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Michael
Posted: Tuesday, November 22, 2011 11:57:13 PM

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Joined: 10/22/2011
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Location: Expat in, Russia
Are you a Dom or a Sub?
If so, could you express your emotions when with a new partner?

Links to relevant stories you have posted would be a big help...

Bethany
Posted: Wednesday, November 23, 2011 12:08:53 AM

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Joined: 5/11/2011
Posts: 8
Location: Minneapolis, United States
Oooh now that depends on my mood! Expressing what I am feeling is the best test for that new partner. Watching his/her reaction will go a long way in determining where we go next. ;-)
wolfpost
Posted: Tuesday, December 13, 2011 6:10:23 PM

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Joined: 12/10/2011
Posts: 20
Location: United States
Passive aggressive normally. I let him take charge but I show him what I want with my actions.

This is my ex not me.
Bf and I share account
Guest
Posted: Tuesday, December 13, 2011 8:28:41 PM

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Joined: 12/1/2006
Posts: 473,808
I'm usually submissive....but, when I really want something I'm not afraid to ask for it.
Laura_N
Posted: Tuesday, December 13, 2011 9:09:57 PM

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Posts: 15
Location: United States
I was not sure until I met my gf, she made me love being her Dom. So, Dom until further notice.
elainehoney
Posted: Wednesday, December 14, 2011 3:05:05 PM

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Joined: 12/8/2011
Posts: 22
Location: Portland, United States
OH as you can see, I'm a sub for sure.
VickieLynn1
Posted: Wednesday, December 14, 2011 3:23:39 PM

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Location: So Cal, United States
I'm actually both. I'll be submissive to the older ladies sometime to the younger ones if their personality deserves it and I'm glad a com to youngsters that present as subs

nothing beats a luscious kiss from well painted lips ;) mmmmmmmmm...........
Guest
Posted: Thursday, December 15, 2011 6:53:16 PM

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How dom or sub the female is depends on the male....ok hold on, I'll explain..
When I see a male that agrees with my palate, I will look him directly at the eyes, deep and long. If his stare holds to mine, most likely I will lose interest.Now, if he stands down then I can toy with the volume of dom to be practiced.
Pretty simple, but you asked.
TopThis
Posted: Thursday, December 15, 2011 6:59:40 PM

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Joined: 11/17/2010
Posts: 946
Location: Mountains of , United States

Dom/sub has NOTHING to do with sex and everything to do with a state of mind. If you like to tie your partner up and have sex, congrats you're kinky! That in no way makes you either Dom nor sub!
Michael
Posted: Friday, December 16, 2011 5:28:06 AM

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Location: Expat in, Russia
So Dom/Sub is more of a role play, and it may be temporary or a permanent part of he relationship. Some Subs are unable to play the Dom and remain Sub; but a Dom is strong enough to play a Sub on occasion but prefers to be Dom.

I think....






Choenix
Posted: Saturday, December 17, 2011 3:31:13 AM

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Location: On Lush, Germany
i'm more of 50/50. hahas!! Love giving in and giving it!
Kimasa
Posted: Saturday, December 17, 2011 6:17:17 AM

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Joined: 11/18/2010
Posts: 1,219
Location: Narnia, United Kingdom
I am a reluctant submissive.

If a man or woman I like comes on to me I enjoy submitting myself to them after resisting a little.

I won't come on to them.

My latest story:

http://www.lushstories.com/stories/reluctance/the-school-reunion.aspx
xXshunikaXx
Posted: Saturday, December 17, 2011 7:03:12 AM

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Joined: 6/30/2011
Posts: 98
Location: Ireland
Submissive.
YourRose__xx
Posted: Saturday, December 17, 2011 1:58:56 PM

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Location: United Kingdom
more of a submissive without a doubt. genuinely don't think i could even be slightly dominant with my boyfriend when it comes to sex. it doesn't feel right for me.

I L o v e Y o u .

I L o v e d Y o u A l l A l o n g .


Y o u r R o s e .

< 3
LatinSugar
Posted: Saturday, December 17, 2011 7:46:49 PM

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Joined: 10/29/2011
Posts: 3,595
Location: Dancing on the Beach under the Moonlight
Hot topic...I understand it is indeed a state of mind, the NEED and not "always" the desire to either dom or sub is maybe what could be defined.
Any thoughts?

Laugh, Learn and Most of all Love...My Way of Life...
Guest
Posted: Sunday, December 18, 2011 12:49:12 AM

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I was born a submissive ......
Guest
Posted: Sunday, January 15, 2012 1:23:52 PM

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I'm usually submissive but, when I really want something I'm no Push over lol
Guest
Posted: Sunday, January 15, 2012 2:16:39 PM

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I'm pretty much a submissive. I've tried to be the Domme with comical results. I'm much more comfortable as the submissive.
crazydiamond
Posted: Sunday, January 15, 2012 2:17:44 PM

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Joined: 7/17/2011
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Location: Exactly where I should be!, Canada
Depends on who you are with 100%.
IRL I guess I would be considered Dominant, but sometimes, here, I do relinquish. Sometimes it's nice to leave the control to someone else.
Rarely, but sometimes Shhh

Guest
Posted: Sunday, January 15, 2012 2:18:27 PM

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I've been a dom, would like to try being a sub sometime...
SyrianGurl
Posted: Sunday, January 15, 2012 4:11:38 PM

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Location: Damascus, Syria
It really depends on who i am with. I enjoy being Dom but I also like being sub. really depends on my partner!
Guest
Posted: Sunday, January 15, 2012 4:18:50 PM

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although leaning more to dom,have to agree with syrian gurl
Guest
Posted: Sunday, January 15, 2012 5:24:37 PM

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Both
BelleduJour
Posted: Sunday, January 15, 2012 6:02:19 PM

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Location: Canada
depends on my mood and my partner's mood. i love both. variety is the key ;)

LauraLee_sugah
Posted: Sunday, January 15, 2012 8:26:04 PM

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Joined: 9/10/2011
Posts: 2,324
Location: the sweet, sunny south, United States
my tendency is to want to be a sub... but i understand the power that gives me and that i choose to trust a dom and surrender that power...

sometimes i have to watch....

read my masturbation story, Isla
Hot-n-fiesty
Posted: Sunday, January 15, 2012 8:29:31 PM

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Joined: 12/23/2011
Posts: 3
Location: United States
Both
Guest
Posted: Saturday, November 17, 2012 5:12:38 AM

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defanetly sub I love being used and abused
MssTreeNymph
Posted: Saturday, November 17, 2012 9:38:37 AM

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Location: United States
Despite what some people may think, a dom/sub relationship is actually quite romantic. It takes alot of courage and a vast amount of trust to submit to someone and be completely vulnerable with them. It also takes alot of responsibility and confidence in yourself to have that kind of power over someone. That being said, I have to truly know and trust my partner before submitting to them like that, and I honestly wouldn't feel comfortable playing the role of a dom over a complete stranger. But there is huge difference between rough/kinky sex, and a dom/sub relationship. But to answer the question, I'm more of a sub although I enjoy playing both roles.
Natalatay
Posted: Monday, November 19, 2012 1:44:35 AM

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Location: United States
I think I would be the submissive one. I love a guy who can take charge because I sometimes get nervous or just don't know what to do, so the guy has to know what he's doing before he ends up in bed with me.
lilgirl1414
Posted: Friday, December 07, 2012 8:28:06 PM

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Location: Canada
Submissive to a Dom that I have feelings for. I can be Domme to men, but without emotions. Usually prefer Domme towards other girls; if I'm sub, it has to be a very special girl that clicks with me. Yes I'm a switch.
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