Just enjoy them, mrs. ice has her nipples and her vertical hood done she loves both. she says if you want more sensations from your hood piercing to find bigger balls and a shorter shaft and it will put it right where ya want it, just don't stumble when you walk, she gets orgasms from walking around..........

None - I tried ears and belly button but I'm allergic to various things including Nickel and I just couldn't be bothered with the rashes.

might try yellow or white gold, knew a lady who could only wear the white and she was allergic to the yellow

None - I tried ears and belly button but I'm allergic to various things including Nickel and I just couldn't be bothered with the rashes.

AT you might try using real gold in yellow or white,I knew lady who could wear the white gold no problem and she got a rash from the yellow gold. So its something that could take some time to figure out.....just a suggestion.

If goes as planned not much to it. One side of mine was about 3 min and done,2nd side was longer due too scar tissue from younger days when i rode bulls it took about 45 min at least they didnt take me to surgery like they talked about. Ask if I would do again, Isure would its freeing to not to have to hold back on any aspect.........

Find a sitter and take her to dinner and just talk, you cannot do it when the child is around .........So you spend sometime with each other and talk ....

Clothing that can easily be removed, no use fumbling with them if they are going to be coming off! I'd say a short skirt, tank top, and some cute shoes. Very basic, very cute.

Have to agree with Feline here but most of all wear what you figure is sexy and comfortable for you thats what the misses does when we go.....

I am glad to hear that you two had discussions about this and have been open and honest with each other!
Coming from a marriage in which my Hubby and I have been in the lifestyle for decades, I can tell you that if you did not do this completely and honestly with each other from the beginning and continue on, IT WON'T WORK!!!

It's not for everyone! But if it can help enhance your sex play and add to the fantasies or pursuits of pleasures, then it's a good thing!

I like how others made suggestions of seeing others or trying some out of town open swingers events. There are often meet and greets with well organized clubs and it helps people get an understanding of the culture and social environments.

Personally, I would suggest you two continue being open and honest with each other and freely discuss the desires or fantasies you get and then use them as roleplay / foreplay for your personal enjoyment. If this becomes a continual desire for you both, you could also look into finding sex clubs or people who would do non-contact, same room sex or maybe allow you two to be voyeurs and have your own pleasures without the risks of swapping or trading.

Kisses!

Steph

Great advice here you have to talk then talk some more then , you get to talk more about things it all has to be honest and above board ......

1) Yes, i do

2) Yes, it has happened

3) Yes, I Love letting her have fun as we have been in swing for yrs......

I do believe both can co-exist ..... If a person looks at religion as its quoted in the bible your gonna miss alot, it has been rewritten numerous times by clerics who choose to use it as a tool to control and influence thoughts. They just last yr rewrote parts of it again.....lol. In history it was the church at one time who ran the brothels..........

We signed up knowing the risk. Those innocent people in New York didn't go to work thinking there was any kind of risk.
Pvt. Mike Armendariz-Clark, USMC; Afghanastan, 20 September 2001
As reported on page 1 of the New York Times