lush friends know me better than nearly anybody in Real Life Land.

As far as having an intimate relationship goes, I'd have to meet a person (which is an issue I struggle with) before I could allow myself to risk those feelings, and even then I wouldn't dare unless I knew without a doubt that they felt the same.


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Saga
Posted: Tuesday, September 04, 2012 6:02:02 AM

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Yes I have formed real friendships here, people that I have come to care very much and even love. Like shylass said, some friends probably know me better then my real life ones, because I dont feel I need to hide who I am on here.


http://www.lushstories.com/stories/quickie-sex/rye-and-ginger.aspx
1ball
Posted: Tuesday, September 04, 2012 11:06:33 AM

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It would hurt if, for some reason, I could no longer communicate with some of the personalities I've met here. So, yes.

My latest story is too hot to publish. My most recent story before that is Even Stranger In Lust
Peter242
Posted: Wednesday, October 24, 2012 3:08:40 PM

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I met a lovely young lady and we enjoyed many conversations, mainly on instant messaging, acting out spanking scenes. We never met or needed to. The exchange was wonderful for as long as it lasted which was a very long time. We "met" twice a week and loved it.
Nikki703
Posted: Friday, October 26, 2012 9:23:55 AM

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I have made many friends on Lush that I really care about and love. But I have not fallen "in love" with anyone, but can understand how you could. There are some truly wonderful people on Lush!

I have been told that many "in real life" relationships have come from lush, I believe several actaully ending up in marriage. Although I do not know of any first hand.
tryagian
Posted: Friday, October 26, 2012 1:30:17 PM

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friendships- I think so, I chat with only a few people and if they are being honest which I think they are, are good fun people. and overtime can become friends per-say. maybe meeting them someday during travel. lovers--- maybe, would be a little more carefull that way, some people may not be who they act to be.but who knows peolpe do one line dating.
CurlyGirly
Posted: Friday, October 26, 2012 6:47:15 PM

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Without a doubt.



It won a potato. Aren't you intrigued?



Green_Man
Posted: Saturday, October 27, 2012 11:02:30 PM

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Absolutely. My best friend I found here on Lush. We talk all the time off Lush.

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Slow_Talkin
Posted: Wednesday, October 31, 2012 4:20:26 PM

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Well, I'm not sure about here in Lush, but I have chatted on several of the main/popular chat sites for over 15 years..I have met many 'friends' (per se) and dozens of really close Friends" many I have met in person and have become real life friends to this day..others keep in touch via chat and emails.. smles yes..even a couple of lovers and couples that shared intimate moments with..it's all good !!
real69luvr
Posted: Wednesday, October 31, 2012 4:44:09 PM

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I used to chat on IRC chat a while back, I have since found this site, but as yet I not had one person who cared enough to become a friend or better yet, a cyber lover. I have a very active imagination and have had a lot of fun in the past. Maybe someone will see this and give me a shout.lol
JamieW
Posted: Wednesday, October 31, 2012 4:58:24 PM

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Yes I have many close friends on Lush, they all mean alot to me.
ramrod32784
Posted: Wednesday, October 31, 2012 7:44:18 PM

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I have made many friends both male and female that I have grown very fond of and look forward to chatting with them as often as possible
DLizze
Posted: Wednesday, October 31, 2012 9:30:30 PM

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I have one Lush very dear friend, who knows me better than I know myself, and a couple of other friends whom I valuehighly. SO the answer is, you can go as far as you want to, provided you are willing to allow yourself to be vulnerable, and take the associated risks.

"There's only three tempos: slow, medium and fast. When you get between in the cracks, ain't nuthin' happenin'." Ben Webster
Poppet
Posted: Wednesday, October 31, 2012 9:51:02 PM

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I've only been on Lush for less then a month and have met a lot of asshats. But honesty. Yes, I do think You can meet someone, and it be real. If you are both truly honest with who you are, what you want and are faithful to each other. It takes a lot of trust to have something online. Because it's so much easier to slip up online then it is in real. More so when you come to a place like Lush. But if that is who you really want, then it can work, just like in real life.

LauraLee_sugah
Posted: Wednesday, October 31, 2012 11:58:00 PM

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defirenze wrote:
Does any real friendship/love formed while you're in here?


friendship, yes.... love... who knows... there is a certain amount of separation and pretense in the land of electrons... but the friendship is really the most important thing...

sexyeyes37
Posted: Thursday, November 01, 2012 10:22:17 AM

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I have made a couple of really good friends on here.

sexyeyes37
She
Posted: Thursday, November 01, 2012 12:29:43 PM

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You have home page, forum section, profile page, huge stories capacity, so many different profiles..how much further you wanna go?!?
angel7
simplyjohn
Posted: Thursday, November 01, 2012 2:09:03 PM

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Friendship for me .. certainly and I never would have thought that could happen when I joined in a wholly virtual environment. There are people on here that I do feel an attachment too (connection I believe is the buzz word) and feel that I care for. More than that I doubt but then that maybe down to me (not saying I have offers for more by the way) .. sighs.
seeker4
Posted: Thursday, November 01, 2012 2:22:02 PM

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Not been here long enough to really make any attachments, but I have at least one online friend that I met through another board so it's quite possible. Now love, I'm not so sure. I think I'd need to have an in-person relationship to actually fall in love with someone.


Stories that satisfy about people seeking satisfaction

Satisfaction in the Park

Satisfaction in the Library
crazydiamond
Posted: Thursday, November 01, 2012 2:39:05 PM

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She wrote:
You have home page, forum section, profile page, huge stories capacity, so many different profiles..how much further you wanna go?!?
angel7


You say that now... you may surprise yourself. I did.

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Posted: Thursday, November 01, 2012 4:42:31 PM

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