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karpadiem09
Posted: Sunday, October 28, 2012 11:51:45 AM

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I am 41 bi curious male, i am married to a very sweet woman unfortunatly sex with her is very basic and vanilla only one postion works for her due to her size , unfortunatly due to hormones am always horny and basic vanilla just doesnt cut it. I have a couple of guys am considerin hookin up with for sexual play, dont consider it cheatin if not involvin other women,and they're bein into s&m type play is a definite turn on for me, i have been with guys before meetin wife so she knows i used to play but not since her, so curious of thers opinion on the matter
MarySweets
Posted: Monday, October 29, 2012 6:10:11 AM

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Cheating is cheating doesn't matter if your off fucking another woman or fucking some other guy up the arse.

Your wife will flip even more so if you go off and fuck some cock. Well good luck any way.

See you in the funny pages.

"Sexual pleasure in woman is a kind of magic spell; it demands complete abandon; if words or movements oppose the magic of caresses, the spell is broken."

Simone de Beauvoir
DLizze
Posted: Monday, October 29, 2012 6:00:05 PM

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If you have to hide it from your significant other, even if you are just wanking one off over in the corner, it is sexually cheating. There is NO grey area here.

"There's only three tempos: slow, medium and fast. When you get between in the cracks, ain't nuthin' happenin'." Ben Webster
elitfromnorth
Posted: Thursday, November 01, 2012 8:50:47 AM

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Talk to your wife. Tell her you got urges that needs to be released. Maybe she'll be interested at trying new things. I doubt there's just one position that works for her, you two just gotta have a talk and see what happens. If it ends up with you cheating then all hell will break loose when she finds out. Yes, I said when, not if.

"It's at that point you realise Lady Luck is actually a hooker, and you're fresh out of cash."
realz
Posted: Sunday, November 25, 2012 5:59:59 AM

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I don't know where this 'if it's the same sex it's not cheatin' comes from. Well maybe from stupid porn films

I was married for a number of years to a bisexual woman (we eventually moved on for a number of reasons but are still close). We did not have an open relationship, but it was not rigidly closed either, a generous degree of flirtation was allowed. I can tell you this, however, it didn't bother me if she flirted with men, but with women I was very uncomfortable.

I wouldn't be surprised it your wife felt the same way.
Dudealicious
Posted: Sunday, November 25, 2012 6:55:18 AM

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karpadiem09 wrote:
I am 41 bi curious male, i am married to a very sweet woman unfortunatly sex with her is very basic and vanilla only one postion works for her due to her size , unfortunatly due to hormones am always horny and basic vanilla just doesnt cut it. I have a couple of guys am considerin hookin up with for sexual play, dont consider it cheatin if not involvin other women,and they're bein into s&m type play is a definite turn on for me, i have been with guys before meetin wife so she knows i used to play but not since her, so curious of thers opinion on the matter


So what you are saying is that your wife is a big girl and can only have sex in one position to feel somewhat comfortable. Now seeing as your hormones are "raging" you feel the need for some cock and think its not cheating?

What world do you live in?

Edit: oh by the way you're an ass.

The night that changed my life, a four part series of a married man lusting after his co-worker

TreeSuh
Posted: Sunday, November 25, 2012 7:24:10 AM

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MarySweets wrote:
Cheating is cheating doesn't matter if your off fucking another woman or fucking some other guy up the arse.


^^Agreed.

Talk to her, tell her your needs, Im sure she would be open to trying some things instead of you cheating.
hankyspanky
Posted: Sunday, November 25, 2012 7:55:15 AM

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Only did fuck when my lady was there&getthng it2, &w e luvd seeing the other going off with another.
keoloke
Posted: Sunday, November 25, 2012 8:18:39 AM

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A) the screw that you will do is not worth that screw that you will get.
This rule always works.

B) it seems to me that you want to re-experience your bi side... If you ever did. Your wife cannot fulfill that in any case. Humm, a strap on?

C) Since you already had bi experiences and most importantly your wife knows about it, why don't you start a conversation with her and see what comes out of it.

D) Do not blame her for sex, so to reinforce and excuse your desires.

E) You need to live your life, so make sure that it is a strong desire and not just a little fantasy. Than come out clean so you can truly move on and fully live it with the wife or not.


Choose n Practice Happiness

Life is simple; we are what we eat and what we read. Talk is superfluous.
hankyspanky
Posted: Sunday, November 25, 2012 8:25:32 AM

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Well,we have swapped together&both enjoyed it totally.
Guest
Posted: Sunday, November 25, 2012 9:09:25 AM

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keoloke wrote:
A) the screw that you will do is not worth that screw that you will get.
This rule always works.

B) it seems to me that you want to re-experience your bi side... If you ever did. Your wife cannot fulfill that in any case. Humm, a strap on?

C) Since you already had bi experiences and most importantly your wife knows about it, why don't you start a conversation with her and see what comes out of it.

D) Do not blame her for sex, so to reinforce and excuse your desires.

E) You need to live your life, so make sure that it is a strong desire and not just a little fantasy. Than come out clean so you can truly move on and fully live it with the wife or not.


Best answer I have seen....Nice one....Well thought out and displayed.

To the poster.....Cheating is cheating......I don't care what your fucking. You need to be str8 with her or get out of it so you AND she can live free......
Aussie07
Posted: Sunday, November 25, 2012 11:19:13 AM

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Sex is sex with a female or male so cheating is cheating doesnt matter what sex it is if you fuck suck or even wank another guy thats cheating talk to your wife maybe a threeway mmf is an idea is mite want to do
Guest
Posted: Thursday, January 03, 2013 6:54:16 PM

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discuss it with your wife, because she might be open to trying new things, but if you hide it, cheating is cheating no matter who with
kylie_kained
Posted: Thursday, January 03, 2013 8:12:46 PM

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Ask her first if it's ok to do it but I would also make sure that any potential partner you may have has been checked for any type of social disease better to be safe than end up giving your wife a nasty surprise.
















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