[LOVE & RELATIONSHIP TOPIC] Why are girls weird?

Rookie Scribe

0 likes 24 Oct 2013

First of all, hi! I am not regular in the forums but I do read lush stories a lot. Lately though I wanted to interact with you guys. One thing that keeps spiralling in my mind is why are girls weird?

Let me explain why I call them weird. I am a guy. Pretty typical one. I like to know a girl before I make love to her. OK so I am not your average guy. Looks not faze me. Personality does. I like my partner smart and funny and averagely cute. she doesnt have to be a super model if she is fun to talk to. So I thought I found my the one. She was perfect. We had a 5 year long relationship. But it didnt work out because I am a texter. I am a workaholic. I dont like to talk for hours on the phone. If you text me I will reply instantly. To her I was just not caring enough to talk to her. Secondly she loved macho men. Muscular guys driving a mustang. I am a geek and I have a bicycle.

But thats not why I call em weird. After that I have been in a few relationships that did not go well even though initially they were fine. These relationships have given been experience and insight and taught me a lot of things that I didn't know before. Girls are weird because:

1. They are as horny as guys but they don't admit it: I have had sex chat with almost all of my female friends. Its fairly easy to turn a girl on with me texts and they would admit to being wet or masturbating but they wouldn'thave real sex with me or go into a relationship. No no that's too low. They will just let me turn them on so that they can wank in peace.

2. They would flirt all they want and give you signals but that's just being friendly: From which year are giving sexual signals have become friendly for guys and girls? When I like a girl I treat her differently than a regular friend. Most of my female friends are sexual with me and I am not even pretty. How is that friendship?

3. Why are they not clear about stuff:

Mark: Jane I don't like it when you talk to Bill.
Jane: Mark you are so possessive!

Jane: I talk to so many boys and you don't even care.
Mark: Well you said I am possessive so I changed!

We all girls always mean something else. They are never true and honest and sharing about their feelings
Do they even realise men are human and can't read minds or predict future?

What's your take on women? If you are one what's your take on my opinions? Please do share.

Sex without love is like masturbating... You are just using a person instead of your hand...

~Lova-fo'h-Lyf~

Guest

Lurker

0 likes 25 Oct 2013

There is a lot of ground to cover here and I am such an unorganized responder...

First of all... WELCOME TO LUSH AND THE FORUMS...

- You say looks don't faze you, if a girl is at least average looking and she is fun to talk to then you can hit it off? A little piece of advice, no girl will ever want to know that a guy she is with thinks she is average! BUT because she is fun to talk to it will get her by!?!?

- I do know the feeling of being with someone that is a texter/ emailer. Doesn't bother me but maybe she really enjoyed your voice!? there is a more personal feeling with hearing words over reading them.... But then again if you're busy, you're busy! It needs to be give and take.

-I don't get the macho man thing, I feel ya there! I love me a geek on a bike(literally) haha strangely enough he is also the emailer/texter...Hmmmmmm where did you say you are from?

-I am hornier than most men I know, and I don't always want to have sex. My reasoning is I can do a better and faster job myself! that's it!

-I'm a little confused with the fact that you are claiming to be different than most men, yet you sext with every female friend you have and ask them to have sex with you??? dontknow

Most of my female friends are sexual with me and I am not even pretty.

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Say what?

- I think you are having too many bad experiences with the wrong women! and that is me being VERY CLEAR

My two cents contributed My 2 cents

Guest

Lurker

0 likes 25 Oct 2013

Quote by lover_not_fucker77
First of all, hi! I am not regular in the forums but I do read lush stories a lot. Lately though I wanted to interact with you guys. One thing that keeps spiralling in my mind is why are girls weird?

Let me explain why I call them weird. I am a guy. Pretty typical one. I like to know a girl before I make love to her. OK so I am not your average guy. Looks not faze me. Personality does. I like my partner smart and funny and averagely cute. she doesnt have to be a super model if she is fun to talk to. So I thought I found my the one. She was perfect. We had a 5 year long relationship. But it didnt work out because I am a texter. I am a workaholic. I dont like to talk for hours on the phone. If you text me I will reply instantly. To her I was just not caring enough to talk to her. Secondly she loved macho men. Muscular guys driving a mustang. I am a geek and I have a bicycle.

But thats not why I call em weird. After that I have been in a few relationships that did not go well even though initially they were fine. These relationships have given been experience and insight and taught me a lot of things that I didn't know before. Girls are weird because:

1. They are as horny as guys but they don't admit it: I have had sex chat with almost all of my female friends. Its fairly easy to turn a girl on with me texts and they would admit to being wet or masturbating but they wouldn'thave real sex with me or go into a relationship. No no that's too low. They will just let me turn them on so that they can wank in peace.

2. They would flirt all they want and give you signals but that's just being friendly: From which year are giving sexual signals have become friendly for guys and girls? When I like a girl I treat her differently than a regular friend. Most of my female friends are sexual with me and I am not even pretty. How is that friendship?

3. Why are they not clear about stuff:

Mark: Jane I don't like it when you talk to Bill.
Jane: Mark you are so possessive!

Jane: I talk to so many boys and you don't even care.
Mark: Well you said I am possessive so I changed!

We all girls always mean something else. They are never true and honest and sharing about their feelings
Do they even realise men are human and can't read minds or predict future?

What's your take on women? If you are one what's your take on my opinions? Please do share.

Welcome to Lush!

That there first bit of text I highlighted is your first key to unlocking the magical mystery of weird girls. You don't like to talk for hours. I can't say it enough times.... communication communication communication. She wants to talk to YOU. Perhaps you weren't caring enough to talk to her. Girls like to talk, they LOVE to talk. If you want a girlfriend, you are going to have to endure talking to her sometimes.

The second bit of text I highlighted made me gag a little when I read it. She only likes muscular guys with mustangs. You are a geek and have a bike. Why the HELL do you think she stayed with you for five years then?

Perhaps you don't understand women because you work too much and don't like talking for long periods with your girlfriends. I'm not saying this is the case, but if you try talking to them you might find out a little of what makes them tick.

The third piece I highlighted made me gag again. You have sex txt with all of your female friends, and they admit to being turned on. Have you tried to turn them on in real life, like, when they are actually with you? Just askin'.

I'm not sure that you know how little you do know about women.

Dani

Big-haired Bitch

0 likes 25 Oct 2013

I will also chime in that maybe you're going for the wrong girl. Find one that already suits your lifestyle instead of trying to find one that would need to conform to your lifestyle. The same goes both ways. If you're not a girl's type, move on. If a girl's not your type, move on.

This could actually solve lots of problems relationshipwise. If someone doesn't suit you, stop sticking around in hopes of making that person suit you.

Not all women are the same. If you want someone open and up front and laid back, find someone open and up front and laid back.

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Guest

Lurker

0 likes 20 Nov 2013

I'll add just a little to what's already been said. first you're obviously a YOUNG man, so I ASSUME that you're talking about YOUNG women. (Yes, there IS a difference!) Next, YOU assume (incorrectly) that "ALL women are the same". WRONG! Only the "equipment" is the same (many women make the same mistake about us, and part of that contributes to your problem.) Unless you're dealing with a hooker or a wife, ASKING for sex will rarely get you there (even with wives it can FAIL miserably!) MOST of them PREFER some element of romance and/or spontaneity. SO, get together with them (DO NOT text and ASK) and TALK to them for a bit THEN make a casual move and let things happen from there. Lastly, where younger women are concerned all too many are concerned with the tendency of young men to SHARE with their buddies! (They've WATCHED girlfriends get a bad rep because she got it on with a big mouthed idiot; or had that happen to them.) SO, be DISCREET! Lastly, relax and be as self confident as you can be (without be a jerk about it) that too impresses a woman; and show them that on some level you CARE about them, their thoughts, feelings and desires. (LISTENING and paying attention helps too! One GF told me she got turned on by the lezzie scenes in porn; SO I talked her through a fantasy bisexual encounter. Which, in turn, lead to some FANTASTIC sex (she was so turned on by my little story that she got off three times BEFORE I mounted her for the first time!)