i personly quite like it when a girl come onto me and initiates sex or atleast foreplay. theres just something about it that seem like your say i want you right now without you haveing to actuly say it. its a personal turn on for me. though i still do take the lead far more, its just hot sometimes that have that reversal. its suprising and arousing

Depends really, if it's going to be a quickie I initiate it usually, for a night in fucking then she does. I like it more when she does, she is usually pretty horny then and I will get the nastier sex then.