Forum posts made by freakycactus

Topic Happy Birthday, TheDevilsWeakness!
Posted 14 Aug 2012 06:56

Happy birthday! Have a great day x

Topic Why Do People Have to Be So Crap?
Posted 04 Aug 2012 08:24

Some people are just ignorant little shits. When you KNOW better, you DO better. As others have said before me, it's a reflection upon them, and not YOU, my dearest Daisy. And again, as others before me have said, you are just pure delight. You outshine those miserable fuckers even on your WORST day. Your existence doesn't need to be justified, sugar plum. Everything that you are is one of the few good/beautiful things in this fucked up world. No one will ever know the exact reasons why people feel the need to put down a random stranger on the street. My best guess would be that they're compensating for something missing in their own pathetic lives. I personally see no reason why any well-adjusted human being would feel the need to so carelessly bring down another. But alas, them putting you down says EVERYTHING about them and nothing about you. I'm gonna close my eyes for a minute and mentally send you the biggest hug I can muster...Big Hugs I hope you felt it!

And also, I'm gonna teach you a philosophy I've been living by since I was 18 years old (legal here in the states). It's called the "3 'F' Rule", and it's a bit silly, but it's helped me to put things into perspective: If they're not F eeding, F inancing, or F ucking you, then their opinions don't matter...unless you want them to.

I don't have anything to add to what's been said but I just wanted to echo what others have said, particularly the bolded bits. We've never spoken, just exchanged a message or two in the forum and I know that what I've bolded is true.

I hope that never happens to you again but some people are just shit so it probably will, if it does, just remember all the replies you're getting on this thread. People feel this strongly because of the impact you've made since joining - this is how much everyone loves you.

Topic What's making you happy right at this moment???
Posted 04 Aug 2012 07:38

Crazydiamond! It's her handiwork in my forum signature, such a lovely surprise :)

And, someone very special, I think he'll be making me happy for a while

Topic Relationship Status
Posted 30 Jul 2012 05:31

In reverse order:
It's complicated
In a relationship
Homewrecker
Fuck buddy
Single

Topic What's making you happy right at this moment???
Posted 27 Jul 2012 08:42

Being in the list of top authors on the front page.

Topic Man and Woman
Posted 25 Jul 2012 01:36

Unfortunately, I don't have the time to watch the videos, my internet is so rubbish it would take all day for them to load and kill the internet for everyone else. I might let them load overnight and watch them in the morning. I did watch the first minute or so of what she said and the idea that men have always been put last is laughable, the idea that men are being put last in today's society, is laughable.

In the UK at the moment the government are trying to implement laws that will further widen the public sector pay gap between men and women, the job losses within the public sector are hitting women harder than men, and it was just a few years ago that the government had to be set a second deadline to provide a strategy to end violence against women because they failed to meet the first one.

Topic Having Sex for Desperately Needed Money
Posted 24 Jul 2012 03:28

A couple of years ago I was living with my now ex boyfriend, he'd had a nervous breakdown and wasn't working, I was only working part time and my savings were disappearing fast. If someone would have offered then, I'd have thought about it and done it, now, I doubt I'd really think about it before accepting the offer.

Topic Happens for a Reason
Posted 23 Jul 2012 15:20

as my Dad loves to say, "Shit happens."

I wanted this on my dad's headstone, mum said no because she didn't think the grandparents would appreciate it :(

Topic what gets a check mark
Posted 22 Jul 2012 13:52

Hmmm.... quite a few things, with more to come I'm sure

Topic Orgasms
Posted 22 Jul 2012 10:38

It sounds like you've got to the point where you'll be thinking about this a lot which must make it difficult to relax enough to have an orgasm.

When you've got some time, when you'll be uninterrupted, spend some time relaxing and exploring your body, teasing yourself, maybe leave the toys and just use your fingers. It might take a while, it might take a few attempts, but try it and see what happens.

Topic Is This What It's Like...
Posted 21 Jul 2012 08:02

Thanks for this shylass, now I want a custard filled donut!

Topic What's making you happy right at this moment???
Posted 21 Jul 2012 06:39

My latest story is up and is getting some lovely feedback and I lost 1lb at weight watchers this week, just another 10.5lbs to go :)

Topic Can I get an interview with you?
Posted 21 Jul 2012 03:33

Introduce the title of your story: How a Slut Should be Treated
Genre/Category: BDSM although there are lots of other elements in it as well.
Provide the link: http://www.lushstories.com/stories/bdsm/how-a-slut-should-be-treated.aspx

1. What first inspired you to write this particular story? A friend suggested it.

2. How did you come up with these characters? They're all based on people I know and as always, the main character is based on myself.

3. How does it differ from some of your other stories? There are more than two characters, there are three in this one and there's more of a build up to the main action.

4. What was the most challenging thing about writing this piece? Writing the build up, there's a big decision made at the beginning of the story, to allow someone else into this couple's sex life, there's a lot of thought, worry and anxiety even after they've made the decision and I needed to get that across to the reader.

5. Anything else you want to tell us about it? Out of every story I have, this one has more of everything, more characters, more highly charged emotions and probably the dirtiest sex scene I've written so far. I'd love to write a second part, the ending has been left open to allow me to do that and to, hopefully, leave the reader wanting more.

Topic You're so pretty/gorgeous/sexy
Posted 20 Jul 2012 23:44



I use that line a lot when talking to people, most often you either get "I'm horny" from them or a decent conversation.


I have to admit, I rarely start conversations with new people, I've noticed that the guys who use a simple opening line are the ones worth talking to

Topic You're so pretty/gorgeous/sexy
Posted 20 Jul 2012 14:39

It drives me crazy too, I don't care if someone's lying when they're calling me gorgeous (well, I do a little), but they need to have at least seen more of me than my boobs before they say it. It didn't help that I posted a story with the line, 'morning gorgeous', because afterwards that's all anyone seemed to say, if I'd have known I'd have changed it to, 'morning beautiful', lol.

I joined a dating site a couple of months ago and someone told me I have beautiful breasts, of course the picture I used on there was a very sedate one. I don't think too many people realise that compliments only work if there's a chance they're genuine.

MoonlightSerenity is right, it's a big improvement to other opening lines, however, none really beat something along the lines of, 'hey, how's it going?' - it's always best to start simple and see where it leads you.

Topic Would you take part in Bukkake if you had chance?
Posted 20 Jul 2012 06:48

I love the idea of a group of men taking it in turns to fuck me, using every hole for their pleasure, filling me with their cum over and over again until eventually all cumming on me - how it would work in reality? I don't know.

So, my short answer is yes.

Topic How do you find that perfect "fit"?
Posted 20 Jul 2012 03:21

What are the qualities do you seek when looking for a new top/bottom? I need to be able to trust them, as others have said, this is the most important quality. I need to know that if I say my safe word, everything will stop. There also needs to be a connection, I met a Dom through a website, we got together and had a good time but something was missing because there wasn't that connection.

Where do you look? That's something I'm still figuring out

What DON'T you want? A bully, or someone who thinks they have what it takes to be a Dom. I also don't want to be one of many subs, I want to be the only one.

Topic circumcised or uncircumcised?
Posted 18 Jul 2012 14:30

do you prefer one or the other - not really, if I *had* to choose, I'd go for uncircumcised

do you have any fetishes with uncircumcised I like to play with the foreskin, it's not a fetish as such, it just seems silly to ignore it when it's there. My ex loved it when I'd tease him with my lips and tongue, I could never play with it for long, because he'd get so hard

is it a special turn on when a guy tells you or when you see that he is uncircumcised... no, it really doesn't make a difference, I'm more concerned about how well he can use it

Topic Do you like to sleep naked?
Posted 18 Jul 2012 14:23

I love sleeping naked and being snuggled up with someone. If I'm on my own then I'm happy to sleep naked unless I'm chilly, then I'll stick my pjs on :)

Topic Profile Criticism
Posted 17 Jul 2012 09:09

Yes, I've had a few people pass comment on the opening line of my profile, 'I'm here for my enjoyment, not yours. If that confuses you, please leave now.'

A few people have told me it makes me seem like a bitch, one even sent me a message asking if I allowed anyone else to enjoy themselves on here. As far as I'm concerned, it clearly did confuse them and rather than leave they felt the need to get in touch.

People who are going to nit pick over your well filled out profile, aren't worth your time and more than likely, they aren't the sort of people you'd want to be talking to anyway.

Topic Ladies, would you masturbate in front of...?
Posted 14 Jul 2012 09:28

Under the right circumstances it's a yes to all of them, although, the stranger and another female would probably only happen if I was ordered to by my Dom (if I'm lucky enough to submit to one again).

Topic If you like to be spanked, what's your preferred 'position' and 'implement' and
Posted 14 Jul 2012 09:02

I'm still being introduced to different types of spanking, during my favourite spanking so far, I was sat on his knee, curled up towards him, with my legs up on the arm of the sofa, and as he held me he spanked me. He cupped his hand in a way that made it a lot more painful than I'm used to - I had marks for over a week - I loved it.

Topic What's making you happy right at this moment???
Posted 12 Jul 2012 14:26

Having another look at the *checks* 8 (8!) stories that are sat unfinished. I started them when inspiration hit, then left them to gather dust. There's some good stuff in there, I'm going to have to put my writing hat on! :)

Topic 50 Shades of Grey - Steak Sauce?
Posted 12 Jul 2012 13:51

The guy is an idiot and he needs a harsher punishment. Having said that, you can't ask, 'what is up with English men!?' based on his actions.

Topic Special Nicknames
Posted 12 Jul 2012 09:17

A couple of friends at school named my boobs after themselves, so one was called Katheryn and the other was Kirsty.

My ex's cock was always referred to as his 'little friend'.

Since then the closest I've ever come to a nickname is him saying, 'mine'.

Topic The 'Girls Getting Off' Survey
Posted 12 Jul 2012 02:39

I tend to stick with my imagination, even if I've been reading a story on here more often than not, by the end my eyes are shut and I'm imagining something different to what I was reading.

Sometimes I need someone else to help out and I will sext, cyber and if the right guy is free then there's phone sex too. Depending on how badly I need to cum I might just text, or send someone a message asking them for their help, i.e. telling me to cum, one word from them does the trick.

Topic How many orgasms have you had in one setting?
Posted 11 Jul 2012 07:29

More than I can possibly count, although we joked once about using tally marks to count them.

Topic What's making you happy right at this moment???
Posted 10 Jul 2012 11:08

A curly wurly and knowing I can go and see my boyfriend for a well needed cuddle

Topic How many of you ladies actually get off when you're cybering?
Posted 10 Jul 2012 10:43

I have... to both cyber and sexting. *not always though*

Then again - I write, so I'm into words and what they can do to turn someone on.

It's about the person on the other end though and what they can do to provoke my thoughts.

Cyber or sexting with some random stranger does nothing for me.


Note: I'm not looking to cyber on Lush, so guys reading this should not be rushing to friend me after reading this post. lol.



Exactly what Doll said.

Topic Wined and dined or Ravished
Posted 10 Jul 2012 09:47

On the first date I want to be wined and dined, the ravishing comes later.