I have notice that most women on this site would rather have a three way with two men. Could be with husband or boyfriend and another man. Not to many want to share there husbands/boyfriends with another women. In my case it seems that my wife does not want me to be touch by another women but has no issue with another man touching me or me touching him in a sexual way. So what I think she is not afraid of me leaving her for another man but would be for another women. Also she has told me that watching another man doing me would be a turn on and that she would like to do another man and have me watch. I would like to know what all you ladies think about this.
Personally, I don't think I would ever have a threesome. Sure, I've fantasized about it MMF and MFF but when it comes down to it I wouldn't want to share my man with anyone. Period. But since yournwife is open to another man but not another woman I would say it could be insecurity (she thinks you many enjoy what another woman more than her) or just possessiveness (she doesn't want to share you with another woman because you are hers and she would like to curb stomp any woman who would try to touch you) . Either way, chances are she won't budge on the issue and if you did get her to do it reluctantly she probably wouldn't be very happy or satisfied. The idea of sharing you with a guy is more comfortable to her probably because the chances of you enjoying another man more than her are slimmer. Also it just sounds likes she's really thought about it and fantasized about it and it just really turns her on. How open are you to trying it?
I think it only matters what the two of you think! We don't live your lives and you don't live ours.
I couldn't do a three-way. I only have sex with people I am truly intimate with.