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Magical_felix wrote: How about SWAWCWDTMADTMDTWUGUCMTMOHDWTOTBAAHTKGDWSCSOCDWHAOASLPGTILF HShe was a wild child who drank too much and did too many drugs then woke up, got under control, married the man of her dreams who turned out to be an asshole, had 3 kids, got divorced, went sex crazy, sort of calmed down, works her ass off and still looks pretty good that Id like to Fuck Hard. So Sorry. I assumed that was a given!!
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Wildcat wrote:I don't find the term offensive at all. Being a Grandmama, I've been called a MILF and I find it rather flattering. So I guess I'm actually a GILF and let me tell you, there's some very sexy nanas out there. I doubt if many would find the term derogatory.
As for stories in the MILF genre, I've never read one. Perhaps I shall.
http://www.lushstories.com/stories/milf/curlygirly-and-mazzas-big-sandwich.aspxThere, you've read one now!! :)
Sit back, kick off your shoes and grab your drink. Let me read you a story...  Stanley Gets A Heart On...I love it when we hang out together, we should do this more often...
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Magical_felix wrote:
I got a little excited when I saw Nicola Post in here. Was hoping she was going to suggest a "Matriarch I'd like to fuck" category.
That's a good idea for our next Lush competition. "Thanking Nic for a great site" 
Lush has added a new feature! This link allows you to see who has viewed your profile lately and who might be interested in you. Please click it and give feedback for improving the site :)
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As a fan of the more mature lady, long before they became known as MILFS: I can see how some might be offended, although personally If the tables were turned: I would take it as a compliment!
I would say that us blokes are discriminated against: MILF doesn't have a male equivalent. Surely there should be FILFs (or DILFS) too? Or are we just dirty old men...?
By pure coincidence I started writing a MILF story (in fact most of my stories concern Milfs because I like to write about people of my age). The story was inspired by a chat with a fellow Lush member on the subject of FFM: it was only afterwards I remembered an episode in my life (long before I became a father) which was not only FFM but MILF too. Now I just need to get writing again...
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MILF or Cougar. Call 'em what you want but don't eliminate them!
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Personally I find them as useless as homophobe and racist. Everyone has to have a "title", "name", or "term" now days and most of the time it simply does not accurately reflect those called it, or those claiming the titles.
MILF for instance has grown to cover any female that is a "mother", when in fact that was not what it was meant to be used for at all. It was actually meant to be used for mothers of our friends, IE teenagers' parents, or even young adults' parents. It was NOT meant to cover some 17-15 year old female who had a kid. But they sure are using the term a lot now days.
Cougar... I find the term laughable at best, but in some cases pretty sad for the women who fit that description. But I find it equally sad for males as well. I have no age differences, but I tend to believe that they should be within a reasonable range. And I don't need to get into that here since there have been a couple great threads covering that already (and my response is in one of them).
I tend to dislike labels all together. Just BE.
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JohnC wrote:Personally I find them as useless as homophobe and racist. Everyone has to have a "title", "name", or "term" now days and most of the time it simply does not accurately reflect those called it, or those claiming the titles.
MILF for instance has grown to cover any female that is a "mother", when in fact that was not what it was meant to be used for at all. It was actually meant to be used for mothers of our friends, IE teenagers' parents, or even young adults' parents. It was NOT meant to cover some 17-15 year old female who had a kid. But they sure are using the term a lot now days.
Cougar... I find the term laughable at best, but in some cases pretty sad for the women who fit that description. But I find it equally sad for males as well. I have no age differences, but I tend to believe that they should be within a reasonable range. And I don't need to get into that here since there have been a couple great threads covering that already (and my response is in one of them).
I tend to dislike labels all together. Just BE. You tend to dislike labels, look at your forum signature looks as though you've labeled yourself :)
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Ravyn wrote:
You tend to dislike labels, look at your forum signature looks as though you've labeled yourself :)
Nah, just a statement.  I also state in my profile that I am 6'4" as well. The is also not a label. What I meant by labels was.... well heck... you KNOW what I meant.   EDITED: changed signature to reflect statement, to avoid confusion.  
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Let's just do away with all adjectives, adverbs, nouns, titles and names. Tis better to guess and practice mind-reading...about everything in our lives.
 The best thing you can do for your fellow,
next to rousing his conscience, is - not to give him things
to think about, but to wake things up that are in him...
to make him think things for himself - George MacDonald
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WellMadeMale wrote:Let's just do away with all adjectives, adverbs, nouns, titles and names. Tis better to guess and practice mind-reading...about everything in our lives. But.. but... but... what about School House Rock? (Ok, how many songs just came into your head covering adjectives, adverbs, nouns, etc. LOL)
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I think this comes down to opinion.
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It's funny that these 2 terms were partly grasped hold of because they were more politically correct terms and sounded better than some of the first words used for women going after younger men. As already pointed out for men going after younger women they are still called perverts or just plain dirty old men. I have no problem with either of the terms. They definitely sound better than many of the alternatives out there.
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I tried to come up with alternatives for the male-equivalent for 'cougar' (that I've heard/seen) but all I could come up with was cradle-robber, dirty old man, rapist, child molester, pervert, sicko, daddy, etc...you get the idea. To be honest, I think the guys get the short end of the stick in regards to liking younger women (and the names they're called for it). "Cougars", at least, are generally considered to be older, sexy women with a bit of a wild side (at least that's the impression I always got, though correct me if I'm wrong). Guys are just considered perverts. :/ Or "Daddy", which is kind of weird. If I were an older woman I'd be grossed out a younger guy/girl I was interested in tried to call me "Mommy", so I wonder how men who don't have that particular kink must feel about it.
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I'm just a perverted dirty old man (but quite hygienic) and hate all acronyms. OK?
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The point about the cougar is not really the age gap, it is agency. Traditionally the man hunts the woman. A Cougar is not merely an older woman, she is an older woman on the prowl with the objective of seducing young men. A Cougar is quite definitely not a slut. A slut is easy, a Cougar picks her prey, stalks and devours him. A Cougar is not a MILF either. A MILF is a woman with children that the boy seeks out and seduces.
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I'm sure it is probably just a personal thing with me, but I never have limited MILF or DILF to just an older person with children. I think of it as any older man or woman that I would literally love to fuck or that I at least find sexually attractive. Some of them are parents and some are not. I have definitely never thought of the term to include anyone my age or younger that just happens to be a parent. If they fall in that category and I find them sexually attractive -- then they are just someone I would like to fuck -- so I guess a SILF. LOL
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