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Guest
Posted: Sunday, November 25, 2012 4:03:35 PM

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Myself, I've been asked out 3 times by different women, I did know all three but not very well and yep i was caught off guard each time(wut?).

Ok, it's your turn now if you please.

foxjack
Posted: Sunday, November 25, 2012 4:32:22 PM

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Figured I'd chime in, I've been asked out by a girl as well once, she was older than myself and I was definitely caught off guard.
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Posted: Sunday, November 25, 2012 10:12:15 PM

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Yup, many times. It was casual and fun, though.
I was a bar manager and I used to get comp'd tickets to hockey games, concerts, events and such. If I knew someone liked a certain hockey team or band or could behave themselves at a Wine & Food festival, I'd ask them to go with me.
I never found it difficult to ask someone out on a date... But then I kept it light and casual and didn't make a big deal of it.

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Posted: Monday, November 26, 2012 12:00:38 AM

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Hmm yes I asked my current date out to our last date, it shocked him through and through but our date was great haha. I think for shy guys sometimes they need the push, however at the same time, it's putting a lot of trust in the guy to be a gentleman about it and not just try to take advantage of you.

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Posted: Monday, November 26, 2012 3:58:55 AM

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I have, or I’d probably still be waiting. They’d need to have something special to begin with though, if I went as far as asking them out.

If they can at least hold a conversation with me, and be good company, then I’m happy. Anything more on a first date really isn’t necessary.




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Posted: Monday, November 26, 2012 1:46:51 PM

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I did one time. I really liked him and he was pretty shy so I figured why not ask. We ended up going out a few times but it didnt work out.
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Posted: Monday, November 26, 2012 3:34:07 PM

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No, I haven't. Not as a first date. Or probably even a second date.

Once I'm already in the process of dating someone though, yes, I'll arrange or hook things up.


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Posted: Monday, November 26, 2012 9:09:17 PM

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I have nudged a guy but never straight up asked him!

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Posted: Monday, November 26, 2012 9:15:56 PM

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do one night stands count? i've been the aggressor with those - dates, not so much. :)

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Posted: Monday, November 26, 2012 10:39:20 PM

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Yeah, I have. It's really not a huge deal for me. I'm not ridiculously aggressive or anything, but if I came across a guy and we shared a common interest or two, asking him to go see that cool movie with me or attend a lecture or check out this band seemed perfectly natural. dontknow



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Kinky_Becky
Posted: Saturday, December 15, 2012 6:17:26 PM

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I actually told my husband he was a good date before we ever went on a date. It's how I got his interest ;)

Guest
Posted: Saturday, December 15, 2012 6:28:38 PM

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Yes I have, so what if they say no? Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
SexySilvia
Posted: Saturday, December 15, 2012 6:40:57 PM

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I've asked a guy on a date a few times before, it's usually someone I've known for longer than 5 minutes...
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Posted: Saturday, December 15, 2012 7:08:12 PM

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Yes, I have.. He said Yes Thank goodness!
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Posted: Saturday, December 15, 2012 7:29:34 PM

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It’s funny for me. I’m very old fashion in a lot of ways and in others I’m not. I don’t think it should always be up to the man to do the asking out. However if the girl does ask, this implies that she is paying. And yes, I do think that girls should pay on dates too. You can have him pay, her pay or go Dutch. I don’t think a girl should ask a man out then expect him to pay. I have in fact asked men out and paid.

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Posted: Saturday, December 15, 2012 8:16:29 PM

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I have and he said yes.

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Posted: Saturday, December 15, 2012 8:34:54 PM

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Only once. The couple of seconds it took for me finish asking and for him to say "yes" were amongst the longest of my life--and I was confident what the answer would be! The experience gave me a new appreciation for what guys must go through on a regular basis.
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Posted: Sunday, December 16, 2012 11:35:53 PM

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Oh yes and more than once. If you see someone you are interested in why let the opportunity slip away?






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Posted: Saturday, April 06, 2013 10:49:04 PM

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Poppet wrote:
It’s funny for me. I’m very old fashion in a lot of ways and in others I’m not. I don’t think it should always be up to the man to do the asking out. However if the girl does ask, this implies that she is paying. And yes, I do think that girls should pay on dates too. You can have him pay, her pay or go Dutch. I don’t think a girl should ask a man out then expect him to pay. I have in fact asked men out and paid.



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Posted: Saturday, April 06, 2013 10:58:44 PM

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I work on the beach and during spring break women are amazingly aggressive!!!!! I've been asked out or to hook up lots of times.

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beinggood
Posted: Sunday, April 07, 2013 12:38:21 AM

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Yes, and I had fun dates with them!!

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Andee
Posted: Sunday, April 07, 2013 7:08:47 AM

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Yes, I have ... even after I was married ;-)

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lucybabee
Posted: Sunday, April 07, 2013 8:04:54 PM

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I have quite a lot, I don't get turned down much, if they do fair enough and move on :)
Urbabygirl_1978
Posted: Sunday, April 07, 2013 8:08:48 PM

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Yes, have definitely asked a guy out before. Sometimes they were just to shy to get that ball rolling.
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Posted: Monday, April 08, 2013 9:42:24 AM

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Posted: Wednesday, April 10, 2013 11:36:04 AM

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Yes I did. I know he had a crush on me but always fumbled when I made him to talk. So I thought it would be better for me to take first step
Ravyn
Posted: Wednesday, April 10, 2013 12:42:14 PM

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No I haven't. Not that I wouldn't, just haven't had the opportunity to do so yet.

BelleduJour
Posted: Wednesday, April 10, 2013 9:05:58 PM

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Yes, yes I have.

miss_petitepussy
Posted: Wednesday, May 01, 2013 11:40:09 PM

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only if they were super hot. usually just casually for a hook up or something. let's be honest most girls only ask guys on dates to fuck. i'm not one to pay for a date.
Nyaeve80
Posted: Thursday, May 02, 2013 12:57:28 AM

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I have asked guys out, I don't see that that is a bad thing to do.

Having said that I have also had a couple say no based on the fact that they felt I shouldn't have asked them!

Spain is still a very macho country!!
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