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I prefer my men at least 5 years older than myself. The salt and pepper hair and facial hair gets me every time. My current Daddy is 15 years older then me and I'm loving it. Just want to know if I'm the only girl that is into that?
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Older. You've gotta give 'em a fighting chance! LOL. I'm dating a guy who's 13 years older than me. He hasn't gone remotely grey yet so all's good! Older guys are generally more experienced and well, better...i think.
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I prefer guys somewhat close to my own age - ideally somewhere within a 5 year age-bracket (older or in rare cases younger can work too). Nothing more than a 10 year age difference. Yes, I have tried the 'older guy' thing once, and it wasn't my thing.

Old men with 'ageist' attitudes who only prey on significantly younger girls totally creep me out. If they claim 'age is just a number' then why don't they ever consider dating someone their own age? There's nothing that sobers me up faster in a bar then the approach of the "trying desperately to be cool enough to date you" greying daddy/grandpa who thinks his cash will sway you into forgetting he's twice your age. Blech... lol
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There is something so sexy in a man that has the experience to make you want him that bad.
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I'm more interested in whether or not there's a connection with someone than their age, they might be a couple of years younger, 15+ years older, or somewhere in between.
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Older for sure!
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I love a young, eager lover, but hubby is sixty & still would/could have sex four or five times a day if I could handle it. I definitely have to have a connection (or chemistry) with someone--if that's there, it's all good. But I love everything about my hubby, from the grey in his beard to the way we never run out of things to talk about and teach each other.

I never saw myself marrying someone twenty years older, but if I'd turned him down when he first asked me to lunch, I never would have met the man who is clearly my soul mate. Only down side is, the "growing old together" part. sad
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Older men definitely. Somehow feel weird about doing it with a much younger guy. My husband was 14+ years my age and we had a wonderful and very very sexy physical relationship. There is a difference between older and lecher...
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why is it that society looks at men that have younger lovers as dirty old men but if a women is with a younger guy its ok ? i guess its like when a guy screws a lot of gals hes considered a stud and if a gal fucks alot of guys people consider her a whore . ( not my opinion ) society in general . do you agree ???
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why is it that society looks at men that have younger lovers as dirty old men but if a women is with a younger guy its ok ? i guess its like when a guy screws a lot of gals hes considered a stud and if a gal fucks alot of guys people consider her a whore . ( not my opinion ) society in general . do you agree ???


I don't think so... I'd look at a 40+ year old woman who was with a 20 year old guy with a raised eyebrow too. In fact, I think the older woman with the much younger guy would end up far more judged than the older man with the younger girl (which is far more accepted in general).

There are exceptions to everything of course, but I think it's more like - if when you were of legal drinking age and partying in the clubs at the same time your future significant other was in diapers and eating pablum... it just seems kind of creepy.
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why limit? both of course
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I like both but I've got a major thing for some older men that I find attractive of course. Not sure what it is just knowing they are a lot older than me turns me on sooooo bad.
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Always dated younger men,not intentionally just worked out that way.Someone older than me would be alright as they would probably treat a woman with a bit more respect.
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Why limit.......as long as you having fun....;)
Active Ink Slinger
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older... though a few years below is ok....
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My boyfriend is 8 years younger than me but acts more mature than I do most of the time. I think it's more about maturity levels and intentions than an actual number.
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as long as theres love does it matter
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lol.. I can't wait til Friday night when I get to go out to the bar in my beige mini-van with a lift gate and have my male nurse help me into my walker so I can go in and pick up on Dancing_Doll..
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I've always gone for older by at least 5 years... I think it's just been that most of my friends are that much older so who they socialise with are around the same age.
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A few yeaers young is ok. But not much more than that!
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Definately older, about 5-6yrs. I've known guys that can last longer and be ready just as quick as those in their early 20s. The plus is the maturity level they have.
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when it comes to girl/women i love any age. i prefer very dominate girls/women but i just love them all. hehe Has for guys, i love older guys. i am almost 32 and right now i have a friend with benefits/fuck buddy guy that is 56 and let me tell you, what he does with his tongue is simply amazing. lol
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I love older women !!!!
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Since I am a submissive little girl..I am drawn to older men rather than younger, however if there was a connection with someone younger I would at least see where it might go.. it would likely depend on his desire and ability to control and dominate me.
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I like my men and women 3-10 years older than me. I will exceed that limit, but Im sorry to say guys if you are old enough to be my grandfather I'm not interested
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Prefer older guys. They tend to have more experience sexually, and are more mature. They also have stable jobs, and know what they want out of life. As to how much older, I think it depends on where they are maturity wise ? smile