Why do people misrepresent themselves with pictures they claim are them, but are in fact some hot model/person. It is b.s. I appreciate anonymity, but it's really frustrating. It's hard to be turned on with these guys when they could be fat slobs hidden behind six pack abs. Just venting; women do that, and where better than a forum? There is reverse Google picture search. A blatant misrepresentation, unless they mention it is not them or obviously not them ( famous person, etc....) Are there any proven hot men on here? Proven by Skype. I have skyped two men, and each one said their camera was broken (yeah right!). I still turned mine on because I want people to know it is really me. My man is super fine (someone whose picture would be used as one's avatar); he just happens to be away for a long time. I just think of him when chatting. Maybe that's for the best anyhow.
My avatar is me, mostly because I am too lazy to do a Google search for an image I like, and because it kind of weirds me out to use someone elses' photo to represent...me. As to why other people use random images to represent themselves, my guess is insecurity about one's body, a desire to remain completely anonymous and unidentifiable, and/or a desire to attract whatever sex one wishes to attract through deception.
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I have mixed feelings about this . Yes I think people should be honest about who they are and what they look like. At the same time it can ruin the sex apeal. Then a women in real life is always showing off hr good gor the whole world to see what are left with? Lust comes before you even deside shes attractive or even worth you time. Mystery breads curiosity, curiosity breads the quest to know more. Then comes trust and acceptance.
I have mixed feelings about this . Yes I think people should be honest about who they are and what they look like. At the same time it can ruin the sex apeal. Then a women in real life is always showing off hr good gor the whole world to see what are left with? Lust comes before you even deside shes attractive or even worth you time. Mystery breads curiosity, curiosity breads the quest to know more. Then comes trust and acceptance.
Some people are not here to hook up with people they are here to write stories and read stories. Not everybody is interested in skyping and revealing their true identities.
Some people are married and wish to keep this private. I can understand why people do not put there real pictures on their avatars.
I think if you are chatting with somebody and become very close and maybe are in a cyber relationship. Then that is when pictures are shared between each other.
This is a very tired and thoroughly beaten up subject...
Why shouldn't they? This site is about sexual fantasy. Who are you to decide what fantasy is worthy and what fantasy is not
this again? seems like i'm rolling my eyes a lot this morning..
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Let me rephrase the question slightly...
Why are people so naive?
"Trust no one" and "Everybody lies" are my two catchphrases when dealing with people online.
People are here for their own reasons, not anyone else's
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Why not read some stories instead
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Quote....I can see through bullshit instantly.
Also, I want to mention that I am not interested in seeing your cock nor knowing it's size.
I am completely in love.
I am faithful and not looking for anything here with anyone.
I am interested in people, not their private parts.
I completely agree and I don't really understand it. For me, this is the place where you should be 100% yourself, if ever there was proof that there is someone for everyone then Lush is it. I try my best to show myself and be myself completely freely and without prejudice. If people don't like it then so be it, but those that do at least like you for who you are.
The world be a better, more understanding place, if we felt we could be as honest out there as we can be in here.
I try not to think as those that don't see it that way as being insecure rather than being manipulative.
I myself think men and women today, with all the new means at our disposal to make them more and more attractive, still know they can never match up to the doctored photo which they are DECEIVED into believing could REALLY be them if they do X, and Y and Z!! So it is almost impossible to really live up to what is supposed to be "beautiful" and "sexy" in real life. Just look at how plastic we ALL know the people of Hollywood are...they spend millions on their faces and bodies. If THEY are that insecure (probably about making money and getting parts), then how in hell are we supposed to feel????
Thus, we have to turn to fantasy because reality, made up of real honest-to-goodness people, is not good enough for us. That is what we are constantly being told: YOU do NOT measure up...buy this, do that....whatever it takes.....
To me, it is all NIHILISM---the philosophy of life that says NOTHING is worth being valued. Young men and women don't stand a chance against the onslaught. Parents really have no way to protect their kids from it. We all start at an early age to dislike what our Mamas gave us.
Let's give ourselves a break...please.
Never forget, there are no rules on the internet. You never know what you're going to find. Everyone has different expectations.
