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Myself, I've been asked out 3 times by different women, I did know all three but not very well and yep i was caught off guard each time(wut?).
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Figured I'd chime in, I've been asked out by a girl as well once, she was older than myself and I was definitely caught off guard.
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Yup, many times. It was casual and fun, though. I was a bar manager and I used to get comp'd tickets to hockey games, concerts, events and such. If I knew someone liked a certain hockey team or band or could behave themselves at a Wine & Food festival, I'd ask them to go with me. I never found it difficult to ask someone out on a date... But then I kept it light and casual and didn't make a big deal of it.
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Hmm yes I asked my current date out to our last date, it shocked him through and through but our date was great haha. I think for shy guys sometimes they need the push, however at the same time, it's putting a lot of trust in the guy to be a gentleman about it and not just try to take advantage of you.
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I have, or I’d probably still be waiting. They’d need to have something special to begin with though, if I went as far as asking them out. If they can at least hold a conversation with me, and be good company, then I’m happy. Anything more on a first date really isn’t necessary.
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I did one time. I really liked him and he was pretty shy so I figured why not ask. We ended up going out a few times but it didnt work out.
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I have nudged a guy but never straight up asked him! <3rooke
 
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do one night stands count? i've been the aggressor with those - dates, not so much. :)
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Yeah, I have. It's really not a huge deal for me. I'm not ridiculously aggressive or anything, but if I came across a guy and we shared a common interest or two, asking him to go see that cool movie with me or attend a lecture or check out this band seemed perfectly natural. 
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I actually told my husband he was a good date before we ever went on a date. It's how I got his interest ;)
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Yes I have, so what if they say no? Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
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I've asked a guy on a date a few times before, it's usually someone I've known for longer than 5 minutes...
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Yes, I have.. He said Yes Thank goodness!
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It’s funny for me. I’m very old fashion in a lot of ways and in others I’m not. I don’t think it should always be up to the man to do the asking out. However if the girl does ask, this implies that she is paying. And yes, I do think that girls should pay on dates too. You can have him pay, her pay or go Dutch. I don’t think a girl should ask a man out then expect him to pay. I have in fact asked men out and paid.
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I have and he said yes.
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Only once. The couple of seconds it took for me finish asking and for him to say "yes" were amongst the longest of my life--and I was confident what the answer would be! The experience gave me a new appreciation for what guys must go through on a regular basis.
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Oh yes and more than once. If you see someone you are interested in why let the opportunity slip away?
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Poppet wrote:It’s funny for me. I’m very old fashion in a lot of ways and in others I’m not. I don’t think it should always be up to the man to do the asking out. However if the girl does ask, this implies that she is paying. And yes, I do think that girls should pay on dates too. You can have him pay, her pay or go Dutch. I don’t think a girl should ask a man out then expect him to pay. I have in fact asked men out and paid.
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I work on the beach and during spring break women are amazingly aggressive!!!!! I've been asked out or to hook up lots of times.
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Yes, and I had fun dates with them!!
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Yes, I have ... even after I was married ;-)
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I have quite a lot, I don't get turned down much, if they do fair enough and move on :)
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Yes, have definitely asked a guy out before. Sometimes they were just to shy to get that ball rolling.
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Yes I did. I know he had a crush on me but always fumbled when I made him to talk. So I thought it would be better for me to take first step
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No I haven't. Not that I wouldn't, just haven't had the opportunity to do so yet.
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Yes, yes I have.
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only if they were super hot. usually just casually for a hook up or something. let's be honest most girls only ask guys on dates to fuck. i'm not one to pay for a date.
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I have asked guys out, I don't see that that is a bad thing to do.
Having said that I have also had a couple say no based on the fact that they felt I shouldn't have asked them!
Spain is still a very macho country!!
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