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Personality. But the other two definitely matter. They are usually the attractors and then its the personality that keeps me there. But for me to say looks dont matter would be an outright lie!
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It's kind of a balance of all three and it also depends on what you're looking for at that stage in the game. If you're looking for a serious relationship and life partner, personality will carry a much heavier weight of importance. If it's more of a casual thing, vacation sex or a fun fling, then I think looks/body are going to be the stronger draw.
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Dancing_Doll wrote:It's kind of a balance of all three and it also depends on what you're looking for at that stage in the game.
If you're looking for a serious relationship and life partner, personality will carry a much heavier weight of importance.
If it's more of a casual thing, vacation sex or a fun fling, then I think looks/body are going to be the stronger draw. Very True
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thanks and i think you 100% right, looks are the thing we see first, but if a guy a guy had great body and personality but not the greatest of looks then what?
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Dancing_Doll wrote:
Are you taking about the male version of a butterface?
what do you mean 'butterface'? i mean ok looking but not the guy who gets the girl
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willwow96 wrote: what do you mean 'butterface'? i mean ok looking but not the guy who gets the girl Meaning everything is hot "but her face"... You're saying if the guy has a great body and a great personality, do looks matter... So... to me - looks would be comprised of both the body and the face. If the guy looks 'ok' and has a winning personality, then he should be able to get the girl a lot of the time. Maybe not every girl. But he shouldn't be completely dateless.
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Dancing_Doll wrote:
Meaning everything is hot "but her face"...
You're saying if the guy has a great body and a great personality, do looks matter... So... to me - looks would be comprised of both the body and the face.
If the guy looks 'ok' and has a winning personality, then he should be able to get the girl a lot of the time. Maybe not every girl. But he shouldn't be completely dateless.
thanks :D your a really huge help, maybe there's look for me after all
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willwow96 wrote:thanks and i think you 100% right, looks are the thing we see first, but if a guy a guy had great body and personality but not the greatest of looks then what?
To me looks and body go together, its total appearance
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sorry, i was going to say something here but i got caught up at staring at Doll and that lollipop... nevermind! *blushes*
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Personality is definitely the more important of these attributes. But I am a firm believer that your personality reflects upon the other two. and vice versa. If you let yourself go physically, it will effect your whole life, etc. etc. Take care of yourself completely and you will be A-OK
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Body and Personality. Looks are just a bonus really.
Body - they have to be healthy and not overweight.
Personality - is a hard one but when you get those really nice guys who aren't assholes its worth it :)
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I agree with many of the posts, depends on what you're looking for - something more serious or just a casual fuck. For me, personality is the clincher. I've been with some great looking men but most of them were as deep as thimble of water and dumb as a stump - that holds my attention for about a nano-second. On the flip-side, I have found myself attracted more often than not to men who normally wouldn't register on my radar as far as their looks but it's their personality and sense of humour that draws me to them like a magnet - those have been some of the best encounters I've had. The holy grail is when you can find that guy that embodies all three 
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depends on what your looking for though. for it's looks first then follow by with the personality then it's the body.
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Looks and body will get you through the door... but if there is no personality... there is no relationship. However... I've found that personality can make or break looks real fast. A bad personality makes for an ugly person and a great personality enhances looks.
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All three hopefully, but personality comes first
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Personality!
Looks and body are good too. But a persons attitude and personality is what gets me interested
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Personality a million times over, when you get to know people with amazing personality eventually all you can see them for looks and body wise is who they really are so they dont matter in the slightest,....tis amazing x
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Personality first, for sure! I always fall in love from the inside out.
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Personality is definately a turn on for me. Next would be looks, a mischievous smile, laughing eyes. Body I prefer somewhere in the middle ..,not too anything
Though she be but little, she is fierce.
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looks and body tie
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Personally I want it all. But the order would be personality, looks and body
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for me it is ALL personality
i married a very good looking man who turned out to be..well... just looks
after ten years...you want a brain and laughter to sex you up..not a six pack
make me laugh and give me an orgasm..i dont care what you look like
be faithful to me and i am yours...for life...
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Well it's rough for a girl to have to compromise but you could always tell them... ...
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overmykneenow wrote:Well it's rough for a girl to have to compromise but you could always tell them...
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No offense or disrespect intended, but the advice or comments given by three women displayed as gorgeous arch typical sex symbols would carry little weight with the ones whom society find horrid. That trio has never been laughed at in public when asking someone out. They havent been dumped fo some thug gangster wannabe. Just my insignificant opinion
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