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littlemissbitch
Posted: Monday, July 09, 2012 12:40:14 PM

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Sensei wrote:


Not to pick on you specifically, but a lot of other repliers here have expressed the same sentiment. That if the receiver had an orgasm, then what's the problem?

But if the scenario was changed to a woman being woken up for sex by someone other than who she thought in a dark room, there'd be no question that that was rape.

That's an unacceptable double-standard, in my view.


i wonder if its a double standard because most men wouldnt mind being woken up by a stranger giving them head where i think women, in general, would not be as tolerant. a poll would be interesting..



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Budlee
Posted: Thursday, August 02, 2012 12:55:07 PM

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Homosexuality is a sexual preference, a state of mind so to speak. If you are a male and sexually aroused by the thought of other men, then you certainly at least have bisexual tendencies. If you are a male and are not sexually aroused by women then you are homosexual. If you are not aroused by the thought of other men but sexually open minded and another man is giving you oral or and you enjoy it, it's just sex: no matter if you got hard right away or it took a while. IMHO
Pat278
Posted: Thursday, August 02, 2012 2:06:35 PM

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The only thing he (your friend)is, is a guy who enjoyed a blow job. Who you get a blow job from is irrelevant. I do not care who I get a blow job from, it feels good!! What makes you gay or bi is what a person does as in giving a blow job, being a bottom. Receiving a blow job and nothing else makes you normal.
Fireballsteve
Posted: Friday, August 03, 2012 10:47:43 PM

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That situation would never happen. I'm in to women and women only ! Love the gals... covet the gals....
_mal_
Posted: Sunday, August 12, 2012 10:40:01 PM

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I've heard that if you are getting sucked and you are thinking about a woman then it isn't gay :P

Or at least that's what Jemaine Clement from Flight of the Conchords seems to think... lol

Honestly. Who cares about labels. There's only two that I live by: 1) I like it, and 2) I don't like it.

No such thing as gay or straight, other than to communicate a thought with words.
Guest
Posted: Sunday, August 12, 2012 11:29:57 PM

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Well it certainly doesn't make him gay or bi. However, it may open a few doors should something like that occur. Like a cell door for sexual assault, or maybe he thinks that wasn't at all bad and maybe he'd like to try that again to make sure he wasn't dreaming...

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Dani
Posted: Sunday, August 12, 2012 11:30:26 PM

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In my opinion, you can only be classified as gay if you're physically and/or emotionally attached to the same sex. Meaning, if your friend woke up getting head from a dude, it doesn't make him gay. It just means he likes getting his dick sucked. If he only gets aroused by men, then yes, he's gay. But a guy's dick doesn't know the difference when it comes to these things.

If he was fully aware, it'd be totally different.

And I for one wouldn't take kindly to someone randomly going down on me if they've never done it while I was fully aware of who they were.

Damn...I answered the question...and I'm neither straight nor a guy.dontknow



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Pretzel
Posted: Monday, August 13, 2012 9:33:04 AM

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The point is that you are asking this question at all.
That means you're not absolutely certain.
No, this situation does not make you gay but... I personally find it hard to believe you didn't at some point find anything unusual about the encounter. Perhaps subconsciously you had an idea it might be your room mate and didn't want to acknowledge it. Maybe you aren't quite ready to admit that to yourself. Either way, don't beat yourself up over it but you might want to talk to your room mate.
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Posted: Monday, August 13, 2012 1:18:56 PM

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I a personally making real sure the person I am with is of the female gender. No offense but Im not gay or curious about becoming gay.
22rob22
Posted: Monday, August 13, 2012 2:55:45 PM

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how did he feel about it afterwards? if he still enjoyed it then he could be bi .would he do it again?
if not then i`d say no not gay.

personally i had a 3som with wife and another guy and wife persuaded me to let other guy blow me and as soon as he put his mouth on me i flopped lol does that make me gay?
i didn`t enjoy it btw and wouldn`t try it again his tongue was a lot rougher so maybe your pal knew?
Ben_C
Posted: Tuesday, August 21, 2012 12:12:55 PM

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1202024 wrote:
Ok guys I have been trying to explain to a buddy of mine that receiving oral sex from another guy doesn't make you gay.

Here is the arguing question.
You find yourself being woken up receiving a blowjob. Its dark. You think its your girlfriend you just go with it.
Next morning you find out it wasn't your girlfriend. The only other person around was your roommate.
You are not gay for getting off. Just because you didn't know it was a guy doesn't make it wrong. You didn't go looking for it. It just happened.

So.
Question.
Do you think it makes him gay or is it ok?


If even for a second you knew while you were getting sucked off it was a guy and you didnt stop it your at least bi, end of discussion.
Guest
Posted: Tuesday, August 21, 2012 1:43:25 PM

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WorkAlone wrote:
Orientation is about inclination or drive. If I ask a guy to blow me, that's a step towards gay. If I picture a guy blowing me, regardless of whose mouth I'm in, that's a step towards gay. If I'm picturing a girl while a guy is blowing me, that's a step towards straight (or at least bi). If I think it's my gf and am thinking about my gf and only find out later it was a guy, that's not remotely gay.

Just to flip the question: if someone, who you thought was your bf, crawled up under the sheets and ate you to a thundering climax, and you later found out it was a woman, would that mean your a lesbian? Hell no!


Yeah I agree but nonetheless, I would hopefully realize its a man way before I climaxed.
Fireballsteve
Posted: Wednesday, August 22, 2012 9:59:26 PM

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SexySofie wrote:
Do we really have to debase a beautiful act such as sex is to this level? If you're gay ... you're gay. If you're straight then so be it also. And also ... in a drunken state I've been fucked by a few guys and not known about it till the cum starts draining from me.


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Posted: Thursday, August 23, 2012 12:22:25 AM

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My concern with that story is that he didn't know who was giving him a blowjob...

I would not still be roommates with that guy.
bobt68
Posted: Friday, June 14, 2013 3:57:35 AM

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I am straight...but my messauge guy likes to blow me..does that make me bi?
Dudealicious
Posted: Friday, June 14, 2013 6:56:15 AM

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bobt68 wrote:
I am straight...but my messauge guy likes to blow me..does that make me bi?


If you mean massage guy or masseuse, no that doesn't make you gay. In fact that makes you more like John Travolta!

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Guest
Posted: Friday, June 14, 2013 8:18:46 AM

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hmm.. no not gay.. but the roommate would be homeless..
clum
Posted: Friday, June 14, 2013 8:23:30 AM

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Dudealicious wrote:
If you mean massage guy or masseuse, no that doesn't make you gay. In fact that makes you more like John Travolta!

evil4


Isn't it a masseur if it's a guy?

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Guest
Posted: Friday, June 14, 2013 9:19:48 AM

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I would suck a cock and swallow a big load of hot cum but would never consider myself gay. I love women but also like cocks and balls. I don't love men.
Guest
Posted: Friday, June 14, 2013 9:25:40 AM

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Of course a guy sucking another guys cock doesn't make you gay but it sure does open up new possibilities. I love to suck cock and don't consider myself gay. I'm bi and I love it.
Guest
Posted: Friday, June 14, 2013 9:41:57 AM

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i would let you suck mine,,n i would more than likely gobble yours
Dudealicious
Posted: Friday, June 14, 2013 9:42:32 AM

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clum wrote:


Isn't it a masseur if it's a guy?


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Dani
Posted: Friday, June 14, 2013 9:44:01 AM

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7up wrote:
i would let you suck mine,,n i would more than likely gobble yours


Bow chica wah wah.



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bassguitarbubba
Posted: Saturday, June 15, 2013 12:27:48 AM

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littlemissbitch wrote:


doesnt that defeat the purpose of intimate contact with your partner? may as well go find a glory hole then if you ask me.


No.
paul_moadib
Posted: Saturday, June 15, 2013 1:53:56 AM

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I guess we all have opinions on this but I think to be gay you need to be attracted to men.

Kissing guys for me would be the boundary. If you found a man attractive and desired to kiss him - then you're more than likely gay.

Oral sex is just an act. A comedian in my college days put that into perspective by saying:

"I've often thought about being gay. Yes, I have. I thought about how it would be to give a blow job. What put me off was the thought of looking up and seeing a guy with a beard and a pipe, saying (yorkshire accent) - that's it, suck it lad, suck it!
ManInNewHampshire
Posted: Saturday, June 15, 2013 7:16:06 AM

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littlemissbitch wrote:


doesnt that defeat the purpose of intimate contact with your partner? may as well go find a glory hole then if you ask me.


I agree. Making eye contact makes a good bj into a great bj. Which is why I prefer the room not be totally dark.
randy123
Posted: Monday, June 17, 2013 3:08:48 PM

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I don't find myself attracted to men, but I've both sucked, and been sucked by, another guy (and I have very fond memories of it, too). Sometimes, while looking at pics, I'll see a mmf shot where the guys are interacting, and it might be hot as hell, but if it's just two guys, then I'm not interested.
Ritchiedick
Posted: Saturday, June 29, 2013 10:15:18 PM

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As soon as someone comes up with a definition of what's "gay" and what's not....that we can all agree on, then we can make that decision whether getting sucked off by another guy is gay or not. Personally, I've been sucked off by a few guys and I enjoyed the feeling of power and control I had over them. I never would suck them off nor would I have any other contact than his mouth on my dick. I have let two husbands suck my dick while their wives watched...totally separate flings but I got several blow jobs from each guy....and I enjoyed 'lording' it over them...and their wives loved seeing me control them and have my way with them. There was a kid in high school who volunteered to blow me whenever I wanted....he said he had a crush on me and would do ANYTHING I wanted. Sometimes I would get so fucking horny....with big loads of hot, sticky cum trying to burst out of my prostate...and I literally couldn't stand it. Somehow....he would appear out of nowhere and offer up his mouth for my fucking pleasure. I had to have him suck me off three times before my horns were trimmed...but he loved doing it for me....again....no recip...at all!
Ritchiedick
Posted: Saturday, June 29, 2013 10:20:50 PM

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load69 wrote:
I would suck a cock and swallow a big load of hot cum but would never consider myself gay. I love women but also like cocks and balls. I don't love men.


That is a really interesting observation. I have been sucked off by a couple of married guys who did it because their wives wanted to see them do it. They wanted to see me dominate them and see them go all the way for me...just because I wanted them to do it. I'm certain that neither one was "gay". They did it because it turned on their cute, eager little sexpot wives. They loved to see hubby on his knees for me...licking....sucking...worshiping. Hey...I loved it too. The sultry, steamy look on her face while I held his head and slowly, deliberately fucked his throat was way toooooo erotic to pass up.
Guest
Posted: Sunday, September 29, 2013 7:08:39 PM

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Does not make either gay. Unless both does it more than one time. I would be telling the room mate if he does it again he will be looking for a new place to live and I would keep my mouth shut about the experience. Now does it go on the lines of rape? Yes because it was unwanted form of sex. Question is now can oral sex be a form of rape? And if so answer this how did the person get hurt during oral sex?
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