I recently had an odd offer.
I was talking with a close friend who is big into her toys about a recent drought in my sex life.
At the end of it all I jokingly said id like to watch her get off while I rub one out.
She said ok!!!! We haven't actually done it because shes my girlfriends bff and we agreed it wouldn't be appropriate.
But shes really hot and its just a show so... maybe.
What do you guys think
Cheating is a relative term to most relationships. It's defined differently in different sorts of relationships...especially in open ones. Even still, there are lines that shouldn't be crossed.
But I digress. Is watching her best friend get off with a toy something you plan on keeping from your girlfriend? Would you like your girlfriend putting on a show for for one of your male buddies without your knowledge?
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You already know the answer to that one. It's so not cool to do that to your girl. How will you handle the shitstorm that happens when they have a fight and the bff tells your girl all about your encounter. If you want to be with the bff then break up with your gf. Then you'll only be an a-hole and not a cheating a-hole.
I don't think so, like using them on my wife. but she don't like using them as it makes her feel too good, when we first got a vibrator for her, she used it several times a day, as she loved it so much, but was afraid she'd get to attached to it, I love using it on her cause she comes so great when I bring her to her climax, yells and screams, as it feels so good, love it.
Rule number 1 in cheating; NEVER do it with BBF / neighbours/ friends etc....if you are serious with your girlfriend, dont do it, she will be 200% pissed off if she finds out.
The BBF can gossip about it, then you have a problem.
If you go that way, pick a person who is not connected in any way....
If my man was watching my bff get off with or without a toy I would drop kick both their asses.
I think you should sort out your problems with your gf then you wouldn't be so frustrated.
My issue with gf was that she was very sick for a while.
we have an open relationship its just that its her bff.
we have had several parties where we all srvc ourselves but her bff hasn't ever been there.
the groups have been random ppl we meet out.
So now she is finally better and the 2 people who are emotianally most attached to her are both willing to hurt her badly.....?
If this comes out she will not only loose you, but also her 'bbf'....
No I don't think using toys is cheating...
It is simple... "cheating" involves anything that is against set rules. The degree of cheating and what it means to a relationship depends on what rule or agreement was broken. It is really that simple. What may be cheating to one relationship may NOT be cheating to another based on the rules and agreements they have. And a good rule of thumb is that if you have to ASK if it is cheating, there is a good chance that it IS. But if in doubt, ask your partner, not "others"; because in the end, THAT is what matters, not what we think.
I don't think this is a question about toys. Ask yourself if you GF would consider it cheating. If she would, then it is cheating.
I think you already know the answer too, so does her "bff".
Not only no, but HELL NO! I love using toys both on myself as well as on other girlfriends of mine and some guy friends. Toys were meant to help enhance the experience and I believe that they do exactly that! Why wouldn't someone want to use a toy if in the end, it helps to provide you with a mind-blowing, body-wracking orgasm? To do otherwise is to cheat both yourself and your partner.
Yes and no if it's just you no but using them with someone else then yes even if your not having intercourse by sexually touching someone else its cheating.
No i don't think it is cheating. If it is then masterbation is cheating and we all know it's not
It's the BFF part that gets me. If she's furious after she finds out, and she will find out, who will she turn to? You damaged the relationship with her two most important people in her life.
IMHO, start dating your wife. Rebuild that intimacy again. I've been through serious illness with a wife before and it changes everything. You become a caretaker, a role you didn't want and builds resentments over time; she became dependent, something that destroys the self esteem of every woman. You're not the same people you were before the illness and likely never will be again, but you're also not the same people you were with the illness. Take the time to get the new woman, your survivor wife, and try to fall in love again.
If done with all consenting then it's not cheating.
But doing it without your SO aware and you're hiding it then that's cheating and you know it so why ask the question?
You looking for justification for cheating?
If so, then you are all ready thinking about cheating it's just a matter of time.
I don't think so but am a guy I woul get offended if my girlfriend watched a guy get off
Not when you do it right.
I don't think it's cheating at all. Though it could prove some sexual probs in a relationship
It doesn't matter what either of you are using to actually get the job done. It's a sexual act that you would be performing with another person without your gf knowing. Cheating. Period. 
