Topic Questions and Answers on a BDSM online Relationship
08 Jan 2013 15:16
1. Are you currently or have you ever been in a D/s relationship online? Yes in the past, but sadly not at present
2. If you have, have you ever had or given daily “homework, chores, requirements, things to do” set by your Dom? Yes, that is an aspect i adore
3. If so, such as what? (Like photos, videos, leaving daily messages, keeping a journal, wearing or saying certain things.) wearing lingerie under clothes and photos in public places to prove, toilet use controls, masturbation control, to send messages at exact pre-arranged times, daily thoughts on being a submissive, certain humiliating tasks daily with photos to prove - god so many things
4. Are you punished if you misbehave? (If you are, how? Spankings, timeouts, apology letters, sexual things taken away.) Deep heat to the cock ( god that is awful ), belts to the arse, chastity, lack of communication with Mistress for a set time ( not good ).
5. Do you have sex with your D/s? If you do, how do you find it easier? (Cyber “typing”, Voice “phone, Skype, or any other means of voicing.” Cam? Pictures?) sometimes. Text if they are Uk based, cyber, long drawn out e-mail conversations, occasionally on phone ( not a great fave of mine )
6. Do you let it be known you’re in a D/s relationship? Online - yes i do, I am proud of it.
7. Are you required to put it on your profile? Not to date No, though i have done out of choice before
8. Are you allowed to add friends at your own will? I have been yes
9. Can you private chat (online messages or pvt messages)? So far yes thanfully
10. Are you allowed to whisper? Yes, i was when in an online relationship
11. Are you in a D/s that is strictly just you and your D/s or do you have real world people your with?. I see a Domme from time to time in real too
12. Why do you have an online D/s? Because it satisfys a craving that i have not filled in a permanent real time relationship to date. I am uncertain if i would still persue if i was in a long-term relationship in real
13. How long have you been in the Lifestyle? - As a Dom for about 8 years, since freeing my sub inner self about two
Topic Do you like a girl that watches porn?
01 Jan 2013 09:52
I love a woman who enjoys porn. In the past i have watched porn with ex girlfriends and enjoyed it.
I have also spent many a long hour chatting to women on here or other sites whilst we both watch the same porn movie. It is great to know what she is doing, how it is affecting her as we watch. I also find that some women reveal much about themselves when recommending a bit of porn for you to watch. Eg they may never admit to wanting to use a strap-on on a guy, but then they send you alink to a clip of a woman doing just that, and they tell you it is turning them on
I use Fantasti.cc - the best porn site i know as it draws from most of the other big porn engines, plus has chat, mail, friends function as well
Topic Golden Showers......
01 Jan 2013 09:39
Personally I adore Golden Showers / Watersports in many ways. Being peed on, toilet control, drinking mine or others - once you get past the initial shock at the thought of it, then it is a wonderful thing
Topic Do you cum? x
01 Jan 2013 09:33
Not every story will make me horny or want to cum, but if the imagery is good then I often cum reading stories, or whilst writing them
Topic Ambition over love?
01 Jan 2013 09:29
I am not sure what the answer is to be honest.
I suspect he is genuine in what he says, but does not yet fully understand the urges of the heart / mind / groin.
I am not sure it will benefit him in the end either, after all without love, romance or sexual desire much of the world's greatest music would never have been written. To make music of any sort requires your soul to be in it, and i suspect a soul without love, will be a soul that makes dire music.
I am sure when the time is right for him, he will find his thoughts changing
Topic have you ever had, or own a penis pumper/butt plug
01 Jan 2013 09:21
I have yet to experience a penis pump i have to admit, but i have certainly tried butt plugs and dildos. I adore having a plug in, especially if I am then made to go out and about with it still there
Topic strap on
01 Jan 2013 09:14
Without a doubt one of my favourite things to have done to me, such an amazing feeling, such a sense of submission. I adore it. To give a woman the power to do this to me is heavenly