A simple question off of a situation. For some reason or another I have never been able to cum during oral sex, I don't know if more people have a problem with this or not, but I would like to know if there is something that other people do that might help. It feels really good but I just can't get to the point of cumming
My husband doesn't cum during oral either. He says it just doesn't get him there. He says he never has and probably never will. But you aren't alone!
Minx.
I used ice went my man will not share with me
i am not sure it works for all men but i found that sliding a finger into their ass gives them the spark they need
I have heard that some guys dont cum with oral but luckily I have never been with a guy who didnt cum when I sucked him unless it was just to get him hard for intercourse.
Damn I can cum from oral. If she doesn't want me to, she knows when to stop and we proceed to other things. Sometimes she wants me to shoot all over her face and tits. Depends upon our mood I guess.
What really gets me is when she wants to give me extra extra long oral sex and brings me to the brink and stops it just in time before starting over again until i reach a point of begging her to please let me cum. She loves that control. Of course I can give her payback! ha
It's very true ... an extraordinary number of guys cannot cum in a girls mouth. Reasons are pretty well unknown but it's down to the biggest sex gland - the brain. However as previously stated if a girl inserts a finger up the mans bum .. say about 3 inches ... she should feel a small lump on the inner wall of his anus. This is the male prostate gland and gentle teasing of that spot with the finger usually causes an immediate ejaculation to the satisfaction of both.
I've been with many who cannot enjoy the oral stimulation and even though most guys are visually arroused, I've often found it takes a little something extra for them.
I've been blessed to have a good set of boobs that I can combine a nice tit fuck with oral as well as a few other tricks but for most of the guys, they love to be talked dirty to and feel like their cock and cum is being worshipped.
One other thing that does well besides the prostate massage is that I really give their balls a good licking, sucking and then playing with while sucking them off. It's kinda like milking their balls gently while doing all sorts of oral tricks on them.
Dirty talk does wonders to a man, I don't know how well you are at giving oral, but enthusiasm is always key( as well as eye contact), being excited about it and all,maybe you need new tricks? has he ever came at all from oral? or is it just with you?
always explore your options when it comes to oral, whether its sliding your finger into his whole or grazing your teeth along his shaft;)
there are tons of possibilities.
Never give up.
I'm a guy and I never cum by oral sex, so you're not alone.
Was actually looking for a solution to this exact issue I'm having with Master! He hasn't been able to come through oral except a couple times in his life, and I'm determined to become part of that group! ....may have to try the prostate stimulation tip....
I don't cum from oral ... at least not initally ..... I get to the point where it feels like I will ... that I feel that I need to ..... but nothing ... I then use my hand to " get one in the chamber" so to speak then turn it back over to Her ..... In no time at all I'm flooding her warm mouth with her well deserved reward .
NOt only does oral make me come, it makes me come a huge load. I can't really relate to the guy that doesn't pop his cork with a good bj. That's about as good as it gets.
It used be where for many years I could not cum from oral sex. One time on vacation my woman and I went to a strip club. She ended up getting a lap dance from a woman and loved it.
To make a long story short, when we got home, she was sitting on the couch. I walked up to her and stood up on the seat of the couch where my meat was above her head. She just looked up and and starated taking me deep. After a couple of minutes I started to tingle like I never have before. I encouraged her by telling her how good and different it was making me feel. Before I new it I was unloading down her throat. We were both pretty pleasantly shocked. Maybe I'll write the details as a first time story.
The point is whenever she is lower than I am and my dick is pointing pretty much straight down while she sucks me, I can cum in a short time.
I dont cum during oral because she says she doesn't like the taste. To her, its too salty. Therefore, her sucking is very light. I rather have a woman grab my meat and really work at drawing forth its gifts.
I took the, "I don't cum from oral" as a challenge that I plan on accomplishing.
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