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ok my hubby wants to share me with other guys . what is the turn/on about sharing your wife or girl/f ?
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Hi Sweetie Don't really know the exact answer but just like watching porn sharing seems to be the same. I am not turned on by sharing - don't even like threesomes unless it all about it
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The thought of sharing my significant other with someone else is revolting to me. Why? The thought of another guy having his way with her, even if I am in the room, turns me off immediately.
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I think the question that should be asked is this......
DO YOU WANT TO FUCK OTHER GUYS?
How much can a person truly love and cherish another if they want to share the one sacred thing that they have together? I would question him.
If you like the idea of being exploited in this manner, then go for it. If you are only considering it to please him and aren't so keen on the idea but feel pressured into it, then speak now because once it goes down there ain't no way to change your mind. If you like the idea of being he and his buddies fuck toy then enjoy. Keep in mind also that if you fuck his friends once, then they will want to fuck you again....and again....and again......You might want to tell him that if your pussy is up for grabs for him and his buds then you will now also have the right to share it with whomever you choose.......
It's up to you. take it from a former married swinger. Things will never be the same after something like this happens......EVER
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So easily answered getting the left overs! I don't exploit my partner if anything I enjoy her exploiting me.
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I wouldn't want to share my boyfriend/husband ever. The idea of being watched is a bit of a turn off for me. I'd not feel comfortable doing that. I think sex should stay between two people.
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My lady&Ive swung many times(shes bi)&enjoyed it a lot,her,more than me many times&shes usually@it first&we found it gr8 4 our sex together&it bougt us closer 2gether.She luvd seeing me hve sex with a girl shed just had&I luvd watching her with both sexes.
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sweetsissy36 wrote:ok my hubby wants to share me with other guys . what is the turn/on about sharing your wife or girl/f ? Different guys have different reasons for wanting to do it. For some guys it is just a thing they are into, the idea of watching some other guy nail their girl turns them on. For others it is because they like the idea of seeing another man make her come. For others it would be because the woman has a much higher sex drive than they do and they can't keep up.
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Sweetie, I can't speak for other men out there, but for me it was a couple of things, first and foremost it was about her achieving the maximum pleasure that she could in a sexual situation. If one is good, two should be twice as good. Next, it was all about being able to watch her reaction to the things that were being done in order for her to achieve orgasm. If I wasn't the focal point of the sex, I could see what turned her on and what didn't. Last but not least, variety is the spice of life. Someone else may do things to her that she and I haddn't thought of, and so I learn a new trick to add to my bag of tricks to increase her sexual pleasure.
I found that I could learn a lot when sharing her with women too.
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There would have to be something very effed up if I ever asked my woman to be with someone other than me. The thought of another mans cock inside of her makes me see red. He would have to be a very good sprinter if I caught him. Run Forrest run!!
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We (most guys i know) like the feeling of being able to 'control' more things, the more girls, the more we like it.
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sweetsissy36 wrote:ok my hubby wants to share me with other guys . what is the turn/on about sharing your wife or girl/f ? Watching your girl get pleased while I watch is a huge turn-on for me... and then join in.. for a double penetration anal / pussy... pussy and mouth... and lets not stop there with one guy joining in.. do issues with a gang bang till she screams for the guys to stop
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I think it has to do with being a "good" alpha male. The "Good" Alpha Male doesn't say "all mine" but rather says "let's share". A "King" who keeps all his gold is consider a miser, but a King who shares his "wealth" is considered a "good King."
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add my 2 cents to this...sorry that i am a girl
i think this is awful...to me your lover is your dream your fantasy...your life
her or his body is scared and the lust you create is yours alone
i mean if he wants to SHARE you with mulitples...is that not..a PIMP??
in understand maybe bringing in a third party though i could never share my partner...
but many
no
no...
and no.....
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I don't know what the turn on is for other guys - I've read what some have to say but do not understand it. I think Irishdandy nailed it - if it is a turn on for you and you can handle the consequences - enjoy. But do not do it reluctantly to please him. I could never share my wife, I do not fantasize about it. I do fantasize about other men's wives but only if the woman wants it - and it has only been a fantasy.
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I'm not really that into the idea of sharing her with someone, but could see sharing a sexual experience with her. That is, I can't really see myself just watching her with someone (though I might let her if she asked and I was okay with the guy she wanted), but I could see the two us involved in a threesome or swinging with another couple, either of which would involve both of us having sex with other people. Most likely won't happen, though.
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I cannot say I enjoy the thought or the act of sharing the woman I love with other men. I would stretch it as far as talking about her being taken by other guys during sex, but that would be where I would draw the line. I can, on the other hand, see the pleasure a woman would draw from being the object of several mens sexual appetite. I guess what I'm trying to say is that, like most things... it isn't everyone's cup of tea 
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I would never want to share my significant other with another person. To each his own.
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sweetsissy36 wrote:ok my hubby wants to share me with other guys . what is the turn/on about sharing your wife or girl/f ? Just watching the wife taking a pounding from a friend is a huge thrill.
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With another woman, fine. With another man.... no. I know me and how I think. To be with a woman and another man it would have to be her and HER husband/boyfriend.... not MINE. Or, she could be someone I don't know and will never see again... then hell, toss in lots of guys, LOL But yeah, I know ME, and it is best to be honest with yourself and not put yourself in a situation that WILL ruin your relationship. And in this case, it would.
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