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Ladies, please share. What are some sexy moves a guy has made on you OUTSIDE the bedroom ?
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Casual and laid back always gets my attention.
Now matter where - no matter what - if he's easy going, lounging against the hood of his car or talking at leisure with others - I'll notice. Funny, no effort at all is made. I also like guys who walk with a swagger - and read.
The book store is like a soft-porn shop. Geez.
Now matter where - no matter what - if he's easy going, lounging against the hood of his car or talking at leisure with others - I'll notice. Funny, no effort at all is made. I also like guys who walk with a swagger - and read.
The book store is like a soft-porn shop. Geez.
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like most women, confident and funny is a pretty great turn on. (although i have noticed that a surprising number of men somehow believe that "being an asshole in public to me and my friends" will be interpreted by us as both confident and a laugh riot.)
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like most women, confident and funny is a pretty great turn on. (although i have noticed that a surprising number of men somehow believe that "being an asshole in public to me and my friends" will be interpreted by us as both confident and a laugh riot.)
LOL - yes - there's a huge difference. One shows the guy is easy going in life and less likely to get bent out of shape. The other shows he's more likely to get bent out of shape if you can tolerate being around him long enough to get there.
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Not any actual moves, but a guy in jeans, cowboy boots and a cowboy hat is a huge turn on.
If he's a good dancer and has the patience to teach somebody that isn't, that's even more so.
If he's a good dancer and has the patience to teach somebody that isn't, that's even more so.
"Look up to the sky, you'll never find rainbows if you're looking down."
- Charlie Chaplin
- Charlie Chaplin
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When guys try what they think are sexy-moves, I'm usually unmoved! I love intelligence, conviction, and wit, measured with a tad of irreverence. ...more than a tad! I go for rebels and lone-wolfs who aren't afraid to be different. ...especially when they have a sexy bubble-butt! :-)
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Talk nerdy to me.
Seriously, treat me like Ive got a brain in my head. Im not afraid to get my hands dirty, dont treat me like a barbie, or a ditz. Im neither. Use decent grammar. I dont expect that you speak like a english major, but I do expect you to have a grasp of the language. 'Axing' me if 'I seen it', will get you the door, not in my pants.
oh and drive, I love a guy who can drive. not just get in and go for a ride, but climb on the bike, get behind the wheel, drop it in low 1, and drive(with or even without your clutch)
Seriously, treat me like Ive got a brain in my head. Im not afraid to get my hands dirty, dont treat me like a barbie, or a ditz. Im neither. Use decent grammar. I dont expect that you speak like a english major, but I do expect you to have a grasp of the language. 'Axing' me if 'I seen it', will get you the door, not in my pants.
oh and drive, I love a guy who can drive. not just get in and go for a ride, but climb on the bike, get behind the wheel, drop it in low 1, and drive(with or even without your clutch)
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Idk. I'm kind of weird in a sense that I'm usually attracted to the quiet guys. Maybe it's because I'm awkward myself but I think that the quiet ones are the ones with the biggest thoughts. And with that with a little bit of encouragement makes awesome conversation.
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I like unexpected contrasts... the jock with a brain, the tough guy with a sweet soul, the rebel with a heart of gold, the successful guy with an off-beat sense of humor, the seemingly jaded player that's a closet-dreamer, the intellectual that's a totally dirty fuck.
Basically - be a bit of a puzzle that intrigues and tempts me to want to solve (or at least attempt to solve). And flirt. Establish that psychological chemistry. And then be real - get me into a conversation where I let my guard down and where we can just chill and relate and laugh.
If you lay all your cards on the table and it's all too easy and predictable and flatliner polite, it's harder to hold my interest. Unless you're damn hot. ;)
Basically - be a bit of a puzzle that intrigues and tempts me to want to solve (or at least attempt to solve). And flirt. Establish that psychological chemistry. And then be real - get me into a conversation where I let my guard down and where we can just chill and relate and laugh.
If you lay all your cards on the table and it's all too easy and predictable and flatliner polite, it's harder to hold my interest. Unless you're damn hot. ;)
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Ladies, please share. What are some sexy moves a guy has made on you OUTSIDE the bedroom ?
Most definitely, with a former boyfriend, sexy was taking me in his arms and slow dancing with me in the kitchen.
Sexy, out and about .... manners!!
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A turn-on outside the bedroom?
This might sound a tad odd, but shatter my ego. Nicely. ie. beat me in something, then kindly show me how you did that tricky shit.
Strike that neat balance between being a fierce competitor and a perfect gentleman and you might get a damp thong tucked into your pocket. Maybe more ;-)
It also doesn't hurt to look good while at it..
This might sound a tad odd, but shatter my ego. Nicely. ie. beat me in something, then kindly show me how you did that tricky shit.
Strike that neat balance between being a fierce competitor and a perfect gentleman and you might get a damp thong tucked into your pocket. Maybe more ;-)
It also doesn't hurt to look good while at it..
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Ladies, please share. What are some sexy moves a guy has made on you OUTSIDE the bedroom ?
The way he smiles at me.
The way he says my name.
His laugh.
His mind.
The way he smells right after a shower.
When we cook together.
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"Moves" outside the bedroom huh? ... that are turn-ons to me?
Danced well with/having fun &/or chemistry "moments" (including sultry eye contact).
Dipped backward, kissed and dipped backwards.
Low, hushed whispers in my ear that speak 'well' those just right words, (a real refined skill-because they cannot be just said or just 'any' words).
Swooped up, picked up, taken in arms, cradled/carried.
A SUPER kisser - one who enjoys kissing as much as I do and appeals to share & keep sharing!
Someone who is my match- likes to play games I like, or who can sword fight, or is a real badass (bad boy/sweet inside) and can have that flirty dangerous rapport and keep up with me or exceeds me at times.
Slipping in the shower with me.
Making up a sexy story with me as the main character.
Someone who can sing.
I think an attitude that is sexy... sensual and instinctual, sexually and in general -gets me! (This can be shown and demonstrated in a number of ways, including their carriage, and ways they just are and how they handle themselves or take charge or how laid back, etc.)
Humility really melts me, and a humble and candid person (that is not to say that cannot exude confidence too)... speaking raw and personally, real about themselves and feelings and are not afraid or are just willing. (As I do NOT like someone shy). A turn on is that balance of knowing "when," as well as when NOT to speak, and "how" they speak. (That may not be a "move" per se, but it darn sure can act as one on my list!) Choice of words.
Silly-fun play with abandon (whether it is a wrestling tickle fest fight or chasing each other around and I am screaming or scheming a move to surprise attack-sometime done spontaneous and with real abandon!)
Offering me something instantly without being asked that fills a need, even a simple and non sexual one.
Politeness, good manners, as well as good spelling and good grammar if they are sexy and we have a spark, coupled with the ability to grab my tush or grab me without shame or without continuing to "ask" - not asking permission, and having a feel for when to grab me, when to kiss me!
Not just good hygiene, smell good, nice teeth, nice lips, but REALLY "cool" hair (lol - combo works as a "turn on") ~ if they are not narcississtic and compliments me, and are into me as well and demonstrates this. (Whether the person of my interest smells my air or neck or sniffs the air about the scent of my perfume... etc.) Getting up close behind me, touching against me and putting arms softly around me while they tell me how nice I look... that is a nice move, even if it is a surprise, or comes with a long stem rose, or a kiss.
A hard on! Someone horny, high sex-drive, wants to keep going, not stop, enjoys, shares kinks and interests, and LIKES to discuss this, explore, as well as do these things with me, be open and very excited-into me, and only me, and CLICK.
Someone who knows how to dominant/take. Someone who knows "when" and desires to often. Someone who knows how to talk dirty. Someone who knows "how" to pick up my fantasies and act on the drop of a dime in many ways.
Knows how to kiss my neck or how I like my breasts grabbed....and does it!
Someone good with their hands, creative, makes something for me or does something impressive to me. (A song they wrote for me, a poem they wrote for me, plays an instrument that woos me and plays just for me, makes some special, wonderful artwork for me, makes me a card or some gift from their heart.)
Likes oral sex. Likes to be affectionate, likes affection. Likes some PDA. Fantasizes about me and tells me things that are backed up by actions, in demonstrative ways, little and big... wants to spoil me, please me, serve me, in touch and other non-sexual and sexual ways. TOUCH--likes it, enjoys, yes, does it, yes, but has that special touch. Such is about daring, senusality, timing, and whether that "move" actyally sends that ripple of butterfly feelings and tingle.
Gifts CAN be a turn on move, (but alone they are not always a turn on, no), just like thoughtfulness, keeping their word, remembering certain things, flowers, cards, little things, hand made things, and a genuine willingness to use all these things together~ and it isn't about the money as much as the thought or care.
A GOOD and willing, enthusiastic person and travel companion. A great place and with the right person can be a HUGE turn on, whether a night or an adventure... (and repeats). 'Or someone who can plan a really great date or be spontaneous and do something I really enjoy... (whether out and about, or going somewhere, or staying in.)
A person who is positive and has a positive attitude by nature - happy around me, can be just as much an aphrodisiac as anything, and if there is a desire for the naughty stuff to do together too, can talk as easily together as get down and dirty-easy and natural and positive together -is better than arm around the waist or an expensive suit picking me up in a really nice and sexy car. (Not to say that private jets are not good, too.) Someone always willing to make amends and apologize, as well as meaningful.
These are just to name a few -off the top of my head.
Danced well with/having fun &/or chemistry "moments" (including sultry eye contact).
Dipped backward, kissed and dipped backwards.
Low, hushed whispers in my ear that speak 'well' those just right words, (a real refined skill-because they cannot be just said or just 'any' words).
Swooped up, picked up, taken in arms, cradled/carried.
A SUPER kisser - one who enjoys kissing as much as I do and appeals to share & keep sharing!
Someone who is my match- likes to play games I like, or who can sword fight, or is a real badass (bad boy/sweet inside) and can have that flirty dangerous rapport and keep up with me or exceeds me at times.
Slipping in the shower with me.
Making up a sexy story with me as the main character.
Someone who can sing.
I think an attitude that is sexy... sensual and instinctual, sexually and in general -gets me! (This can be shown and demonstrated in a number of ways, including their carriage, and ways they just are and how they handle themselves or take charge or how laid back, etc.)
Humility really melts me, and a humble and candid person (that is not to say that cannot exude confidence too)... speaking raw and personally, real about themselves and feelings and are not afraid or are just willing. (As I do NOT like someone shy). A turn on is that balance of knowing "when," as well as when NOT to speak, and "how" they speak. (That may not be a "move" per se, but it darn sure can act as one on my list!) Choice of words.
Silly-fun play with abandon (whether it is a wrestling tickle fest fight or chasing each other around and I am screaming or scheming a move to surprise attack-sometime done spontaneous and with real abandon!)
Offering me something instantly without being asked that fills a need, even a simple and non sexual one.
Politeness, good manners, as well as good spelling and good grammar if they are sexy and we have a spark, coupled with the ability to grab my tush or grab me without shame or without continuing to "ask" - not asking permission, and having a feel for when to grab me, when to kiss me!
Not just good hygiene, smell good, nice teeth, nice lips, but REALLY "cool" hair (lol - combo works as a "turn on") ~ if they are not narcississtic and compliments me, and are into me as well and demonstrates this. (Whether the person of my interest smells my air or neck or sniffs the air about the scent of my perfume... etc.) Getting up close behind me, touching against me and putting arms softly around me while they tell me how nice I look... that is a nice move, even if it is a surprise, or comes with a long stem rose, or a kiss.
A hard on! Someone horny, high sex-drive, wants to keep going, not stop, enjoys, shares kinks and interests, and LIKES to discuss this, explore, as well as do these things with me, be open and very excited-into me, and only me, and CLICK.
Someone who knows how to dominant/take. Someone who knows "when" and desires to often. Someone who knows how to talk dirty. Someone who knows "how" to pick up my fantasies and act on the drop of a dime in many ways.
Knows how to kiss my neck or how I like my breasts grabbed....and does it!
Someone good with their hands, creative, makes something for me or does something impressive to me. (A song they wrote for me, a poem they wrote for me, plays an instrument that woos me and plays just for me, makes some special, wonderful artwork for me, makes me a card or some gift from their heart.)
Likes oral sex. Likes to be affectionate, likes affection. Likes some PDA. Fantasizes about me and tells me things that are backed up by actions, in demonstrative ways, little and big... wants to spoil me, please me, serve me, in touch and other non-sexual and sexual ways. TOUCH--likes it, enjoys, yes, does it, yes, but has that special touch. Such is about daring, senusality, timing, and whether that "move" actyally sends that ripple of butterfly feelings and tingle.
Gifts CAN be a turn on move, (but alone they are not always a turn on, no), just like thoughtfulness, keeping their word, remembering certain things, flowers, cards, little things, hand made things, and a genuine willingness to use all these things together~ and it isn't about the money as much as the thought or care.
A GOOD and willing, enthusiastic person and travel companion. A great place and with the right person can be a HUGE turn on, whether a night or an adventure... (and repeats). 'Or someone who can plan a really great date or be spontaneous and do something I really enjoy... (whether out and about, or going somewhere, or staying in.)
A person who is positive and has a positive attitude by nature - happy around me, can be just as much an aphrodisiac as anything, and if there is a desire for the naughty stuff to do together too, can talk as easily together as get down and dirty-easy and natural and positive together -is better than arm around the waist or an expensive suit picking me up in a really nice and sexy car. (Not to say that private jets are not good, too.) Someone always willing to make amends and apologize, as well as meaningful.
These are just to name a few -off the top of my head.
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Outside the bedroom? One of the sexiest things a guy can do is to cook me dinner and and clean up afterwards. I had a bf years ago who bought crab legs and had the cook at a local restaurant/bar prepare them. He shelled them for me as we talked, all I had to do was eat....happily I complied....
That was our first date and it lasted 6 more years.
That was our first date and it lasted 6 more years.
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Outside the bedroom? One of the sexiest things a guy can do is to cook me dinner and and clean up afterwards. I had a bf years ago who bought crab legs and had the cook at a local restaurant/bar prepare them. He shelled them for me as we talked, all I had to do was eat....happily I complied....
That was our first date and it lasted 6 more years.
I am a very good cook, and I love cooking for people
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I am a very good cook, and I love cooking for people
Yes that IS sexy... and a cool thing to do.
(Now I am craving crab legs!!!!)
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Confident, but not cocky
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Fun loving and someone I can laugh with about anything, even the stupid stuff
Whispering sexy things in my ear when we're out
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Fun loving and someone I can laugh with about anything, even the stupid stuff
Whispering sexy things in my ear when we're out
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Sometimes it might be a look or a smile that will get me going. Sometimes it is a touch or a suggestion.
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women who admit to masturbation.