I used to have some photos of my manhood on my profile...and many women i chatted with, usually told me: "all the guys post photos of their cocks...bla, bla, etc. etc.". Now, I have deleted those photos, and guess what...when I chat with women they tell me: "your cock must be small, because if it were big you would have posted photos of it on your profile".
Weird...don't you think? But most important...what should be done now? post other photos?
I have no cock photos on my profile. Over the last few months I have spoken to many women on Lush. I'm not even talking about cyber. Not one time did anyone say to me that I must have a small cock because I don't have any pics of if on my profile. Not ONCE. That acually sounds like something a guy would say. Are you sure you're not talking to a man posing as a woman?
When the debate is lost, slander becomes the tool of the loser. Socrates I'd never assume that a guy had a small cock because he didnt post a pic
You can consider posting a pic of yourself (not of your cock, and not of your face if you aren't comfortable with that)... maybe your chest or back or some kind of 'artistic rendition' of one of your pics using photoshop to give people an idea of what you look like. If you are chatting up girls with pics posted, they are probably going to want to see something from you. If they are asking for a cock-pic, it's probably a dude though.
Or you can just keep it low-key and not post anything, but switch up who you are trying to get to know. Profiles of 20 year old uber-hotties that are laden with a cache of pics in their image galleries are probably the wrong ones to chase after if you want to remain anonymous. As for cock-pics, there are a lot of women on this site that wouldn't even accept a friend-add if that's what you're leading with.
I do not need to see a pic of yours or anyones cock. And I will not just assume that it is small if you dont show it. Usually it is the guys who brag about how big they are who have the small ones, LOL. I prefer to see pics of the person, man or woman, dressed or in lingerie. I find that so much hotter than a nude pic. I like to leave something to my very vivid imagination. None of the men and most of the women I consider my best friends show themselves naked. And the women who do show themselves do it very tastefully.
Of course, you have the right to do what you like within the site rules. But showing a big cock isnt gonna win you any friends with most of the ladies here, being a fun and respectful gentlemen will. JMO!
I find that even guy's with small cocks, hairy cocks, thin cocks, crooked cocks, etc all post pictures of them on Lush. I love to look at cock photos, especially if it is a nice one; however, if you don't have one it is certainly no biggy to me! Whatever makes you comfortable, don't worry about anybody else.
Thanx everyone for the replies. It's true that posting photos is everybody's personal decision. In this case I just found the different reactions from women to be interesting ("jerk", "rude" and "men are all the same" vs. "small"). Of course not all the women react the same way - i'm not implying that by all means.
P.S. The risc of talking to men acting as women is allways present...it's one of the gives & takes of web socializing.
when I chat with a guy, I just assume he's got a cock. Since they're all a little different, I also assume that if it is ever in my hands to play with, that I'll enjoy it immensely. It doesn't have to be big, doesn't have to shoot gallons of cum - it just has to be attached to a nice guy that I enjoy being with.
OK - I do have a sort of private diary I keep in an encrypted folder on my tablet - pictures of a few of the guys I've known and their cocks. Just for fun.
A girl I knew in high school started a similar diary when she was in ninth grade - describing dates she's had and a scoring system for how far she'd gone. When she got her first phone with a camera, she began to take pictures of the guys cocks, and the guys were usually happy to "pose"... I saw her diary after we graduated high school - her collection of pictures of cocks she had known was impressive! We actually looked through it together and I recognized a few -
But guys - I can't speak for all girls, but splashing a picture of your cock across a text message or profile is generally not sexy. Sending one if I ask for it, though - is. And letting me take a picture of it myself definitely is.
Good one Al, at least it's still kicken
