Welcome Guest Search | Active Topics | Members | Log In | Register

Would being with an older virgin stop you? Options · View
NeuroGirl
Posted: Saturday, November 24, 2012 5:50:30 AM

Rank: Rookie Scribe

Joined: 11/18/2012
Posts: 6
Location: United States
I am a 30 year old virgin. If you and I finally took that step; would you that stop you, or think twice about being with me? Would it be a problem at all?
My guy friends have always spoken of older virgins as a weird breed.
WellMadeMale
Posted: Saturday, November 24, 2012 6:41:35 AM

Rank: Constant Gardener

Joined: 9/30/2009
Posts: 10,216
Location: Cakeland, United States
NeuroGirl wrote:
I am a 30 year old virgin. If you and I finally took that step; would you that stop you, or think twice about being with me? Would it be a problem at all?
My guy friends have always spoken of older virgins as a weird breed.


I was with a forty year old female virgin once. She was a virgin in the regard that she'd never had penetrative sex with a male before (so she claimed), having lived her entire adult life in a committed lesbian relationship with a much older lover (who had recently passed away, after a long illness, just before I met - Mary).

Don't let the opinion of your male friends sway you or make you feel - inadequate, weird, different. They may be just wanting to get into your panties and since they've been shut out, they are liable to say anything vindictive, cruel or demeaning.

I was 47, Mary was 40. It was not a problem at all...except that I was worried that she might become emotionally attached due to circumstances - and I only had control over my part in those circumstances. In the end, my own carnality overtook me. Again. evil4

And she did develop a severe case of (You're my first, I am so in love with you). We'd 'known each other about 5 weeks'...4 of those - online.

Relax NeuroGirl. It's nothing but a thang. You're not weird.

If ya can't beat 'em... pay someone to do it for you.
doctorlove
Posted: Saturday, November 24, 2012 7:06:04 AM

Rank: Forum Guru

Joined: 9/11/2012
Posts: 508
Location: United States
I would only hesitate, not that I wouldn't want you, but to make sure this is really what you wanted. You deserve a good pounding, but only when your ready.
Driver1963
Posted: Saturday, November 24, 2012 9:32:58 AM

Rank: Advanced Wordsmith

Joined: 10/4/2009
Posts: 81
Location: United States
Maybe I'm wierd too. Your virginity is to be celebrated! The guy you give it to should treasure you as a precious gift forever, especially since you wated so long. Just make sure he is THE one.
Green_Man
Posted: Saturday, November 24, 2012 9:36:13 AM

Rank: Forum Guru

Joined: 6/9/2012
Posts: 1,003
Location: A verdant glen, United States
Please, do not worry about it. I myself was a virgin until I was 27 years old. I was horny as hell but was extremely hesitant about forcing myself upon a woman. It's no big thing. You would be surprised how many virgins are out there. There is someone who would treat you like a princess and really teach you well if you are really looking.

1lush
Posted: Saturday, November 24, 2012 10:46:27 AM

Rank: Forum Guru

Joined: 3/16/2012
Posts: 560
Location: Eastern, United States
In todays world there is nothing wrong with virginity. Men view it as a challenge or trophy to claim. I myself would not be put off by it. Alot of females I've been with view their first time was with a asshole, but age really has nothing to do with it.
dragonwarrior
Posted: Saturday, November 24, 2012 12:00:02 PM

Rank: Advanced Wordsmith

Joined: 4/18/2012
Posts: 78
Location: United Kingdom
No it wouldn't stop me. Tho I would make sure it was what you wanted and would then try and make it a memorable experience! A memory that you would get joy from and never regret!

I am a leaf on the wind - watch how I soar.
JustJohn
Posted: Saturday, November 24, 2012 3:06:28 PM

Rank: Forum Guru

Joined: 1/28/2012
Posts: 103
Location: United Kingdom
No it wouldn't stop me, but I would like to feel that if someone had waited to 30 they wouldn't let some one take there virginity on a whim
realz
Posted: Sunday, November 25, 2012 5:52:16 AM

Rank: Forum Guru

Joined: 1/29/2011
Posts: 193
hmmm... wouldn't necessarily stop me, but it's also unlikely I'd be in that situation.

I wouldn't likely pursue a woman who was still a virgin at that age, to be honest, I'd worry that she was either an ice queen or had some troubling hangups. Besides one of the nice things about most mature women is the earthy sensuality from having seen it all, you don't have to worry about a fragile, impressionable flower.
Guest
Posted: Sunday, November 25, 2012 8:53:27 AM

Rank: Lurker

Joined: 12/1/2006
Posts: 473,808
After I have gotten to know her and see what makes her click, I would feel honored if a woman had waited years and years for her fist time and chose me to be the one to give herself to. I would do everything I know how, to ensure that it was everything she would ever have wanted out of a first time experience.
NeuroGirl
Posted: Sunday, November 25, 2012 9:57:41 PM

Rank: Rookie Scribe

Joined: 11/18/2012
Posts: 6
Location: United States
Thank you everyone for your answers. My friends kinda had me worried a bit. You have been extremely helpful.
gruffman76
Posted: Sunday, December 02, 2012 5:55:26 PM

Rank: Active Ink Slinger

Joined: 7/22/2012
Posts: 38
Location: 2000, Australia
No. If I liked you it wouldn't be an issue for me.
ByronLord
Posted: Sunday, December 02, 2012 6:32:01 PM

Rank: Forum Guru

Joined: 11/14/2010
Posts: 721
Location: Massachusetts, United States
Not a problem at all.

And even if it was an issue, only an oaf would mention that it was.

After all, it will only ever be an issue once!

Aletheia
Posted: Sunday, December 02, 2012 6:42:39 PM

Rank: Forum Guru

Joined: 7/5/2012
Posts: 271
Location: Through the Looking Glass, United States
Irishdandy wrote:
After I have gotten to know her and see what makes her click, I would feel honored if a woman had waited years and years for her fist time and chose me to be the one to give herself to. I would do everything I know how, to ensure that it was everything she would ever have wanted out of a first time experience.


This is the kind of guy I'd want to be with if I were to be having sex for the first time...someone who would want to make it special and memorable for me. Good luck and enjoy!
Gramps
Posted: Sunday, December 02, 2012 7:33:19 PM

Rank: Forum Guru

Joined: 3/15/2007
Posts: 298
Location: Anna Maria Island, United States
If we have built a relationship, and the time and circumstances are right, I would not hesitate (yes, you are more than 40 years younger than I). My wife was almost your age when we married and we both were virgin until nine hours after the wedding.
A wonderful day!

Gramps

The quiet and always horny old guy in Sunny Florida USA
romeoindian
Posted: Monday, December 03, 2012 8:16:35 AM

Rank: Active Ink Slinger

Joined: 2/19/2007
Posts: 47
Location: All over the world!, India
No way! I might feel a little more responsible to ensure she had a great time, but otherwise, I would be quite excited!
Guest
Posted: Tuesday, December 25, 2012 10:06:26 AM

Rank: Lurker

Joined: 12/1/2006
Posts: 473,808
Absolutely not! f-hihi
vikinglongship
Posted: Monday, December 31, 2012 11:30:21 PM

Rank: Active Ink Slinger

Joined: 11/3/2012
Posts: 22
Location: Cawsand, United Kingdom
Regaeman Man no I would love to take your cherry- your not weird your just !waiting for the right man!
Joad58
Posted: Sunday, January 06, 2013 6:19:17 PM

Rank: Advanced Wordsmith

Joined: 1/6/2013
Posts: 52
Location: Austin, United States
Not at all Honey. We all have a first time. It is very special and should be memoriable and very special with someone who wants you to enjoy it.
kylie_kained
Posted: Sunday, January 06, 2013 8:01:02 PM

Rank: Detention Seeker

Joined: 8/17/2010
Posts: 994
Location: Over your Knee Screaming and Kicking!, United King
No not at all and I would also feel honored that I had been given your trust.
















Adventurer
Posted: Saturday, May 18, 2013 5:21:55 AM

Rank: Active Ink Slinger

Joined: 8/18/2012
Posts: 27
Location: United Kingdom
Age shouldn't effect anything if your virgin then that's fine whether your 18 or 40, it's a choice you made or the opportunity hasn't arisen for you. If a man wants to be with you then he will be understanding and help you to experience the joys of sex.
beeper726
Posted: Sunday, May 19, 2013 7:08:01 PM

Rank: Forum Guru

Joined: 8/16/2011
Posts: 190
Location: United States
I don't find it a problem at all. I actually think it's more of a turn on than anything.
matt55
Posted: Sunday, May 19, 2013 7:21:21 PM

Rank: Forum Guru

Joined: 3/31/2013
Posts: 374
Location: Atlanta area, United States
it wouldn't stop me at all...I would be more loving and gentle.
tentigo4u
Posted: Sunday, May 19, 2013 7:47:52 PM

Rank: Active Ink Slinger

Joined: 3/8/2013
Posts: 44
Location: United States
Surre would not stop me. Older women have more tender feelings!
nostranger2luv
Posted: Sunday, May 19, 2013 8:07:01 PM

Rank: Active Ink Slinger

Joined: 2/23/2013
Posts: 35
Location: United States
Not at all. Her wait will have been well worth it
pricklypear
Posted: Tuesday, May 21, 2013 5:01:59 AM

Rank: Forum Guru

Joined: 4/9/2013
Posts: 3,838
Location: somewhere over the rainbow, United States
while being 30 and a virgin is rare this day and age, it's not weird.

my guess is that your guy friends said that so you'd consider fucking them. laughing9
Users browsing this topic
Guest 


Forum Jump
You cannot post new topics in this forum.
You cannot reply to topics in this forum.
You cannot delete your posts in this forum.
You cannot edit your posts in this forum.
You cannot create polls in this forum.
You cannot vote in polls in this forum.

Main Forum RSS : RSS

Powered by Yet Another Forum.net version 1.9.1.6 (NET v4.0) - 11/14/2007
Copyright © 2003-2006 Yet Another Forum.net. All rights reserved.