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Daddyo51
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LADIES; We know that the most important sex organ is the mind, How do you feel about an older gent with a keen and active mind, who can talk the talk and titillate the mind, but the flag pole has a bit of a problem reaching full staff?

Would you...

1. Drop him quick?
2. Feel sorry for him and lie to him to make him feel better?
3. Take one for the team, then ignore him in the future?
4. Enjoy receiving from him and help him get the most satisfaction that he can?
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Number 4 - enjoy receiving from him and help him get the most satisfaction that he can xxx
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A prostitute client of a colleague, once told him when asked, "who is your best lover" was told and I quote, "an elderly Chinese gentleman, he is balding dumpy not good looking and a very small penis, but has the most wonderful imagination of any man I have ever know or had sex with without question. This man makes love to me like no one else can".
I have always aspired to be as good as he was, and especially as I now grow older.
Therefore, number 4 would be the answer surely.
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I sure would go for no. 4
I have an older man as a friend, an intimate friend.
He is a real gentleman and knows how to please me, his objective is to please me and not to please himself.
He can make me going so hot, he is really one of the best lovers I ever had.
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The "flag pole has a bit of a problem reaching full staff" isn't reserved just for the old unfortunately :P

I am in full agreement that the mind is the biggest sex organ particularly for women. I haven't been with men much older than myself (4-5 years old max) but have been with men around my age or younger who still had issues getting it up for one reason or another.

I would say I'd be more inclined to go with option #4 BUT at the same time, I am a woman that thoroughly enjoys and gets tremendous pleasure giving pleasure and basking in my partner's arousal as well as engaging in deep penetration. It would be fine initially but I know that it would become an issue for me if I couldn't experience the other half of this equation.
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Quote by BelleduJour
The "flag pole has a bit of a problem reaching full staff" isn't reserved just for the old unfortunately :P

I am in full agreement that the mind is the biggest sex organ particularly for women. I haven't been with men much older than myself (4-5 years old max) but have been with men around my age or younger who still had issues getting it up for one reason or another.

I would say I'd be more inclined to go with option #4 BUT at the same time, I am a woman that thoroughly enjoys and gets tremendous pleasure giving pleasure and basking in my partner's arousal as well as engaging in deep penetration. It would be fine initially but I know that it would become an issue for me if I couldn't experience the other half of this equation.


There is a big difference between " bit of a problem" and total inability. The irony (or perhaps beauty) of the situation is that a partner that is willing to invest in "basking in your partner's arousal" is often the best prescription for a stiff and able answer to the "other half of the equation" and begets
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I will say
4. Enjoy receiving from him and help him get the most satisfaction that he can?


This is based on the person. their personality and character. Some of the older gentlemen are sexy and knowledgeable. I would def love being able to give him satisfaction and more. There is more to anyone than how old they are or if it is working properly.

I would want to see if I could be the one to get him up and going.
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I love hearing from women, on heresmile It really helps in real life!!
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I love older men always have...everyone's ah flag fails at one time or another

the penis is NOT the only item on a man's body to bring a woman or a man pleasure

to me half the way to an orgasm is my brain

I don't want to be a teacher in a relationship but a PARTNER

besides as the flag is recovering go choose a lelo toy and enjoy!
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I love older men always have...everyone's ah flag fails at one time or another

the penis is NOT the only item on a man's body to bring a woman or a man pleasure

to me half the way to an orgasm is my brain

I don't want to be a teacher in a relationship but a PARTNER

besides as the flag is recovering go choose a lelo toy and enjoy!



As an older man...I really appreciate your attitude and understanding on this.
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This is a fantastic question!

My best sexual relationship ever is one where there is zero sex. We are very open minded, creative, and our imaginations are our best friends. Physical sex is only a small part of any relationship, and the penis alone; an even smaller part. To me the best fuck, is a nasty, dirty, filthy, mind fuck! No Penis Required!

p.s.
(I love older men, one in particular hehe)
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I don't think age is of huge relevance. To me great sex starts - and can even end - in the mind. If a guy can fire my sexual imagination, using his wit and intelligence, the physical act of orgasm is effectively easy to achieve, with or without his 'stiffy.' Unromantic maybe, but true.

So for me, No. 4 all the way.
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I do agree with all of the above said - as I like saying, you have to fuck a woman's mind first and then her body. The greates art is to make a woman cum even without touching her and in that respect age or any physical assests are of no relevance at all.
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I just enjoy their company .. they make the best dinner companions.. they r just sooo full of life..

I have an older gentleman friend who invites me to his corporate functions .. he is a fabulous dancer ... his friends all ask him "how do u do it Max?" .. personally I have no idea how he does .. and if one of them should ever ask me how he does it.. I can only surmise ... he probably does it as he does everything else.. thoroughly and with a great degree of competency... which is how I would reply.. oh.. and with manners... I sooo keep waiting for one of them to ask me

Posted as a tribute to all older men who date young girls
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#4 Enjoy receiving him and help him get the most satisfaction he can get from me
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I just enjoy their company .. they make the best dinner companions.. they r just sooo full of life..

I have an older gentleman friend who invites me to his corporate functions .. he is a fabulous dancer ... his friends all ask him "how do u do it Max?" .. personally I have no idea how he does .. and if one of them should ever ask me how he does it.. I can only surmise ... he probably does it as he does everything else.. thoroughly and with a great degree of competency... which is how I would reply.. oh.. and with manners... I sooo keep waiting for one of them to ask me

Posted as a tribute to all older men who date young girls



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So many wonderful, caring women are in this Lush family.
Ine of the main reasons I've been here long enough to receive the "Veteran" of Lush badge.

Thanks to you all!!!
Gramps

The quiet and always horny old guy in Sunny Florida USA
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I think 4 covers it rather nicely
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Yeah four for the most part
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I just enjoy their company .. they make the best dinner companions.. they r just sooo full of life..

I have an older gentleman friend who invites me to his corporate functions .. he is a fabulous dancer ... his friends all ask him "how do u do it Max?" .. personally I have no idea how he does .. and if one of them should ever ask me how he does it.. I can only surmise ... he probably does it as he does everything else.. thoroughly and with a great degree of competency... which is how I would reply.. oh.. and with manners... I sooo keep waiting for one of them to ask me

Posted as a tribute to all older men who date young girls


As a 'physically older' man thank you my love.

At 50 I married a girl 26 and we were at a Christmas party (everyone knew me to never date any one even close to my age), and got asked in front of her by a guy around her age - "How do you do it, G?" She said to the guy - "Guess you'll just have to wait until you're 50 to find out." When we married, in Vegas on the spur of the moment, I called my best friend and told him and he told his wife and the first words she said was - "How old is she?" LOL

I love turning heads when I walk in with a girl who is very much younger than me - and I know for the girls I've been with it's an ego trip for them as well.

I did get mildly tired of being asked if my wife was my daughter. After we had our daughter we were out and another older guy came up and said how cute my granddaughter was. I said no she 's my daughter, and pointing to my wife I said, "She's the mom and my daughter also and stood watching it all settle in his brain. LOL!
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Isn't that what Viagra is for
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Well I've never YET had that problem, but it IS nice to know that there are so many understanding and honestly loving ladies out there among you.
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4 and even if the man has problems, there are many ways to make love and get satisfied.
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I have never had the pleasure of a much older man.
I have seen many at our nude the beach and would have no hesitation with - 4.
It could be a very pleasant experience and a ton of fun getting everything working together.
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As an older guy, I wont lie...I actually enjoy both women my age and those younger too. In fact, where I work, a colleague who is 26yrs my junior is my 'fantasy'. She is sexy in my mind and thats where it stays for the moment. Seeing her and her smile that lights up her face gives me an inner glow no matter what my mood of the moment is. I have made love to women both younger and older than myself - note I said 'made love'..NOT 'fucked'..there IS a difference!
I seek confidence, fun, a smile that lights the eyes and the body just follows. Ladies, for me its not all about being a model or looking like a model..its your attitude that makes you sexy to me. The right woman gets my engine(erection) going every time. Mrs Palmer isnt always the best thing.
Oh, BTW, super skinny is NOT attractive so lets get real on that one up front! We gents like a 'healthy' woman.
So there ya have it from an older bloke...be confident but not arrogant or pushy and if you are a younger girl you may attract the eye of us older blokes. And also, dont try me for money, thats NOT what this is about, as I worked hard for my finances and plan to enjoy them!
"Citybloke"(email me here at LUSH, I am available...)
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Quote by sweetaz




I think 4 covers it rather nicely


If that pic is of you looking into the mirror ...that is such a sexy image. I could look at that and be happy. To touch and caress that would be bliss! I am a gent of 52yrs who allows myself to enjoy the visual pleasure of younger women. I am no perfect looker myself BTW... but my imagination is always on the go!
Into the mirror..into the looking glass..do we see our reflection or do we see what we WANT to see??
How others see us..now THAT'S the issue!
Citybloke1 (from Vic, Australia..Hi Kiwis, got one on my 10pin team and she's a younger gal too!!)
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I just enjoy their company .. they make the best dinner companions.. they r just sooo full of life..

I have an older gentleman friend who invites me to his corporate functions .. he is a fabulous dancer ... his friends all ask him "how do u do it Max?" .. personally I have no idea how he does .. and if one of them should ever ask me how he does it.. I can only surmise ... he probably does it as he does everything else.. thoroughly and with a great degree of competency... which is how I would reply.. oh.. and with manners... I sooo keep waiting for one of them to ask me

Posted as a tribute to all older men who date young girls


I would feel very shy in your company, Hayley. You look and act like a highly educated, really classy lady at a society function, and I would look like someone who's never been in high society. That said, you would be a wonderful person to be around because you treat people with dignity and respect for them as people.
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I have never had the pleasure of a much older man.
I have seen many at our nude the beach and would have no hesitation with - 4.
It could be a very pleasant experience and a ton of fun getting everything working together.


Meg, I can't be your friend unless you ask me to be your friend. If you do extend the hand of friendship, then we should get to know each other and see if we have anything in common. I go on the belief that Lush is the hangout of erotic writers who are the brightest minds and the most cultured thinkers, and I make friends with writers who demonstrate that. I am an older man (early 50s) and my mind is my best sex organ, but before I use it for sex I would like to use it for dear friendships.
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I had always liked older men, from the time I was a young teen, I have reversed. ^0^ Go fig (?)

But would I...

1. Drop him quick?
2. Feel sorry for him and lie to him to make him feel better?
3. Take one for the team, then ignore him in the future?
4. Enjoy receiving from him and help him get the most satisfaction that he can?

I believe we should treat others as we would want to be treated. It depends on if I am attracted to the person emotionally and what I am wanting. I would feel bad for that person and try to make them feel better, OF COURSE -and I would want to give and receive satisfaction. It would all depend on if I am wanting a companion, if they might want to travel or like things I like and have shared interests and if "those" sorts of feelings are there are not. I have friends who I dearly love that are older and share that same thing and some are very attractive men, but those feelings are just not shared or there so they remain just a friend. Otherwise I would not be so shallow or dismiss so quickly. Sex is still very important to me so other aspects would have to be there for it to work together. No chemistry, no connections, no go anyway.
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No. 4 every time. I have had some wonderful lovers / playmates in this category. Almost without fail they are considerate, skilled, sexy minded and Giving. I like giving pleasure, so I appreciate their desire to give pleasure to me. And they are usually VERY GOOD. Tongues always get hard.