Lmao, when I first joined, I used to visit the chatrooms quite often and I do agree that sometimes there are not many girls there. About the lesbians room, they won't let you in, its called a 'lesbians room' for a reason. Nowadays, I only visit the picture galleries and even that only when I'm hosting one.

You know if you want to meet women, you should visit the forums more often. A lot of the girls don't go to chatrooms.

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Had a dream I was king, I woke up still king!!

hahahaha!! relax, CB .... it's phonetic!

and yes, the chatrooms are cliquish!

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I've noticed the same vibe, too. Very tight, close-knit groups. It's hard to mingle
and get to know people because of their clique-like tendencies, so I find myself
visiting the chat room(s) less and less. The forums are much more attractive
anyway, lol

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Are you truly awake?

Im quite new here but being from glasgow i agree with G/boy, cleeks everywhere in the chats so i dont bother much

True on all counts.

This is a good read, you might want to give it a read yourself sometime:

Going forward, I'm definitely going to use the forums more. :)

What exactly is your problem? Are you deliberately trying to cast the site in a bad light? If so, why?

PM me. I don't want to read any more of this tosh in the forums. (SC?)

Sometimes the chat rooms are really fun. If a person starts their own chat room though you should respect their rules if you go in there. I usually look to see if there's anyone I know in a chat room before I go in. Sometimes I just go in to say hello to people I know. I have done scenes in chat rooms too, and carried on conversations or played games with people. Some people are just there to find people to cyber with, and that's fine too. There are names for the rooms, and descriptions, like the BDSM room, which is pretty much self explanatory, and the Bedroom, which is for open sex and cyber talk. Some people will be regulars in rooms for awhile and then never seen again. People come and go, cliques form and disperse, things change. Many of the people I used to play online with are on at different times than I can be on now, or they've left Lush, or dropped me from their friends list but some remain and I like to chat with them when I get a chance.

Mostly I use them as a chance to talk dirty to people and inquire into their sexual desires, because why not? Some people are more easily offended than me and I wonder what they're doing here at all, but most of the people I've met online at Lush have similar reasons for being here.

Try this if Dale Carnegie isn't really your thing.

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I am a whore. Find something else to fight about. - Nell Gwyn (to her coachman, who was fighting a man for calling her a whore)

I have to say that the descriptions of the chat rooms are far from the topics ussually inside them, especially the Bedroom. Perhaps, I shouldn't generalize about all chatrooms due to a few experiences however, it would appear from the posts within this thread topic (which has somehow disappeared) that other site users feel the same way.

"I use them as a chance to talk dirty to people and inquire into their sexual desires, because why not?" If feel exactly the same which is why I was so taken back when I was asked to stop by a moderator.

personally, if someone wants to take dirty in a chat, feel free. if that means hitting on the girls (this happens a lot) and the girls flirt back, great. if this means hitting on the girls, and the girls say 'yeah, you know? no thank you' and you persist, that's when you should get slapped down. think of it as a singles bar - if the girl you're hitting on shows no interest, move on - don't start grabbing her ass and going 'come on, baby' or worse, pulling out your cock and chasing her around with it. THAT is why the girls are quick to shut you down - they've experienced that kind of behavior far too often and have very little tolerance for it.

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Bitches in the Basement on Amazon by our own Dancing Doll

I am continually disappointed with how many "straights" and "females" hang out in the Men's Room.

I adore you :)

I've gone into the chat rooms about three times, and twice gone into a private one to talk to a friend.

I don't want to cyber or tell you why I don't want to, nor be pushed into doing it surreptitiously, or tell you what I'm wearing or how much of a 10" willy I can fit into my mouth and my Happy Bits; sometimes I just want a chat (about normal things, if such a thing exists). Y'know... like... icecream (not during sex) and places I like to go (not for sex), and stuff people like to do (that isn't sex). I know this is a sex stories site. But life isn't all about sex (apparently), and I have already learnt so much about people in general that it would be nice to meet them via the chat rooms without fear of needing to declare my "a/s/l" and boob size.

But other people LOVE that! And that's okay.

I have never yet seen anybody in the rooms that aren't labelled as being sex-type chat (and I would brave it if they were), although I know from another thread people often have non-sex chats in the other rooms. I took the time to ask about what I was wondering about, rather than having a strop and venting about. But that's how I do stuff.

I would say that in order to join a community, in whatever form it is, one would need to spend a bit more time there, gently getting to know people before launching into what you want - perhaps spend a bit of time working out what they want first? Just an idea.

Another idea would be to start your own room and wait for a weekend when people in your timezone are about and completely off their heads drunk and gagging for it. You might meet the love of your life.

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I usually enjoy myself in the chat rooms. Of course there is always a chance of someone acting like an ass, but most times if it's really blatant, they'll get booted for it. Generally, if I am polite, say hello to people, decline politely if not interested and participate in conversations, I get the same treatment in return.