Forum posts made by jack_42

Never quite understand this self association with some sports team or other of overpaid hooligans.

With a large glass embedded 7 stranded whip wielded by an ice cold blonde in an SS uniform.

I thought you had to be over 18 to be on this site.

I bought a copy of the Salvation Army's Warcry in a pub one night.

You're so ugly that Marilyn Monroe would want to marry you.

Has a good sense of humour. (and I consider that a very important character trait.)

Having spent 20 years in a marriage throughout which I was sexually rejected 29/30 days a catalyst arrived at which point I drew a line in the sand and left to live on my own. I was more fortunate than most in that I saw my two children for several hours every day but handing them back every night was unbearable. During the period of separation my wife and I got on better than we had for years and passion (sex) suddenly returned. All was rosy. I moved back into the matrimonial bed but within a week we had return to 29/30 days of nothing and that has continued ever since.

I would have left but I could not bear to be apart from my boys again, but nor could I handle being celibate. A real catch-22.

Eventually I made the decision to look outside. It was actually very easy to find women looking for ‘friends with benefits' and I now have 3 friends I have sex with. (I think most women are more randy than teenage boys!) . One of my friends I have met for the last six years on average one hour or so per week, and for the other two it has been for three years and we meet once per fortnight and once every three months respectively.

I am neither proud nor ashamed of it. It fulfils my need for a mental and physical intimate relationship whilst enabling me to continue to read my children a story every night before tucking them into bed. My sons are growing up in a reasonably secure loving environment and I am certain they are benefiting from that.


I have no problem with this or any holier than thou advice to give. I feel you are coping with things the best way you can.

Her birthday suit.

As a young man of 20 I was once marooned in the Libyan desert for 2 years so masturbation was the main alternative though in retrospect with a more worldly view I think a few colleagues ''experimented.''

The warm sound of my perfectly in tune Fender Strat going through a Marshall stack on full volume. A perfect blend when the other players do the same so we know we're all in tune and anything can go wrong and we'll cope as long as the basic sound's good.

Somebody mowing the lawn nearby - a reassuring sound of summer and also nice to know they are active and I'm not.

The theme tune for 20th Century Fox as a movie starts. It sort of tells me the world still turns and things are still happening.

This happened when I first started masturbating. I experienced immediately after orgasm a deep wooziness. This eventually stopped though after a few weeks.

You mean people actually count? I don't remember how many relationships (including one night stands) I've had.

Work, on the metro, on the beach, at the pub, well ...anywhere.

lol word gets around about who protects their man!

Is it just me? Doesn't anyone else see the ambiguity in this statement? From whom is he being protected? Or is it a cultural thing?

We could continue to argue, debate or whatever, but obviously you are not going to understand my point of view so I have nothing more to say about it.

A nice convenient way to avoid answering but yawn ok.

Hmmmm..... I usually like something sexy and slow, R&B is really nice. But the old R&B Marvin an Luther etc.... But usually don't listen to music just some candles a bubble bath right before followed by a sensual or erotic massage puts me in the right mood.


I always thought old R and B was Muddy Waters and Howling Wolf and similar guys but I do agree with everything else and regularly perform this with someone.

I'd be flattered but would prefer it to be female.

Yes.

This question is rather closed. Or are you expecting voluntary elaboration?

What question? Your's or the OP's? I answered both, I said what my reaction would be. I was assuming it was the initial reaction that he wanted, and that would be my initial reaction. As for your question, why her, I also answered that up there, because the question was " neighbor female flirting with your husband ". That is why it is the neighbor that would get smacked. If you think that I ignored the part about the husband, look down my later posts and see the picture of the dog house, I in no way, shape, or form forgot about him. If he was flirting back I would obviously deal with him too As for saying you were not insulting, actually it came off pretty insulting. I don't really understand why you are so worked up about the answers, and why the woman gets slapped and not the husband.

Because she is not breaking any trust which is what I thought relationships are based on and as we are, hopefully, past primitive and illogical responses. Again you ignored my reference to the law or do you feel this scenario puts everyone above the law also he may be in the dog house but you did not offer any violence re your husband.

Well that is in "your mind" as you say. Others here have agreed with me, so at least I am with others who are childish. It was after all, Ask the Gals. I gave my opinion and that was it. I don't think there was a need to call anyone "childish". I did not agree with your comment that a married man is fair game, yet did not have to resort to an insult to tell you I did not agree.

Oh I do apologise of course it's so grown up to go around slapping each other and of course the law totally agrees with you. I wasn't actually insulting you I said (and that is my opinion) that such behaviour is childish but if the cap fits. You also only partly answered and ignored the part about the husband.

As Wellmade Male has said - not enough information - is the problem going to be permanent or not for instance? It only temporary then things could get very complicated. But I am not speaking from a moral point of view as most morality is just a convenient method of control and full of hypocrisy, what matters is how you and your partner organise your relationship for your and her comfort not what any social norm dictates.

Haven't meant anybody from Alpha Centauri yet so can't really answer that. When I do I'll let you know.

Well you could say you love eating jam and cheese but you wouldn't say you were in love with them so I suppose loving someone or thing is the more general expression that can be applied in a loving situation or any other area of deep preference whereas you can only say I'm in love with some specific person or persons.

Yes.

Somedays I post a question under one of my other guises and just sit and jack it as the responses pour in. So hot.

:))

I am as I get older getting more fixated with time (it's running out you see) :). Becoming more and more organised and anal retentive. I plan how I will cross a room in terms of efficiency, one example is I know that you should clean your teeth for 2 mins, this means I count off 30 seconds for each side of my teeth as I leave the house each action is designed so that as the key turns in the lock the lift door opens and I step in. I feel this is totally mad compared to my earlier behaviour of normal chaos and running for buses etc.

I can sing, and I can play the guitar..... but I can't do them both at the same time. LOL I forget the words, or I mess up the music.

This is difficult if you're playing fast licks or bass runs. But if you're playing rhythm guitar the way to develop the skill is to write out the words with the chord changes above the words they change on but play it slowly and gradually speed up to the correct tempo; with a little practise you should get this. A very easy one would be a do wop song like Teenager In Love - C - Am - F- G7. My apologies if you've already tried this method.

If I could remember the day of my divorce I would celebrate it.

Bond, James Bond.
i am a huge bond fan and have all 22 movies in my collection and the 2 unofficial bond movies.
can't wait for skyfall to be released.

Just in case you're interested there's a CBS early TV movie where an actor Barry Nelson was the first to play this role.