Topic Older or younger?
14 Apr 2012 01:34
I'm more interested in whether or not there's a connection with someone than their age, they might be a couple of years younger, 15+ years older, or somewhere in between.
Topic Things that scared you as a kid and maybe still do.
12 Apr 2012 09:40
jeepers creepers... dah! i'm still scared of that creature though its just a movie
The first time I saw that film, my friend's brother kept jumping out at me, I've been jumpy ever since. Even Buffy makes me jump! I'm not allowed to hold drinks or food during scary bits in tv shows or films anymore.
Topic The Use of the Word "Baby"
04 Feb 2012 08:22
I have always hated being called babe. It's a lazy way to ensure you don't forget someone's name. Other pet names aren't so bad, but babe makes me want to snarl at the person calling me it.
I'm coming round to baby, but it's a struggle, if said in the right way by the right person then it's not much of an issue, but still feels a little wrong.
Topic Lush V2 Bug List
15 Jan 2012 05:39
Although I've had a few PMs, comments and the like these last few days, I haven't received any notifications via email, which I usually do...
(I haven't changed my settings or anything)
I'm having the same problem.
05 Jan 2012 02:52
I'm intimidated when I send bits to friends for them to read, when I submit it, when comments start coming through - it sometimes takes a while to read them. I calm down after the first few comments come through. I know I'm not up to the standard that lots of others here are, but people seem to enjoy what I write, and give it a month, I can even reread my work.
Topic What was your first vehicle you owned?
02 Dec 2011 08:18
I think it was something like this....
I always wanted one of those *sigh*
Instead my first was a Nissan Micra, still is :)
Topic Spankings !
29 Nov 2011 06:36
Not sure who you are wanting a spanking from ... your post says "from my OH".
I believe you are wanting an over the knee (OTK) type of spanking. (or maybe more...) but depending on your partner ... that is a good place to start. If you can talk about it with your partner and discuss what he/she wants that is a good idea.
Most OTK spankings are done with the hand only. Not to say a paddle or ruler or other type of device can not be used.
Dressed in blouse, bra, skirt, panties, stockings and heels is a very erotic way to start a spanking. Your partner (if sensual and experienced) would most likely begin spankings through your clothing with rubbing in between ...
He/she would most likely lift your skirt up and pull your panties down to your mid-thighs for spanking your ass directly ...
The sky is the limit here ... it all depends on your partner....
Hope this helps.
OH = other half :)
Topic Where, What and with whom?
18 Nov 2011 06:49
On a boat in the middle of the ocean, nothing but water and sky in sight, curled up with him under a blanket looking at the stars.
Topic small cocks
14 Nov 2011 16:41
Well there's small and then there's ludicrously tiny. I had a flatmate once and I swear his was no bigger than my little finger. Now granted that was not erect, but I don't see that anything that microscopic was going to enlarge significantly enough for me to know when it was actually in play.
And no...I never went there. So I really can't say. Actually most of my partners have been pretty average sized. I see nothing wrong with an average penis. It's the bloke on the other end of it that needs to be extraordinary.
Ever heard the phrase, 'I'm a grower not a shower'? For some it's true. Flaccid they may seem tiny, but they can sure as hell grow into something very satisfying
Topic Can't access my profile?
14 Nov 2011 06:26
A couple of other people have mentioned the same issue on the V2 bug list
Topic What is the most important "life lesson" you have learned?
14 Nov 2011 06:11
Be true to yourself.
Live your life and enjoy yourself - smile and laugh as often as you can.
As my Dad always used to say, shit happens - deal with it. Surround yourself with people you love, and who love you, and you can survive pretty much anything.
And yes, try to do as much for yourself as you can, but you should ask for help when you need it. I'm still learning this one, and will struggle on and on without asking for help.
Topic Favorite little things in relationships
14 Nov 2011 05:46
The shared smiles when you look at each other, whether it's catching each other's eye across a crowded room, over the table as you're eating a meal, or lying in bed together all snuggled up.
The moment his arms close around you, and everything else fades away.
Topic Where do you like the cum?
09 Nov 2011 01:38
If a guy cums on me then I prefer it around my stomach, because it's in the best place to be rubbed over my body and on my pussy. My absolute favourite place for someone to cum is inside my pussy, yes it gets messy, but that's part of the fun.
Honestly, I'm really not that fussy when it comes to cum, I just want it
Topic Have you shown your work to your other half?
08 Nov 2011 02:22
When I was with my ex, he read my stories, and was the first person I went to for feedback. It had been his idea for me to join Lush in the first place, so there was never any reason to hide anything from him.
Topic Are there different levels of unfaithfulness ?
07 Nov 2011 01:11
No, nope, not even a little bit. Cheating is cheating, if he's willing to betray me in that way once then I would really struggle to trust him again - and what is a relationship without trust? And as much as the act itself would bother me, what I'd have a bigger problem with, is the fact that it got to the stage in our relationship where things were bad enough he'd seriously considered cheating (clearly enough to do it), and he didn't come and talk about the issues with me.
If it turned out he'd only done it because the opportunity came up and he'd gone for it thinking he wouldn't get caught, he'd have to get out door quick, because there would be a hell of a lot of stuff flying at his head.
Topic Reader's Pet Peeves
06 Nov 2011 07:17
Phrases like, 'love tunnel', 'love cave', or the latest little gem I've just read, 'juicy jugs'. They stop me from being able to take the story seriously.
Text speak - you have the use of a keyboard, and you're nowhere near to hitting the word limit, spell your words properly.
Lack of punctuation and over punctuation. And the overuse of full stops. Stop it, it makes my head hurt!
Impossible movements, 'Standing behind her he bent her over and pushed her face into the carpet, before kissing her hard on the mouth' - really? Is one of them a contortionist? Or does he have magical powers so he can move his lips onto inanimate objects like carpet?
Generally it's any story that leaves me reaching for a red pen, or wanting to roll up a newspaper and hit the writer on the nose with it.
Topic Turn ons, turn offs?
06 Nov 2011 02:28
Tall (6'+), confident, intelligent, funny, doesn't take themselves too seriously, a great smile, lovely eyes and the ability to give amazing hugs - put a man like that in a suit and my knees'll turn to jelly.
Ultimately, the rest (job, hair length, body type) doesn't really matter. Although, I have found since joining Lush that I have a thing for southern men - didn't see that one coming.