I could really do with a hug right now but being in a very long standing sexless marriage with no intimate contact, hugs are not on the agenda !
I have to put up with dreams and fading memories instead but they lack the warmth and sincerity of a hug.
Oh well better just get on with the day and put it got the back of my mind again
Sam
Aww..giving you lots of tight hugss..
Squeeze, squeeze, squeeze.
Arms around pulling you tight. put your head on my shoulder and I'll hold you tight. I need one of those myself.
*taking you into my arms, giving you a warm, loving hug, kissing your left cheek gently* you need to do what Brocck said, and be brave, get your arse out of that relationship.
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Folks thanks for your comment and support
Sam
I really feel for you, Mate. That's a shit situation to be in.
I'd suggest you think about talking to your wife, but I see from your other posts that she's not interested in engaging in that sort of discussion. If she's unwilling to talk to you, couples counselling might be an option.
At the very least, I'd recommend maybe seeking out some counselling for yourself, even if she won't go with you. You've got to figure out what you want, and more importantly, how you're going to achieve that. Whether it's coming up with strategies to cope with the current situation, improving the relationship with your wife so your getting your needs met, or finding the strength to move on.
You deserve to be happy. You really do.
But to be brutally honest, the only way things are going to get better for you is when the fear of things staying the same outweighs the fear of making a change. It's up to you.
In the meantime, you've got a squeezey Daddysweetheart hug to keep you going, and they're worth lining up for. To say nothing of the others. Hell, I'll even throw in an awkward, manly hug of my own.
All the best, Mate. I really wish you well.
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Sam
Hi Kiera, thanks for that, it was just what I wanted !
Sam
Hugs are so underrated. Gives that warm & squishy feeling, whether it be from a lover or a friend.
Thanks for that, love the name and avitar
Sam
Thank you for your kind and thoughtful words: you are without doubt an inspiration.
I would naturally want to wear more suitable attire to accommodate your hug so as not to confuse this gesture with anything more that simply human friendship because, I too adhere, and always will do, to the commitment made several decades ago.
Sam
(Ps do hope you take your Earl Grey tea in its purest form without the addition of competing colour or flavourings )
Hope you are doing well Sam!!! Haven't talked to you in a while! Have a great day!
