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redhotmommacita
Posted: Thursday, August 26, 2010 6:42:42 AM

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Quiet a turn on I love to have attention placed upon me.



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Nikki703
Posted: Thursday, August 26, 2010 8:27:51 AM

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I love to be looked at and I love to look too. As long as its not real creepy. And if they make any lewd comments, I usually just ignore them and keep walking. Words never hurt anyone. I love it when a hot guy looks at me on the street. It lets me know that I still got it! The only thing better is when a Hot girl looks and smiles. That gets me wet! I am quite an exhibitionist at times so I may dress sexy with a low cut top or short skirt. If you dont want to be looked at, then you shouldnt dress like that right, LOL.
SilverArdorDragon
Posted: Thursday, August 26, 2010 8:42:41 AM

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Sometimes I don't mind, but a lot of the time I find it very creepy feeling someone staring at me. Maybe thats just who is staring, creepy people.
When I was in high school I had some old guy trying to look down my sweater, thankfully the bus driver I was waiting for walked up to open his bus just then and chased the old guy off. That is one time I truely hated being stared at.
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Posted: Thursday, August 26, 2010 12:06:25 PM

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sensualukcpl wrote:
It depends on the type of stare and who is doing the staring. If I'm dressed in a certain way it's nice to know it's working :) But generally if its accompanied by a nice friendly smile, I will make eye contact and smile back, its a nice feeling to be attractive to a man especially being in my 40's.


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What's this now that I am in my 40's bit. I know there are little boy's out there that would not be interested in woman like us and there are men who are trying to recapture their youth and could not even see us if we walked by in only a Gstring. But be sure there are plenty of men out there who think we are just fine at 40 and maybe better than ever.

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Posted: Thursday, August 26, 2010 2:57:38 PM

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I enjoy being looked at, particularly when my nipples are hard - I like seeing men's eyes follow me !
LusciousLola
Posted: Thursday, August 26, 2010 3:41:34 PM

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Whr 43 wrote:
Just an Ad:

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I had that happen to me today, and I thoroughly enjoyed it.
ShaniceHaughton85
Posted: Friday, August 27, 2010 4:57:39 AM

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Hmmm to be honest like you said it depends what mood im in and who the person is. I dont like a lot of attention and i dont like people staring at me. However if they look for a few seconds and smile then i feel good if they constantly stare till they cant then see you its so annoying and this pisses me off! But which ever woman said she doesnt like it is lying! However nothing more annoys me than getting beeped at!!
Guest
Posted: Friday, August 27, 2010 10:24:18 AM

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Katy1970 wrote:
I enjoy being looked at, particularly when my nipples are hard - I like seeing men's eyes follow me !


It looks like those wonderful nipples are hard all the time. I am sure you get all kinds of attention out in public?

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Guest
Posted: Thursday, September 23, 2010 11:36:14 PM

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I love it. What woman doesn't like to know that a man finds her hot and attractive? a gal can never hear or be shown that enough. When someone lets you know that in words or actions... it can't help but get you hot... especially if they are attractive as well... It adds to your confidence even if you already are a strong, sexy confident woman. Makes me add a little more "sex appeal" in how I walk.
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Posted: Monday, June 17, 2013 1:14:38 PM

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Love it more than I should Embarassed
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Posted: Monday, June 17, 2013 1:14:42 PM

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Love it more than I should Embarassed
She
Posted: Monday, June 17, 2013 1:21:03 PM

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Please.
Be a man and come and say hi. Everything intense, lurking or 'distinctive leery eyes of a man'..is just fucking annoying. grow a pair.
JohnC
Posted: Monday, June 17, 2013 1:36:54 PM

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Indeed, this applies to both sexes.... and both sexual orientations. For me, it depends on who is doing the watching and HOW they are watching. I am at an interesting age where women of all ages seem to find me interesting. Some do the glance, others do the full up and down, and others do the complete eye/head/body follow as I walk by. But I have fund that older women (60-80) are VERY bold when it comes to me. They will often times come right up to me or make an excuse to talk to me. LOL But the younger ones tend to do more "eye flirting". And the ones around my age tend to be more discreet. And yes, I get guys looking as well from time to time, but I know it isn't always sexual. I tend to stand out, in style (not many cowboys here) and in size.

But I can imagine that for a female is it a lot worse since there is a different dynamic involved. For me I don't really get bothered or creeped out.

Now I have done everything from the glance, the flirty smile, to the outright following the female too. But I usually get a smile when seen. So I guess I don't "creep them out". LOL

iWoMan
Posted: Monday, June 17, 2013 2:56:47 PM

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just being looked at or noticed is very nice. even an appreciative wink. but being stared at for a length of time gets a little creepy.
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Posted: Monday, June 17, 2013 2:58:47 PM

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It’s a love/hate thing, being looked at as a sex object can be very empowering in one sense but also make me feel vulnerable as well, weak at the knees if he’s hot, a bit creepy if he’s a dirty old man.

Being lusted after can be a great confidence booster.


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lindseyaggie
Posted: Tuesday, June 18, 2013 1:35:13 PM

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I love to be looked at. If I'm in the right mood I might even flash them.
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Posted: Tuesday, June 18, 2013 8:26:12 PM

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I will never be offended. In fact on my first job while still in college, I used to walk by a construction site at Lunch time. Now those guys know what they like and how to express their feelings.






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Posted: Tuesday, June 18, 2013 8:41:09 PM

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being looked at apreciatively is very flattering and empowering but beeing leered at by creepy weirdos is just unsettling and slightly scary..

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Posted: Tuesday, June 18, 2013 8:42:12 PM

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As a rule, I have no issues with it and actually enjoy it provided it's not that creepy stalker stare (have had a few of those and they are NOT fun!). At this stage in my life, it feels like I get a LOT more attention and even the blatant up-down-licking-the-lips stares from either young men in their twenties or older men in their late fifties/early sixites. I'm not going to complain too much especially when it comes to the younger guys if only because it makes me feel like I still got it...or something...whatever it is and I'm cool with it.

Guest
Posted: Tuesday, June 18, 2013 8:51:32 PM

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okay, being real
if i'm having a good day (feet not touching the ground) i love it' it doesn't matter who's staring. I'll even return your stare with a smile.
if i'm have a so, so day. if the stares are in good taste and comments are clean, you will make my day, you might even see a little skip in my step
bad day, i'm thinking "Get a Life".
Buz
Posted: Tuesday, June 18, 2013 8:52:20 PM

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Staring at women on the street, the beach, the park, wherever, is why God made really dark sunglasses. Of course hanging your tongue out, drooling, and panting like a dog is a sure giveaway. I've got to work on not doing that.

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Metilda
Posted: Tuesday, June 18, 2013 9:00:32 PM

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Lol. My honest reaction: "Is something wrong?" I might do a quick self assessment to make sure my bra isnt showing or I don't have toilet paper stuck to my shoe. I don't usually assume a look or even a stare is a good thing.

One time I did ask what a guy was looking at - I was at the airport and when I'd look to the leader screen I'd catch him looking. So when my paranoia finally got to me he didn't say anything. He just turned red and looked away. So - whatever that means. Lol.

A guy really has to give me some sort of a compliment for me to consider this.

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Posted: Tuesday, June 18, 2013 10:03:27 PM

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Usually think something is wrong...I start checking hair, clothes etc
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Posted: Tuesday, June 18, 2013 10:04:45 PM

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I don't mind being looked at. If I think you're cute you might get a peek :P
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Posted: Tuesday, June 18, 2013 10:04:46 PM

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I don't mind being looked at. If I think you're cute you might get a peek :P
Emerys
Posted: Tuesday, June 18, 2013 10:07:21 PM

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Definitely gives me a sense of power (and makes me feel sexy as hell). Not really a turn on, though, unless the man doing the looking is attractive. But yeah, I definitely like the attention.

It's a huge no-no when a guy approaches you and is persistent in trying to talk to you when you're clearly not interested. It's also a major no-no (and knee in the groin/fist in the face) if someone tries to touch.

Just looking, though? I generally don't have a problem with it unless the guy looks like an absolute creeper.

BethanyRose
Posted: Tuesday, June 18, 2013 11:58:59 PM

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I blush deeply and look away smiling.... Nothing makes you feel better then another man other than your husband undressing you with their eyes.
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Posted: Wednesday, June 19, 2013 12:22:13 AM

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I do enjoy when I am looked at and noticed....like most I feel it is a sense of power...makes me feel like I have it going on that day and also makes me feel like I didn't waist my money on that outfit that I wanted to look good in.
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Posted: Wednesday, June 19, 2013 12:39:43 AM

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It's always good to be noticed, but I get uncomfortable if a guy just stares at my breasts. A quick look is fine, then look me in the eyes while we talk.
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