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Guys-would you rather be with the woman you love or be who the one loves you

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Would you rather be with the woman who loves you or be with the one you love and why.

(And yes, they have to be two seperate women.)
Devil's Advocate
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Pros and cons, both.

They say it's always better to be the one who loves most in a relationship. I guess it's because you have the one you want. But with that may come the insecurity that they're always keeping an eye out for the one they really want.

The other way around would be safe, secure and comfortable, knowing that your partner truly loves you. But you could also feel smothered by a sense of obligation and the opportunity cost of missing out on someone who is better suited to you.

As I said last night, don't over think it. You can't rationalise love. Feel what you feel, and if that lands you in a healthy, respectful relationship, then you're golden.
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I would much rather be single.
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If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with.
But honestly, If I had to choose... I agree with BluRootz, I'd rather be single.