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Quote:As WMM said, even if you do fantasize about doing it with a man and even if you were to acutually do it with a man, you may still be straight 
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If a man takes it up the ass (not gonna sugar coat it) with another man's dick. He is gay. Vice Versa.
Once the deed is done, he is gay.
You can go around using the term Bisexual all you want ... but the real term is Homosexual or Gay.
If you haven't actually gotten there yet ... feel free to say bisexual.
So, if you like it up the ass from another man and you are a man ... call it what it is. No need to FREAK OUT.
P.s. Having a woman use a strap-on with a man, is not gay or bisexual
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AngelHeart01 wrote:If a man takes it up the ass (not gonna sugar coat it) with another man's dick. He is gay. Vice Versa.
Once the deed is done, he is gay.
You can go around using the term Bisexual all you want ... but the real term is Homosexual or Gay.
If you haven't actually gotten there yet ... feel free to say bisexual.
So, if you like it up the ass from another man and you are a man ... call it what it is. No need to FREAK OUT.
P.s. Having a woman use a strap-on with a man, is not gay or bisexual Preface all of this by saying that maybe this is tongue-in-cheek and it went over my head, but if not: Do you believe that some men are bisexual? If not, then I think millions of bisexual men would disagree with you. If so, then what is your definition of bisexual, if you believe is that no man could ever have anal sex yet still have an attraction to women. This doesn't make any sense to me. Also, sexual orientation doesn't have anything to do with acts, or 'doing the deed'. It's what you respond to emotionally and sexually. To say otherwise would be to claim that nobody could be homosexual, or determine their sexuality at all, before performing a sexual act- which is clearly and well established to not be the case. You're no more homo-, bi- or heterosexual after a sexual act than you are before it. Neither of us are men, so its hard for either of us to be an authority on the matter, but I'll trust the testimony of millions of people over just lumping any man who experiments into the 'gay' category.
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In response to LADYX .... (for some reason, I couldn't get your "quote")
THIS IS MY OPINION.
Bisexual - Being attracted to both sexes: sexually attracted to both men and women, or engaging in both heterosexual and homosexual activity. *yes, both*
Homosexual - Being attracted to the same sex: sexually attracted to members of the same sex.
Homosexuality - Relating to sexual *attraction or activity* among members of the same sex.
I know what you are saying ... I am attracted to both sexes. I'm talking about *MY Opinion* with once a male has another male's penis inserted inside them.
As far as MY Opinion .. It could be wrong, but it's my opinion.
The definitions of Bisexual and Homosexuality are indeed everything you said.
So with that ... I will say I am WRONG. Thanks for correcting me. I have never been one to be politically correct anyway. I am however open minded, and believe in diversity above all.
Don't let my "wings" fool you. ;)
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Analheart, how dare you suggest that a man getting fucked by another man is so hella gay. Didn't you read what wellmademale said. You can think about a man and have him fuck you all while thinking about a man when you're a man and it still isn't gay. It's Bi dummy.
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So if I like it in the ass, what does that make me? or another question If two lesbians are having sex and one uses a strap on, does that make them straight? hmmmmm 
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Fugly wrote:So if I like it in the ass, what does that make me? An anal ho.
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Magical_felix wrote:Analheart, how dare you suggest that a man getting fucked by another man is so hella gay.
Didn't you read what wellmademale said. You can think about a man and have him fuck you all while thinking about a man when you're a man and it still isn't gay. It's Bi dummy. You are both retarded.
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shi_squared wrote:Magical_felix wrote:Analheart, how dare you suggest that a man getting fucked by another man is so hella gay.
Didn't you read what wellmademale said. You can think about a man and have him fuck you all while thinking about a man when you're a man and it still isn't gay. It's Bi dummy. You are both retarded. Its a retarded threesome now.
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HARDY HAR HAR ... :)
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i just asked an honest to goodness gay man his opinion on this - sorry, guys, according to my source, all men are gay, some are just not aware of it yet - the sooner you all become self aware, the better off you will be - oh, and he is offering his services to ass fuck all of you, so you can get on with your lives... umm.... as long as you're hot!
 Blondie's been itching to share another adventure sometime soon...
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I do not think that you are gay if you want to share this experience with your wife or gf. You are branching out sexually, trusting one another, exploring new things and sharing your fantasies together. This is a fantasy of mine! At first I thought it would be exciting to do this with another woman, now I want to do this with a man. The thought of being in control and having him experience pleasure he has never had before is so exciting to me. I'm so curious about anal play now, all forms as I'm a virgin in this area, lol! I only hope that one day my man will be open to this, just as I am now open to so many things. Thanks to my fellow lushies for allowing the Vixen in me to come out to play!!
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I find it amusing that any single particular event could "turn you gay." It's not like being bitten by a vampire and you are no longer "human." Or having sex makes you no longer a "virgin." Being gay, bi-sexual, or hetero - none of these are something you can catch like the flu. Seeing another man's penis in the locker room showers isn't going to "turn me gay" either. Worry less about labels and worry more about what feels good. For the record, I find that I quite enjoy pegging. 
"I can resist everything except temptation." - Oscar Wilde
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WickedShads wrote:I find that I quite enjoy pegging.
When in bed, I like to fart and pull the cover over her head. Might explain why I'm still a bachelor. Maybe pegging would be a more suitable hobby?
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next to rousing his conscience, is - not to give him things
to think about, but to wake things up that are in him...
to make him think things for himself - George MacDonald
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Ah, WMM is a master in creating a Dutch oven. 
Insert typical super smart ass comment courtesy of thepainter here.
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WickedShads wrote: Seeing another man's penis in the locker room showers isn't going to "turn me gay" either. i was perfectly straight until i saw my first vagina... thing was, it was while my mom was giving birth to me *sighs* wish someone would have warned me to close my eyes while in my fetal state!
Blondie's been itching to share another adventure sometime soon...
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How then do you explain your aversion to anal? You must have seen it then too? lol
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sprite wrote:
i was perfectly straight until i saw my first vagina... thing was, it was while my mom was giving birth to me
I'd imagine you were rather more in the fetal position and all curled up rather than particularly straight......
"I can resist everything except temptation." - Oscar Wilde
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Guess that means we were all kinky to begin with and only learned to 'straighten out' later in life. Some of us never completed the journey, lol.
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In europe people are much more open about their sexuality, and more fluid too (that's not to be confused with 'sexual fluids' of course.. giggles). I love using a strap-on. In fact now they even make them without the straps. I've never met a guy that didn't want to play if you ask nicely. Shhh... you just don't talk about it in public if you have a shy-guy. But they all love it trust me. Plus its such a power rush for a girl.
xx B.
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Pegging is quite enjoyable. I have no desire to kiss men. I do enjoy the feeling. It is an act of submission. Very hard to do for most men.
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i love pegging
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I'm a manly man and I really enjoy it when she toys with my ass! She's not into the strap-on thing although I'd love for her do it to me that way since I haven't experienced it. I'm not bi or gay. This type of play was introduced to me by an older woman and I've loved it ever since. Orgasms while my prostate is tweaked are very powerful! But none of this makes me bi or gay...
It's All Good! :-)
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My opinion only. I am not a fan of strap-ons. Ann has had one for years. She only uses it at parties. I much prefer a warm, hard ,cock when I am on the receiving end of anal sex. Some people are really in to using them, that's fine. Like most things in life every one is different.
Mark
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I forgot about this thread... I love this thread.
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Oh yeah ... I forgot that you secretly (not so secretly now) would love to explore the strap on. Is that right?
Oh, wait ... that was something else entirely different. I like that you LOVE this thread ... cuz then you make me laugh later.
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Hey, I want a piece of this thread! Does that mean I'm gay 
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This has seriously been one of the most amusing threads i have read on this site... I had to get up from my desk i was laughing so hard... this just jump started my day! My opinion is: I have a friend that says "I´m not gay nor straight nor bi, I just want to cum!!!" Hope this answered all your questions and doubts.
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AngelHeart01 wrote:Oh yeah ... I forgot that you secretly (not so secretly now) would love to explore the strap on. Is that right?
Oh, wait ... that was something else entirely different. I like that you LOVE this thread ... cuz then you make me laugh later. I just love some of the points YOU, LadyX and WMM make in this thread. Even fugly made a very interesting point! scooter wrote:Hey, I want a piece of this thread!
Does that mean I'm gay Yes.
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Magical_felix wrote:I forgot about this thread... I love this thread. It was only a matter of time until you posted here again Felix...I just love the fact that I can see Strap on with your name right next to it LOL! Makes my day! 
The night that changed my life, a four part series of a married man lusting after his co-worker 
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