Anyone on my friend's list can send me a notification, mass notification or private, it doesn't matter. They are on my friend's list and why even have a friend's list if you can't behave like a friend and be a friend.
I do promote my stories when I write a new one. The object is to have people read them. My goal is to have as many people as possible find some enjoyment from something I love to do.
I also have a number I follow - those who's stories have intrigued me - as well as reading what my friends have voted/commented on
I have been sending mass-mail to my friends, but as the lovely Mazza says it can be a hassle. From now on, I'll just rotate new stories into my Sig line, leaving it at the most recent five.
Anybody that I follow I get a notification to when they post something new.
I am not a huge fan of the mass emails that go out and have opted out of that.
I will read my friends works it may take me a little while, but I will get to it.
I am more inclined to read my friends that read my work too. Sometimes I will plow through all of their work, yet they never look at mine.
LOL.....
I don't "follow" anyone, I prefer to use a combination of the flowing:
#1 look at what my friends have written
#2 look on the home page for new story titles that might be of interest
#3 when posting in the forums, look at the profiles of the people I'm posting TOO and check their stories out
#4 peruse the categories I find of interest
I have only used mass Lush mail once - to shamelessly promote an entry in a competition. Why? Simply because if I didn't, chances are the story would not get enough votes to even make the top ten, much less have a chance. There are authors here who are well known that have the ability to simply post a story and poof - they get votes. No problem, personally, as I am yet a noob on this site. I understand it takes time to create a following. Which is why I shamelessly self promotoed myself.
Would I do it for all my stories? No. Multiple reasons, but the biggest is that I don't want to inundate my Lush friends with a constant barrage of emails that I have posted yet another story. No, I'm not a prolific author, but it is my hope to submit one a month, if not two. Why should my friends have to be told? Those that care will know without being told.
As for how I determine what stories I am going to read, there are certain categories I will be attracted to, but that doesn't mean I won't read other types. Usually I can tell if I am going to like any story within the first few paragraphs. No, it doesn't have to have instant sex or even the beginning foreplay of sex. The writing style will hook me. Bad spelling or grammar and I'm out of there. I suppose I should say something, but I think it better to provide that type of criticism to the author directly - not for all to see.
There you have it. At least my version of it. Shameless self promotion, in my opinion, should be held only for special situations. If you use it too often, it turns out more like Peter crying wolf.
WSCLG
"I expect nothing. I fear no one. I am free." Nikos Kazantzakis
It's strange, all the posts come from authors in this thread!
Self promotion methinks!
I get most of the stories that I read from the forums. Being a forum junkie I read profiles of people posting and if they've written a story I'll often read it. This has taken me into various categories that I would not normally check out. This way I've found some great stories I would have missed.
My biggest problem is the sheer number of stories on here.
I love the fact the people want their work to be read
I mean the greatest compliment are people who read your work
so if it is in a thread a signature an email I am grateful for all
I sometimes cannot get to all of them
but I so value all the writers here on LUSH
To me you are some of the most talented people I have ever met or read
so drop me a message and I will so read your beautiful and sexy work!
and I read a lot
This is a difficult one for me to answer. A big part of why I'm on Lush is to write. It's important to me. At the same time, I don't want to appear like I'm begging or pressuring people to read what I write. The 'shameless' self-promotion hits the nail on the head, in a lot of ways. It's difficult to be 'shameless' about it, even though in the industry you almost have to be (or have others doing it for you). It's still something I'm not always comfortable with.
Even on Twitter, I see endless author accounts who just tweet the same adverts for their eBooks over and over again, multiple times a day, every single day. Just adverts. Just retweets. And yes, they have thousands of followers. As a reader I find those sort of tactics to be a real put-off, so I don't get it. I don't like heavy-handed sales tactics with zero personal touch. When I see author accounts, I want to see that the person is putting in at least some effort to let people know who they are as well - their thoughts, interests - not always non-stop *BUY THIS!* and *READ THAT* spam-capades, like a PR-robot.
On Lush, I guess it's the fine line between promoting your writing and not appearing pushy about it. Let's be honest, if every person who wrote on this site used the All-Friends PM method every single time they posted something, our inboxes would be permanently flooded. Some writers here post multiple stories or poems a month. I think that's too much. I don't mind the PM-blasts on occasion - they often will remind me to read something I might not have noticed otherwise. At the same time, I have great respect for the *follow* button on Lush and assume that those that want to be notified when certain people post stories here will use that.
For my own promotion here, I pretty much just use my profile blog and my forum signature. I have sent an All-Friends message twice in my lifetime on Lush - both around the holidays (one year apart) to wish people well and to mention eBooks that I published that year (the 'follow' button doesn't cover eBooks). That's the system I'm most in favour of, but as I said - I don't mind if people use the occasional all-friends message if it's just once in a while for a big important story that you're proud of or a comp entry or if you haven't written in a while. If it's something that gets over-used or blasted for things like "hey, I posted a new pic of myself on my profile - comment on it!" or "here's a link to my weekly poem!" then yeah, it's annoying. It's definitely a fine balance.
I get notifications from authors I follow. And many times if see that a friend has commented on a story I will check it out and if the title or tags are appealing I will read it. Sometimes I will read the posted comments and see how it was received but I rarely do that. I much rather go into it with an open mind.
I also have no objection to self-promoting such as having it in your forum signature . If you work hard on something and are proud of it, then I see nothing wrong with a little advertisement!
OK, good evening and all that...I'm new on here, a little lost and probably posting in the wrong place...forgive me if I am but seeing as this is a piece of shameless self-promotion it seems like a good spot! I really just wanted to punt a short story I've written, which is free at least until the end of today. It's called Hot Wet Touches and it's about an 'incident' that occurs in a sauna...I won't spoil it any more than that but I would LOVE to hear any feedback and get some reviews written, anywhere that takes your fancy. It's my first effort so could use the support. The link to the book is here:
Love y'all! Nite!
I dont mind my friends telling me they have a new story via their blog. I'll more than likely get around to reading it anyway. To promote it once or twice is fine, beyond that I find it a little excessive. If I get a friend request, often the first thing I will do is read their blog. If its littered with copious amounts of self promotion, Im sorry to say I wont be accepting it. I dont want to open my feed to find you are promoting the same story every other day for weeks on end. I feel like its being rammed down my throat. I think writers should let their readers know they have a new story, but I think there comes a time when its good to let it go and let the reader get to it when they can.
I'm a firm believer of opt-in. If someone is getting my updates, it's because they want them.
I've got a mailing list, my website, and I'm on Twitter and Facebook at reader request. Once I have enough posts under my belt to use links and pics, I'll probably advertise in my sig here, as I do other places. I see no reason to push with a mass PM or anything of that nature. From the way I see it, I'm likely annoying more people than I'm informing that way.
I've had authors send never-ending messages simply because I've left a comment on a story, accepted a friend request, or something of that nature. It's annoying, and I won't do that to anybody else.
The odd one-off for a "good cause" doesn't bother me. A good example is competition stories, because there's a vote minimum you need to obtain. It's only when it becomes continuous and I haven't asked for it that I start taking steps.
I'm afraid that I don't fit in very well here, I haven't found my niche and I don't qualify for any cliques (I've tried and I give up). If it was not for the occasional email that I send out, no one would even know I was here or that I wrote a little something.
That is all.
(Slinks back into obscurity.)
The Almighty Space Potato
I absolutely hate people sending mass mail to promote their work, I usually just ignore it because quite frankly I don't do it and I don't expect to have an inbox filled with "read this"