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do you find it fun and arousing to cyber with someone on lush?
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i do with certain people. when i first joined, it was fun - exciting, something different - the novelty quickly wore off - that said, i found that there were a couple of people who could hold my interest, people i'd made personal connections too, that were fun, creative, imaginative, dirty, and i'd play with them from time to time. then i met a certain someone who became my Mistress, who, even if i wanted to (i don't) would frown on me playing with others. so yeah, i do enjoy it - with her, and yes, it's arousing and fun and crazy and special and dirty beyond anyone's imagination. oh, if you had any idea. *giggles* 
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Rank: Lurker
Joined: 11/30/2006
Posts: 326,958
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I haven't really cybered here yet, but I have on other sites. If I can find the right person, I love it.
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i love it as long as the guy/girl(s) good at it... like as long as i get to be a part of it and you dont talk in third person im usually happy to do it
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Rank: Alpha Blonde
Joined: 2/17/2010
Posts: 4,342
Location: In your dirty fantasies
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I am 100% sure that I would not enjoy it without a real connection with the person. I'm sure I could fake it if I had to, but I'd probably be painting my nails at the same time or watching TV in the background. I often wonder if a lot of people are doing the same thing when they cyber with random/faceless people that start up convos like, "hey, Im horny, wan 2 cht." Like I assume someone out there is actually saying yes to those offers at some point, right? There's only been one person I've had a real connection with here and cyber-soaked my panties for, but we've long since taken things beyond Lush, so I definitely don't come here for the cyber. Like Sprite said though, it can be damn hot when you're in synch. In general though, in terms of fantasy-spinning and hot-chats, I find phone/cam more intense and fun than online-cyber if you're long-distance.
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Rank: Rookie Scribe
Joined: 2/10/2012
Posts: 3
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Sometimes its hot.
But most times it feels a little awkward. I cant seem to get my mind into the setting.
I wish i could get as horny over it, as many of you seem to get
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Rank: Wine Connoisseur
Joined: 6/28/2008
Posts: 141
Location: Hunter Valley, Australia
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My time is too precious to waste cybering with others on this site. It wouldn't look too good if my daughter found me half naked amusing myself on the internet. I speak to many people here on Lush about a wide range of topics. Some guys inform me that they are wanking over my pics. That does not worry me, in fact I take it as a compliment, but I do not join in with the intent of reaching orgasm.
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Rank: Her Royal Spriteness
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Location: Oz, United States
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Dancing_Doll wrote: I'm sure I could fake it if I had to, but I'd probably be painting my nails at the same time or watching TV in the background. obviously you were privy to some of my early cyber sessions once i realized that the guy on the other end had a very limited imagination and vocabulary and i was just too nice to not 'finish him off'.
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Joined: 12/23/2011
Posts: 411
Location: At a computer, United Kingdom
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This post comes to you from the original and highly disorganised mind of mine...be scared, I certainly am, lol
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I am really not into cybering. I have only done it a few times and it was OK. One time it was really hot but we did have a connection. I do like to talk about fantasies or experiences and masturbate but thats not cybering. Most of the time, the other person doesnt know Im doing it
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Rank: Lurker
Joined: 11/30/2006
Posts: 326,958
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When I joined Lush, I played quite a bit just to see what it was about. However, I've connected with one person here and no longer cyber with anyone but him and haven't for months. We have long moved our friendship off of Lush, and I very rarely cyber w/him here at all. We obviously have an amazing connection and the cyber, when we do it, is equally amazing.
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Rank: Forum Guru
Joined: 1/21/2010
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Location: Derby
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I find it boring. Prefer the real thing
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Joined: 9/30/2009
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I'd rather have cider.  Before, after or during...BJ's
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Joined: 1/7/2012
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Location: United Kingdom
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I don't cyber anymore since I have my Master. But I used to cyber on a different site, were I couldn't keep it serious and ended up just winding whoever I was with up and basically trolling them. Can be funny if it's the type who all they want to do is cyber.
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Joined: 5/5/2011
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Location: In my mind, Australia
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I used to when I was younger age 18 to 24. However now days I am bored with it. Now days when someone messages me "Are you hot?" or "Feel like some play?"
I ask "Did you read my profile?" Most likely answer is no so I close their chat.
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Joined: 11/3/2011
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Location: San Diego, United States
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Depends, I can take it to a certain extent.
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Rank: Lurker
Joined: 11/30/2006
Posts: 326,958
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Only enjoy it with my boyfriend. But sometimes I can be reading one of my educational books while cybering too.
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Rank: Active Ink Slinger
Joined: 1/18/2012
Posts: 33
Location: United States
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With the right gal, or sometimes guy, and if I'm in the mood (OK, I mean horny) I can have a great time online. We both have to be on the same page, and equally involved for it to work right, but isn't that true of sex in general? And to some extent, you are only responsible for your own feelings, which can make it easier.
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Rank: Lurker
Joined: 11/30/2006
Posts: 326,958
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No, dont find much pleasure in it , bores the hell out of me =/
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Rank: Advanced Wordsmith
Joined: 2/16/2012
Posts: 61
Location: Canada
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Unless it's my partner, I'm not interested. He knows what I like, how I like it, and is understanding and flexible about when we do it. Helps that we're in the same room so we can go out and screw right away too :x
Unfortunately most other people I found were too demanding of my time and energy, not considerate about my needs (like that I couldn't drop everything for it!) an then they were dull after the fact. The novelty is the most arousing aspect.
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Joined: 1/12/2012
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Location: in a Chaotic State
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I am really only interested in a couple of people like that. I've connected with them and they arouse my senses online as much as they would in person.
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Joined: 10/5/2007
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Location: The Tundra, United States
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I don't cyber too much. If I do, it's only with two people i've established rapport with.
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Rank: Active Ink Slinger
Joined: 1/19/2012
Posts: 16
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I love to cyber with a guy or couple who really get me in the mood. I am new here but have cybered on a wife showing uk site and love it when Coll is away or out
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Rank: Advanced Wordsmith
Joined: 1/16/2010
Posts: 60
Location: kolkata, India
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yea, i find cybering a great source of fun and excitement when the person at the other end reciprocates with a lot of authentic feedbacks
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Rank: Story Verifier
Joined: 5/21/2011
Posts: 724
Location: The Naughty Mansion, Australia
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Its rare that I find someone that I would want to do this with. I don't cyber with just anyone, I need to have some sort of connection. Normally if they're able to make me laugh, have something interesting to say and have a sexy easygoing way about them, then this grabs my attention and I may think about it I can count on only a couple of fingers the number of people that this applies to
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Rank: Forum Guru
Joined: 11/18/2011
Posts: 174
Location: Manhattan, United States
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Only once in a while with someone I've established a rapport with. I can count on one hand people I really have enjoyed it with.
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Rank: Lurker
Joined: 11/30/2006
Posts: 326,958
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I've done it twice - but not on Lush. It was nice to watch my 'so called' partner doing it to himself and when he ejaculated it made me cum too. Second occasion was a virtual repeat of the first. Once he'd disappeared .. which was so soon after the event .. I felt cheap and used. Never again.
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Rank: Lurker
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If it's With the right person Perhaps..... but not if it's just for amusement of the other person.
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Rank: Advanced Wordsmith
Joined: 12/2/2011
Posts: 55
Location: Montana, USA, United States
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I am not into cybering at all. If I chat I like to have an actual conversation.
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Rank: Forum Guru
Joined: 6/8/2011
Posts: 852
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Well, I do enjoy it, yes. There are a couple of people on Lush who I know will get me going. I have the sort of imagination that finds this arousing and sensual. Obviously, it's not as good as the real thing, but when I'm feeling horny it's way better than just playing with myself. I love to think that the other person is getting into it as much as me. I'm not naive enough to think that every partner is doing it for real, but I hope some are...and my mind does the rest!
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