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banshee69
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Are they worth it? Been thinking about getting some for my wife. Any comments?

Thanks!
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Why not get her a stair master and enroll her in Weight Watcher's while you are getting her the ben wa balls? Also tell her that her breasts are too small and she should get a boob job.





Wow that really set you off CleverFox. Giving his S/O another experience where is that so bad?
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Are they worth it? Been thinking about getting some for my wife. Any comments?

Thanks!


Are you getting them for her to have a fun new experience, if so ask her if shes interested. sounds fun to me.
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What is wrong with buying them? I say talk to her first and see if that is something she wants to try and if she does then you could also get a small egg and put them in after the balls are in and enjoy the show. That is something to work up to though. Nothing wrong with changing things up and keeping it exciting.
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Why not get her a stair master and enroll her in Weight Watcher's while you are getting her the ben wa balls? Also tell her that her breasts are too small and she should get a boob job.





It's not like he asked if he should buy her a sweeper or new pots and pans. He asked if he should buy her something that is suppose to please her, stimulate her and for her. If he gets pleasure from it as well then it's a good gift for all involved.
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ouch y'all..lmao..sorry but i just love the meow comments..lol

why not?? if she likes toys go for it

if she does not..pass it by
banshee69
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Thanks for the input all! Like the input.

Except CleverFox, get some glasses and stop reading into things. How is it possible to get all the crap you brought up from me want to give my wife some pleasure? Insecurity issues much?

Best of days for all!
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Ben Wa would be a great name for a ball player. Then the fans could yell while he is playing "Ben Wa Balls!"
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Sometimes a little google goes a long way.

http://www.benwaballs.net/

Invented hundreds of years ago, Ben Wa Balls were made to enhance sexual stimulation and to exercise the kegel muscles. Still popular to this day, Ben Wa Balls have been one of women's favorite items to use. Now they come in many varieties and variations called Duotone Balls and Kegel Balls. People also refer these kind of products as Ben Wah Balls, Pleasure Balls, Orgasm Balls, Love Balls, and Smart Balls.
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So please tell your wife she needs to do Kegels to enhance her sexual pleasure.


Two nasty posts in this thread. Are you jaded much, please tone it down man!

Ben Wah balls can be used by both parties to enhance sexual pleasure. Not just to make her tighter.
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I is curious about these as well.

I'd say go for it, just talk to her first though to make sure that she's okay with it.

Cleverfox is probably just jealous that you have a wife to buy things for ^^
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It depends on why you are buying them. I completely understand and respect CleverFox's reply and think everyone is entitled to your own opinion and get off his back for Expressing his opinion. If you don't appreciate hearing someone's opinion, don't ask for it.
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Would be buying the balls strictly for her pleasure.

As for asking for CleverFox's opinion - I didn't. Seems to me I posted under "Ask the Gals" heading, of which, he is not. And you are right, everyone is entitled to their opinion, but negativity is neither called for or wanted by anyone.

Thanks for all who provided positive inpot, since I have had no experience with these, it is good to get some first hand knowledge.
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Quote by notsolittlegirl
It depends on why you are buying them. I completely understand and respect CleverFox's reply and think everyone is entitled to your own opinion and get off his back for Expressing his opinion. If you don't appreciate hearing someone's opinion, don't ask for it.


I am not sure if you saw his posts, in my opinion there really is no need to be this rude.

Quote by CleverFox
Why not get her a stair master and enroll her in Weight Watcher's while you are getting her the ben wa balls? Also tell her that her breasts are too small and she should get a boob job.


Then followed it up with this:

Quote by CleverFox
So please tell your wife she needs to do Kegels to enhance her sexual pleasure.


Then for some reason deleted his posts....So please tell me he didn't regret posting what he did in the first place?
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I deleted them not because I regretted them but because I could see that they were not welcome, even though Banshee69 did solicite in a public forum.
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A public forum entitled "Aske the Gals", which you are not. Also, why be rude and not ask why I am looking to get them, rather than immediately assume it is for negative reasons? They are strictly for her pleasure, never even knew they could be used to strengthen her muscles.
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Good luck to you, I hope it works every way you dream.
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Sometimes a little google goes a long way.

http://www.benwaballs.net/

Invented hundreds of years ago, Ben Wa Balls were made to enhance sexual stimulation and to exercise the kegel muscles. Still popular to this day, Ben Wa Balls have been one of women's favorite items to use. Now they come in many varieties and variations called Duotone Balls and Kegel Balls. People also refer these kind of products as Ben Wah Balls, Pleasure Balls, Orgasm Balls, Love Balls, and Smart Balls.

Thanks for the info. I thought about getting them before but never got around to it. I might have to pick some up.
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I deleted them not because I regretted them but because I could see that they were not welcome, even though Banshee69 did solicite in a public forum.


So someone ask about Ben Wah Balls and you feel the need to chime in and say "Why not get her a stair master and enroll her in Weight Watcher's while you are getting her the ben wa balls? Also tell her that her breasts are too small and she should get a boob job."

Yeah constructive criticism at it's finest! Just because he asked about them doesn't mean his significant other is overweight or loose. I think that would be an assumption on your behalf....

Please don't assume anything in public forums you tend to make an ASS out of U and ME
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Well Dude,

I was trying to tell him that getting her ben wa balls could blow up in his face the same way doing any of those things would blow up in his face. I made no assumptions on what his wife was like. I am sorry I didn't wrap my message up in a pretty package so it would be more acceptable.

So it looks like you ASSumed I made judgements on his wife, the same way you ASSumed I deleted my posts because I regreted them, Dude.
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Well Dude,

I was trying to tell him that getting her ben wa balls could blow up in his face the same way doing any of those things would blow up in his face. I made no assumptions on what his wife was like. I am sorry I didn't wrap my message up in a pretty package so it would be more acceptable.

So it looks like you ASSumed, Dude.


Yeah so that's why you went back and deleted your posts......So let me ask you, have you been so courageous to ask someone in a public forum what their thoughts (or experiences) were with a certain sex toy? (I seriously doubt it)

So why think you have to poo poo on the OP's post and think that HIS wife may not be accepting of it.....Which we now learn has been involved in the process the whole time?
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I am sorry but I there is nothing in the posts that say his wife was involved this whole time. So I am calling you on that BULLSHIT.

Why do I need to ask about anybody's thoughts or experiences with any sex toy?
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I am sorry but I there is nothing in the posts that say his wife was involved this whole time.

Why do I need to ask about anybody's experiences with any sex toy?


Then why comment that he should buy his wife a stairmaster and fling other derogatory comments in this thread? Makes no sense to me...

Why do you need to be so harsh to begin with?
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Really? You two?
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This is in "Ask the Gals"...
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Because I equated getting her ben wa balls to how she would feel if he did any of those other things for her. I think we can all agree that if he did those things she would be upset because he would be telling her that her body needs work. And Banshee admitted that he didn't know that they could be used to strengthen her Kegels muscles. What if he went ahead with this plan and got her the balls and the thought to run through her mind was "He thinks my pussy is too loose". Don't you see that possibility? Wouldn't that make for a romantic night?

But if you don't like the warning, then please ignore it.
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By the way, I didn't make any derogatory comments about anybody.