By definition we cannot be all kinky. All is a tad too strong word, however I do believe that we all are curious enough to try and desire what we dont have or didnt get yet.
Sexual revolution happened in previous century, so in modern western world, changing positions, using the whole house as bedroom, taking steam out and having quick or rough sex and so on, is not considered as kinky as it might be considered in India or in Abu Dhabi; however, your people wrote book about sex, Kama Sutra, so now I am wondering what kind of pervs did you pull on her..
A very wise person once told me that the only people that are NOT kinky are those that you don't know very well . . .
"When its too kinky for everybody else, its just gettin' good for me."
(Kinky Freedman)
It depends on whether you're in the mood. That's all I can say.
I certainly agree that it is a general nature to try and want what we can't have or is frowned against, similar to what She said. But you have to consider people with things like Paraphobia, the fear of sexual perversion. Or asexual people, voluntarily or involuntarily. Look at the one House episode where an asexual couple came in, the man actually had a disease that caused erectile dysfunction, but still made him completely fearful of having sex in any way. Even if it was a character on a show, it's a good example of what can happen. Not everyone is naturally kinky.
"The big difference between sex for free and sex for money is that sex for money usually costs a lot less."
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You know, it's only "kinky" the first time.
What are we defining as "kinky"? It's kind of a subjective term. We are sexual beings, we all have desires, biology creates us this way. How wild, crazy, and kinky a person is varies by personality, just like a persons talents, hobbies, and interests.
And yeah, I'm not sure if I'm answering the question, cause I'm not sure what it was either?
I think we are all kinky, one way or the other.
Sexual fetishism is the sexual arousal a person receives from a physical object, or from a specific situation.
Normally this is associated as kinky and only for freaks, SM, perv's and other people with a strange taste.
I don't look at it like that
A woman that loves to wear latex during sex is considered to be kinky, latex is her fetish.
But a woman that loves to wear the plain old cotton undies is also kinky, cotton is her fetish.
Even if you prefer to be naked, not because it is easier but because you love the feeling of being naked.
Then being naked is your fetish... so you're kinky.
Some guys only want to date blondes..... pretty kinky if you ask me, blondes are their fetish
Some guys love BBW's.... yep, that's kinky. BBW is their fetish
Some guys only want to have sex "doggy style"..... you can guess it by now, right ?
Personally I don't consider anything to be kinky.
It all depends on your own sexual background.
I've done many things that might considered to be kinky by other's,
and as C50T said "It's only kinky the first time"
Our sexual education and the moral values ( laid upon us by society ), are making us feel a bit strange
when we do things out of the ordinary. We are "taught" that it is WRONG and BAD.
But is it ?
If you ( who ever you are ) love to dress up as Snow white and have sex with 7 midgets..... GO FOR IT !!!!
I am quite kinky, but some of the previous generation would think that I'm perverted
If we aren't kinky, what are we doing here?
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yeah we are in all different kinds of ways it just depends on what u consider kinky.
Wait a goddamned minute, you mean all this stuff in my head isn't normal? WTF?
Sorry.....I'm the only one who is not kinky.
My Karma just ran over your Dogma
Kinky means different things to different people. But yes i'm pretty damn kinky and thats part of the reason I joined this site
A young lady from Delhi (India) opined that I am sexually perverted. This is one allegation that I accept happily. Yes, I am kinky. But I would like to ask one question to all those who are present on Lush: what are they doing here, if not exploring their sexual fantasies? It is not to accuse or malign anyone. It is just to make the simple point that we all nurse some or other sexual fantasies.
- so I went looking and here's what I found (cut/paste from wikipedia)
Yes my friends love my kinky side.