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I have realized that after a punishment or a correction I tend to wall up. My quite talkative mouth shuts up, my eyes space out, my body tenses and gets kinda stiff and I'm just there. As if I'm looking over the situation rather than being in the situation. My walls just go up. If that makes any sense. 
Then after about a few seconds of putting up those walls, I correct myself and continue doing what pleases my Master.  
Does anyone else do this after a punishment or a correction? If not, What is your behavior like after a punishment or correction?
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To Reflect on what you have done is quite normal, Time to wipe your tears and pull yourself into line. Once that's done it is time to give thanks to the Master or Mistress! 
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I have the same problem, except I wall up for no reason at all sometimes, so much so that the only thing that will break it down is a direct order. Luckily He knows when to push me and order it, and when to just give me a little bit of space. I agree that a bit of reflection period could be a good thing, but if it really worries you, maybe you could ask for the same? To be ordered to be back in the present? Just my  , good luck!
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Well, how about a Master's perspective?
On the rare occasions I have to punish or discipline my pet, I will spank her or whatever I have to do, then I make her stand in a corner for a bit to think about what she has done. But afterwards, I make absolutely sure I spend some time holding her, cuddling with her, and making sure she understands that while I did not approve of what she did to deserve the punishment, that does not mean I don't still love her.
Now some might think that this would lead her to misbehave more just to get the cuddling, and that may be so (she does love to be spanked!) but I also cuddle and hold her when she is good as well. I would rather have her misbehave a little more than to doubt for even a second that I didn't love her with all my heart.
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I agree with that. One key part of punishment is that once the guilty party has been punished, then the slate is wiped clean. Neither the disciplinarian nor the penitent can dwell further on the incident. The cuddle time afterwards is a way for both parties to reconnect and to wipe away with love any potential for any hurt feelings on either side.
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I'm the same way a bit.. I tend to go quiet and think about what I have done wrong before opening my mouth and saying anything. Just in case I say something cheeky. Which I tend to do a lot.. Master doesn't mind this, most time. But if it were after a punishment He'd not be amused. My Master always makes sure I am okay and holds me when He is done. He is loving, and caring and protects me.
Seems to me you're not doing anything out of the norm.. ^-^
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we do and agree with all the above
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