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jed
Posted: Sunday, February 19, 2012 4:25:07 PM

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yes.... i love it at times.... it gives that certain rush.... grinnin

but you need the time to get started and enjoy it
Kataliscious
Posted: Sunday, February 19, 2012 5:19:15 PM

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If the person on the other end has the imagination and creativity to make me feel as though I'm there with them on some level, then... Yes. I have always been a fan of using the mind to get myself and another aroused. I was writing sexually charged letters before I ever had a computer. Erotic notes can have a powerful effect if written well, the same with cyber. Cam to cam is GREAT when you find someone whom you've connected with and can enjoy watching their face as well as their body when they have an orgasm. But the exchange of the right words has a very stimulating effect on me. I love to find another woman whose mind is her most erogenous zone and exchange that kind of mental eroticism... a mind fuck can be a good thing.
Guest
Posted: Sunday, February 19, 2012 6:15:50 PM

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I have yet to get into a cyber that didnt leave me bored. I dont bother.
suezq
Posted: Sunday, February 19, 2012 7:03:51 PM

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I was surprised at the number of negative answers to this one. Maybe those who enjoy it were otherwise occupied, lol. Yes, I do enjoy a cyber session. Of course, there is a better connection with some than others. I love it when I can be surprised by what makes me hot. There are a certain few with whom it can be particularly intense.
jed
Posted: Sunday, February 19, 2012 7:11:40 PM

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suezq wrote:
I was surprised at the number of negative answers to this one. Maybe those who enjoy it were otherwise occupied, lol. Yes, I do enjoy a cyber session. Of course, there is a better connection with some than others. I love it when I can be surprised by what makes me hot. There are a certain few with whom it can be particularly intense.



totally agree...smile
jennilovestoplay
Posted: Monday, February 20, 2012 12:26:26 PM

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I enjoy a good cyber session, but I have to feel a connection with the one I am cybering with...I have been fortunate to have been with several here on Lush in the past that had a great imagination and were quite descriptive in what they were doing. I find that masturbation is much more enjoyable if you have someone to share it with. I have a partner now I care deeply for and who knows how to get me off. I always have amazing orgasms when she and I are together...
Bunny12
Posted: Monday, February 20, 2012 5:49:42 PM

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Yes but only with a very certain few people I've have had relationships with for a year or longer. I'm about to turn that poking thing off cuz I get poked constantly with guys looking for cyber like I'm the Lush cyber whore for their personal use ugh! dontknow

Bunny12


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Guest
Posted: Monday, February 20, 2012 5:55:27 PM

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I do enjoy it, but it depends on my mood at the time...sometimes a normal chat is just perfect.
1Zratedgal
Posted: Monday, February 20, 2012 6:06:24 PM

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I think Jenni and Bunny said it best! We need that connection beyond descriptive words to make the experience more intense and meaningful!

I need an interactive person that is descriptive as well as imaginative and can hold a decent conversation that is responsive to what I am saying with them!

Kisses!

Steph
SassySue1617
Posted: Tuesday, February 21, 2012 9:12:14 AM

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I enjoy it with the right person it is awsome. Not a replacement for the real thing but can take the edge off
Guest
Posted: Wednesday, February 22, 2012 5:17:56 PM

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It's got to be the right person, and when it is, I love it.
Guest
Posted: Wednesday, February 22, 2012 5:19:53 PM

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not all of the time. depends on my mood. I tend to always be in the mood with my woman, but yeah lol
SexyBunny92
Posted: Wednesday, February 22, 2012 8:52:31 PM

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Of course that's why i joined the site :) and for the stories of course. Cybering is sooo hot ;)
Guest
Posted: Wednesday, February 22, 2012 9:07:49 PM

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i luv to cyber it is such a rush
Guest
Posted: Wednesday, February 22, 2012 10:52:31 PM

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I like to cyber - it can be fun with the right partner and it allows you to safely explore fantasies
bighead02
Posted: Wednesday, March 28, 2012 3:11:14 PM

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yep enjoy cyber , hate to masterbate alone
Kimasa
Posted: Wednesday, March 28, 2012 3:45:32 PM

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When I first arrived on Lush I tried it but it did nothing for me. It was about as exciting as philately.

My latest story:

http://www.lushstories.com/stories/reluctance/the-school-reunion.aspx
Gramps
Posted: Wednesday, March 28, 2012 5:26:14 PM

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If it happens, it is wonderful, but I don't access Lush or start a chat with a friend with the intention of having sex with her.
I had cyber sex with the author who led me to Lush before I joined Lush, but we never did anything like that on Lush. Actually it happened when I was helping her to get beyond a "writer's block" and we each assumed roles in her story. Very fulfilling; we had known each other for several years.

I have enjoyed sex with a couple of people I've met here but the sex was not planned--at least by me. It has come about because of something about which we are chatting--spontaneous and, on hindsight, wonderful. Only recently a young lady (yes, most of the ladies with whom I chat are younger than I) surprised me when she told me that she usually got herself off while we chatted; that flattery overwhelmed me.

So, after my long winded diatribe, the bottom line is that I could enjoy on-line sex as long as there is an existing meaningful relationship.

Gramps

The quiet and always horny old guy in Sunny Florida USA
Guest
Posted: Wednesday, March 28, 2012 6:48:49 PM

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With the right person, it's great. And like a partner in real life, over time you learn what each other likes best and what doesn't do it for them/you. So eventually it can get even better. At least that's been my experience.
BSlain
Posted: Wednesday, March 28, 2012 7:27:14 PM

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I don't generally find myself comfortable with cybering. It tends to be messy and just so callous. I'd rather roleplay it out, or actually hear it in person. Just doesn't do it for me :p
Guest
Posted: Wednesday, March 28, 2012 8:41:28 PM

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I hate to think of it as cyber... but I have engaged in that before, but in one case I would have to think of it as electron love. This woman I have met on Lush is an incredibly genuine person. She is warm,caring, beautiful, sweet, sexy and if our worlds were different...the thought would make my head spin. the only one that really stirs my soul.
Guest
Posted: Wednesday, March 28, 2012 9:16:40 PM

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yessssssssssss
MarySweets
Posted: Wednesday, March 28, 2012 11:01:28 PM

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I am not into it as I have a fiance. I find it rather tedious when someone wants to cyber sex with me. I am playing online scrabble while someone thinks I'm getting off on their words.

Basically turn the sexual side off while cybering.

"Sexual pleasure in woman is a kind of magic spell; it demands complete abandon; if words or movements oppose the magic of caresses, the spell is broken."

Simone de Beauvoir
Guest
Posted: Thursday, March 29, 2012 2:19:23 AM

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love it! simple
Guest
Posted: Friday, March 30, 2012 3:17:51 PM

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I love it if it feels right and im not asked to pretend to be their mother,sister,teache,blah blah
justaddkatie
Posted: Saturday, March 31, 2012 8:52:40 AM

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I truly cybered for the first time yesterday (started to a couple of times but wasn't feeling it) and even though I had to say goodbye quickly, IT WAS AMAZING. He knew just what to say and when to say it. I can't wait to do it with him again.
Shylass
Posted: Saturday, March 31, 2012 5:48:17 PM

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No, I absolutely freak when people try and start it with me. It's not at all what I am comfortable with or wanting. Quite often people start off by asking me questions which I am happy to answer, and then suddenly there is a point where I realise things are not a simple question-answer session and I am panicking because it is clear they were leading me furtively into something else.

I wish people would read my profile before chatting with me without me having to put things at the top like, "NO CYBERING - BOG OFF IF YOU WANT TO CYBER". Some of them see me as a "challenge", trying to "teach" me how to be comfortable with it. It's one of the main reasons why I hardly ever appear as "online".


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honeydipped
Posted: Saturday, March 31, 2012 11:24:37 PM

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i enjoy cybering, when i have a good partner. actually i'm surprised that haven't indulged much since i'be been actively here. that being said...i'm still looking for a playmate or 3 ;)

"it is the mark of an educated mind to be able to entertain a thought without accepting it." -aristotle
summtibabe
Posted: Monday, April 02, 2012 9:05:06 AM

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Yes and no. When I'm in the mood (OK, read horny for that), and he, or more likely she, is good and into it as much as I am I can get very very turned on. And if she or he isn't that good at it, it's just a chance to practice typing.
Guest
Posted: Monday, April 02, 2012 11:08:22 AM

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winky wrote:
do you find it fun and arousing to cyber with someone on lush?


Yes! We (my husband and I) actually wrote a story about my first time 'cyber' with a guy on Lush. If it's with the right person I find myself getting very aroused...but not arousing when somebody asks to chat and then immediately says 'do you want to suck my cock?'
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