Forum posts made by freakycactus

The Mist!

Rolling off the bed, I didn't really realise it hadn't happened purposefully until after.

Moving over to someone to kiss their back and accidentally kicking them.

I'm sure there's plenty more but I can't think of them off the top of my head.

Happy birthday, Gav!! Have a great day x

Pushy people. No means no.

I can see why! He must think it's irrevocable if he then finds it acceptable to sell the slave on. Clearly signing a contract with him then gives him this 'right'? I'm still shaking my head and muttering under my breath about it. It's not often I'm at a loss for words but with this I really am. I just want to kick something, preferably that man in the groin, repeatedly!

I watched the video and now I'm looking at the guy's website. I'm in shock and completely at a loss for words.

A few weeks ago by my boyfriend, which means that it's been far too long!

I enjoy being spanked for many reasons, part is the thrill, part is the vulnerability of it and most of it is because of my masochistic side - I enjoy the pain and I enjoy the marks the spankings leave.

I certainly have been jealous in the past but as the others have said, you give yourself a reality check.

I've also had grief from others who have been jealous of my interactions with other men.

I have done it, I met my former Master through Lush, we got chatting and met very quickly after.

Good luck!

This might sound silly but has she asked him to leave her alone? No threats, no getting angry, just a calm and clear, 'I am not interested, stop contacting me.' If not, try it. Tell him there will be no more contact and if he continues to harass her then you will inform the police.

Block him on Skype, try to block his number through the phone company, if that doesn't work then have her save his number in her phone and in the settings forward his calls to voicemail. That way he isn't taking over her phone and she can call other people and doesn't have to worry whenever it rings. Keep all messages just in case you need them, otherwise, ignore him. If he continues to harass her and doesn't get the hint from being ignored, contact the police.

Follow Trinket's advice and you'll be fine. Good luck!

I was with someone who loved me so much he had to spend every second of the day with me, but he didn't want to talk to me because he was engrossed in whatever game he was playing on the xbox - this went on for months, years probably. He saw me checking out Lush one day and told me to join, essentially so that I would sit quietly next to him, he didn't care that I was talking to other people, or what I was talking to them about. As long as I was sat quietly next to him, he was happy.

If I ever told him I needed a cuddle I was made to wait until he got to a convenient place to pause the game, I used to get excited from the conversations I was having on Lush and put his hand on me to feel how wet I was, more often than not his eyes wouldn't even leave the screen.

It sounds like your guy has a lot of issues but it's not up to you to fix them for him, especially when he's giving you what sounds like no support in return. It almost sounds as though he's using you to keep him entertained until the next game is released.

If you don't look after yourself, will he? It doesn't sound like he would. You need to look after yourself and put yourself first, only you can work out what's best for you. I left the guy I was with and I've never been happier, that doesn't mean it would be the right thing for you to do, but it might be worth considering.

Well, it was a Groupon special, the price was supposedly $200+ prior to the discount, which made it less than $40 per head.

Weevils don't eat pumpkins, so I knew it must have been a drop-in of some sort. If it were in the cup to begin with, it wouldn't have been floating on the top.

I know these things happen, I've bought oats / rice / flour / cereal before, which have been kept sealed, and seen those horrible skinny little things.

We carried on the meal after I'd complained. I was totally put off the rest, and although it was really good food, I couldn't enjoy it as hoped.

The owner said to me, "these things happen" and wasn't very apologetic.

NO TIP FOR YOU!

http://upload.lushstories.com/578-soup-nazi.jpg

He's going to end up on eatability.com.,au, for all the wrong reasons...

I'm a waitress and there are times people complain about stupid things, I still apologise, promise to inform the chef, and if necessary, I inform the manager to ensure their issue is dealt with. The idea that you had an insect in your food and their response was, 'these things happen', is disgusting.

You are so gay (p.c. version of course) , i love you

Love you too!

I love Glee, I love it so much that I've been to see the live show, which was incredible. The voices of some of the cast are truly showstopping. The show covers some serious issues but mainly it's just good fun, when I first watched it I was expecting to hate it, I only put it on because I was stuck at work with nothing else to do. I've been hooked ever since!

I'd complain but more than likely continue the meal, but I'd be on high alert to see if I could see anything else crawling in my food. Something like that shouldn't happen but unfortunately, sometimes it does.

I love it, it's a constant reminder of what happened that morning and it leaves me wanting more later

Yes, so that he'd get off me and leave me alone. Thankfully, this isn't an issue anymore.

Edited: It would start because it was worse to say no and deal with the fall out.

People will do whatever they think they can get away with!
For some people , showing that they can push past any boundary is part of the thrill.
for other people , they do try to honor their commitments, but the need for a thrill is still there,
if they aren't getting the thrill, they will start to look for one
some can successfully divert the thrill into other areas
others can bury the need long enough

I took what loverboy said and changed it a little. It isn't about men and women, it's about people. Some will push their luck, some will cheat, some will do whatever it is they can get away with, and some won't even thinking about straying. I'm not sure how gender comes into it.

That phrase fits me perfectly, there is nothing sexier to me than a man in a suit.

The 20 or so babies killed at Sandy Hook is part of this discussion. the value of those lives are somehow important to the Socialist , but the 55 Million US aborted babies (think human fetus turns into a human baby,,, most US States charge a murderer of a pregnant woman with two murders, that of the baby and the mother).

Are you also against vasectomies? Every sperm is a potential life, or the potential for a potential life

From my experience, the 20 year old female being fucked by the 45 year old guy is the one people question. She's assumed to have 'daddy issues', be a gold digger, looking for a sugar daddy.

I usually masturbate because I'm horny and need sexual release, other reasons include, being bored, tired but can't sleep, just woke up but don't want to get out of bed, lonely or feeling a bit blue and think it might cheer me up.

Of course

I'm the same, anywhere around my neck and shoulders, but if he does it properly then my whole body turns into an erogenous zone

I pretty much agree. I like my clit stimulated but then maybe go inside, then my lips, then my ass (never forget the ass, lol), back to the clit. Lick my clit and finger my ass at same time. Explore every part of me. It is all connected.

It seems like most guys either attack the clit and neglect everything else or forget about the clit entirely!! Guys, dont be afraid to ask us what we like. I personally will not think you dont know what you are doing. Just the opposite, Ill think you care more about me then your ego!!

I agree, after all, variety is the spice of life!

And from a guy's point of view... at least THIS guy's..... I find a full bladder to be very distracting and sometimes extremely uncomfortable when having sex; let alone having an orgasm. ;) I like to pee first if possible. Sometimes that is not an option when it is early in the morning though, so I like it best if I am not VERY full. LOL

I'm the same

As others have said, after a run of intense orgasms I become fairly unresponsive, I can't move, speak, think. I can giggle though! I've never passed out but I've come close a few times.

I note the passing months during the first year without celebrating, apart from maybe this Saturday, it'll be 6 months and with him it's extra special. Otherwise, I celebrate yearly.

Normally I'd celebrate the day we became a couple but with him we celebrate the day we met, we became a couple the next day but for me, there's no difference.

Mine joined a while ago, he doesn't use it in the same way that I do but he can see the things I write in the forum, comment on my stories. I didn't invite him to join but I was always honest about my membership here and although it was a surprise when he joined, it wasn't an unwelcome one. I have nothing to hide from him x