When you guys meet a woman or a man online how long does it take before you start to to think, wow this gal, or bloke is really something and they start to be something more than just any person online.
I actually met my husband online 8 years ago. We started out as friends, I looked to him as a big brother, because he was older, but then we got closer, and I fell in love with him. It took him 2 years to tell me he loved me. We will celebrate 6 wonderful years of marriage in July.
Well my situation is as unlikely as they come. I think it took us a week and yes I'm aware of the naysayers. But after having met irl and still chatting daily we've only developed stronger feelings for each other. We're almost 4 months together and currently planning the 2nd irl meeting.
So, it can happen even if the chance of finding someone who's actually willing to go the whole 9 yards is infinitesimal.
Insert typical super smart ass comment courtesy of thepainter here.
The ladies need to be careful and keep their wits about them when planning a meeting with a guy they meet online. I hate to say it, but not every guy on the site is the man he seems. I'm sure this is not a revalation to anybody.
Yeah but Anna didn't murder people.
They dont exist.... In rare cases yes but generally just flirtatious and erotic talk to fill ur mind and hearts fantasies...
This goes both ways. Plenty 'women' on lush have pics that are definitely not of themselves even though they act like the pics are. Hence why webcamming is a good way to make sure.
I don't think I could cam with a guy I didn't know personally. I would be crushed to find a vid of me having an O on some internet site. Thats just one drama I don't need right now.
Well, a while ago I would have thought on - line relationships impossible in any meaningful way. I was wrong.
If you define a relationship broadly as interaction with a person with which you are emotionally attached, then yes, It's a relationship.
However, as in any relationship, basic factors like honesty and respect still have to operate and if ' love finds a way' in the end, as it seems to have done both here and on other sites - all's well with the world !
Honesty never hurt anyone. I have met a few people irl from chats. I tell them from the start that I'm a big guy, (stocky) and have been my whole life. I'm Italian.. I like to eat!! One woman I met was appalled that I was big. I sent her pics. I didn't hide anything. we talked on the phone quite a bit. Even asked of she liked the "teddy bear" type It was all cool until we met person to person. Now, I'm not a slob. I take pride in how I dress but there was still and issue. I guess she thought I was lying and was a 20 something Aerobics instructor or something. Needless to say she never contacted me again after that day.
So you really never know. Just like any relationship. I've met some great people from online. You are what you are, being honest takes any doubts away.
I make a offer, you can't refuse! Met my best friend online. We clicked fairly early on. I talk more with her than anyone in the "real" world.
You have to be careful as many live a life far from reality on line than they do in real life. I have met a few people over the yrs who are true friends. Even on this site I have met a few people who I have let into my life. Just be careful if and when you plan on meeting people you meet on line. People have been and killed by meeting what they thought were great people.. I am one of the lucky ones. I met the woman I love on line.
Like meeting anyone, it deepends on the person. I've had three women that I made plans to meet in real life. One, I knew within a week I wanted to meet her in real life. The other two, it took a while for me to realise that I wanted more than just an online relationship with them. One, I knew for 4 months before the idea crossed my mind. The other took 2 months.
Sadly, I've experienced the downside of the online to real life experience, and not the upside like some of the more fortunate members above. None of the 3 girls who planned to meet me ever did. In fact, soon after agreeing to meet me, all 3 disappeared from my life. (3 different times, not all at once) So be careful. Because there is nothing worse than the feeling of helplessness when someone you really care about just disappears with no explanation why.