So guys, I know most of you go through this sometimes, but is there anything I can do (or my bf and I can do) to make him last longer in bed? He always gets off before me, and it's starting to get to him that I never orgasm when we have sex. Usually I'm getting near climax when he stops and pulls out (after he blows his load) and we can't really do oral afterwards because we do that before the actual sex and I get worn out on that easily, so it's not like he can finish me off that way.
So without any weird prescribed meds, is there anyway I can help him last longer? For example, positions...speed...??? The two positions we use are the simple missionary with my legs up, and cowgirl. Any advice is greatly appreciated.
If it was me I would make sure you organ before full sex with either foreplay or sex toys and oral sex is a good starting point plus if it's just a guy putting his cock in then rolling over then that's not good
Try a cock ring with a bullet for your clit. Good luck!
A condom will desensitize him. Two will work even better. Too much desensitization might cause him to lose his erection. There's all sorts of tricks he can do, but most of them reduce the quality of his experience, because he can't focus on you or the pleasure you're giving him. You should know that most women don't come from just intercourse. Additional clitoral stimulation is a good idea, not to make him last longer, but so you come sooner.
doctor love's idea is a good one. trojan makes one for about 8 bucks. last about 30 minutes and has an on/off switch for multiple uses. Also when i'm getting close and my wife isn't i will just stop thrusting and grind on her clit until i can get her to cum. tell your boyfriend to use different rotations until he finds something you enjoy. good luck
You want sex to be pleasureable for both of you, so you want to be careful about making him last longer by reducing sensation. You really need to find a solution where he comes a little slower and you come a little faster
Cowgirl is probably the hardest position for a guy to control his orgasm so probably should be avoided. When you say you have your legs up in missionary do you mean up over his hips or up against your chest - if it's not the latter maybe you could try that. Maybe put a pillow under your bum to change his angle of approach.
No one knows better than you how to make you cum and what your limits are - experiment, it's what being 19 is all about ;)
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Why not read some stories instead
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